Safety tips for a first timer?

[godslonelyman]

Hi, I'm a 26 year old virgin and I've booked an escort from Pink Diamond Collective for the next week.

However, I'm feeling very nervous about my security, and getting second thoughts. I worry about being a victim of theft, assault or worse. There are terrifying scenarios running in my mind.

Reading this forum, it feels like it is generally safe to see an escort. However, I still want to inquire about some things which I should take care of!

Which locations are considered relatively safer, and are there some locations which I should avoid?

Also, should I keep my wallet and mobile at my home? I'm considering getting just enough cash for payment and not carrying my wallet. I'm double minded about mobile, because it is an important mode of communication, and I might need to contact my provider when I go to see her.

Finally, I want to enjoy the body of my escort as much as possible, but I don't want to do anything which involves me undressing. I'm mostly interested in DFK and DATY. I'm not interested in BJ, HJ, or anything like that. I'm very self-conscious and I'm uncomfortable in showing my body to someone. Will my provider be OK with me being dressed while she's offering her services? Is it a common thing to ask for?

If you have any other suggestions, please feel free to share them with me!

Thank you very much!

 

[Newb808]

Anything can happen anywhere. As long as the provider from PDC has a good reputation with positive recent reviews , you should be fine at least where she is concerned safety wise. You’re better off with your phone and no real benefit to bringing the wallet but you may want to tip or add a service so maybe bring extra.
That last part, you should reach out to her about that. But be warned not to excessively communicate as time is money etc.

 

[MissingOne]

I suggest making your limits and desires known in advance, so as not to catch the lady by surprise. As Newb808 said, don't take up a lot of time with pre-visit discussions, but since your wishes are a bit unusual, make sure they're known in advance.

 

[riggert]

As long as you stick to PDC or the agencies and girls that are positively reviewed here, you don't really have anything to worry about. It is when you go on LeoList (even "verified") where things can go bad very quickly...

For the second part just let them know ahead of time so that they don't inadvertently do something you aren't comfortable with

 

[Jenna PDC]

Hi, I'm a 26 year old virgin and I've booked an escort from Pink Diamond Collective for the next week.

However, I'm feeling very nervous about my security, and getting second thoughts. I worry about being a victim of theft, assault or worse. There are terrifying scenarios running in my mind.

Reading this forum, it feels like it is generally safe to see an escort. However, I still want to inquire about some things which I should take care of!

Which locations are considered relatively safer, and are there some locations which I should avoid?

Also, should I keep my wallet and mobile at my home? I'm considering getting just enough cash for payment and not carrying my wallet. I'm double minded about mobile, because it is an important mode of communication, and I might need to contact my provider when I go to see her.

Finally, I want to enjoy the body of my escort as much as possible, but I don't want to do anything which involves me undressing. I'm mostly interested in DFK and DATY. I'm not interested in BJ, HJ, or anything like that. I'm very self-conscious and I'm uncomfortable in showing my body to someone. Will my provider be OK with me being dressed while she's offering her services? Is it a common thing to ask for?

If you have any other suggestions, please feel free to share them with me!

Thank you very much!

Hey babe - I'm Jenna. If you want to reach out to me directly I have a few suggestions for PDC providers who I feel are great entry providers for new clients. I'd be happy to help

 

[brownsug]

I would definitely go with an Agency like Asian Fever, CocoCollective, Tempgf, Vancouver Most Exotic .
Also check out the Escort Agency Ad & Independent Escorts Ad section. There also independents like @ExpCharlee that can lead as it’s your first time.
Also be very clear in what you want.
Take the right amount of money + cell phone.
Leave your wallet at home.
When your at their location leave your phone in your pocket (I guess if your not taking off your clothes may be uncomfortable but at least you know you have it)

Read lots of review and stay away from Leolist. Yes for the 90% of time it’s too good to be true and most likely get scammed.
Good luck and have fun guy!

 

[Forum mod]

The tips given here make all the sense you will need should you decide to go through with it.

I will offer only one additional thought and then close this thread as it's bordering on medical advice at this point. It could well be that you are not in the right headspace for this, seeing a paid professional escort is not going to make your personal issues, body image etc any better in all likelihood. Seems like you need professional assistance for your mental and medical health before you add the stress of this activity on yourself.