Anyone had the experience of running into your SP while you're walking down the street/mall/market/etc with your wife/children/girlfriend?
Running into your SP on the street?
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why would you use the word "unfortunate". when you meet these ladies on the street they are not carrying a sign that says "escort". they appear normal actually..and do you give your family a complete run down of everyone you say hi to in passing.
the way you act probably is the give away... not the way the lady responds.
why would you use the word "unfortunate". when you meet these ladies on the street they are not carrying a sign that says "escort". they appear normal actually..and do you give your family a complete run down of everyone you say hi to in passing.
the way you act probably is the give away... not the way the lady responds.
I once bumped into Liana on the street a few blocks from her condo.
She was wearing a beautiful yellow sun dress with black shoes.
She looked absolutely stunning.
We were both alone.
I gave her a smile and she smiled back.
I called her for a session a few days later.
She was wearing a beautiful yellow sun dress with black shoes.
She looked absolutely stunning.
We were both alone.
I gave her a smile and she smiled back.
I called her for a session a few days later.
Yes, you're right, it's not unfortunate until they accidentally give you away but I've never had that experience before. I was just curious about other people who might had that akward experience before.
There was this sp i use to see and then she just dissapeared. One day im shopping at metrotown i see her with her newborn. She reconized me while she's with her hubby and newborn. She started walking quite fast when she saw me and put her head down.
I've bumped into SPs three times.
One was Tianna but she and I have never met (I recognized her from her photos). I didn't say anything.
One was one of Carman Foxes girls that I had seen one month before. She talking to a friend, so I didn't say anything.
The last was a SP that I had been seeing fairly regularly. We were both alone, she said hi and gave me a quick hug. We chatted for about 30 seconds, but we were both short on time and had to move on.
One was Tianna but she and I have never met (I recognized her from her photos). I didn't say anything.
One was one of Carman Foxes girls that I had seen one month before. She talking to a friend, so I didn't say anything.
The last was a SP that I had been seeing fairly regularly. We were both alone, she said hi and gave me a quick hug. We chatted for about 30 seconds, but we were both short on time and had to move on.
""Anyone had the experience of running into your SP while you're walking down the street/mall/market/etc with your wife/children/girlfriend?""
Um, no, clearly it isn't even close...
Um, no, clearly it isn't even close...
you would think this is common sense!
If you and I know each other for many sessions and have become friends outside of business and I am alone then sure say hi...I will be happy to run into you and might convince you to go back to my place for a quickie
If you have never seen me outside of the bedroom...JUST KEEP WALKING.
If you see me on the street and you recognize me from my pictures...
FUCK OFF....and DO NOT PM OR EMAIL ME ASKING IF THAT GIRL YOU SAW WAS ME!!!!!!!!!!!! ewe. creepy.
Blunt fully yours.
D.
If you and I know each other for many sessions and have become friends outside of business and I am alone then sure say hi...I will be happy to run into you and might convince you to go back to my place for a quickie
If you have never seen me outside of the bedroom...JUST KEEP WALKING.
If you see me on the street and you recognize me from my pictures...
FUCK OFF....and DO NOT PM OR EMAIL ME ASKING IF THAT GIRL YOU SAW WAS ME!!!!!!!!!!!! ewe. creepy.
Blunt fully yours.
D.
I think it is way more likely that the SP is afraid of a client saying something to HER in public than the possibility that any remotely intelligent SP would say anything to the client, especially if he is with someone.
I think a lot of guys forget that not all the women in this business share the fact that they are an escort with everyone in town, let alone everyone they know. A lot of us are also (shockingly!) not single. We often have more to lose at being "outed" than the clients do.
However, I guess accidents can happen too:
The closest I have come to doing this to someone was when I was coming out of a store once I noticed a man I recognized, & automatically began the say Hi; I got to about "H-" when I realized he was a client! I awkwardly rushed away. He was standing by himself, & I knew he wasn't married or in a relationship, but it was outside a women's clothing store so I figure he was probably waiting for someone. I was totally mortified. I haven't seen him since. I wonder if it was because he was mad that I acknowledged him or if perhaps he was actually offended that I didn't stop & chat? I have had guys before be hurt that I didn't say hi when I saw them on the street. Or maybe it just was too close to home & brought up some kind of guilt about the fact that he was seeing an escort or made him realize how easily he could be found out. I don't know... Unfortunately I haven't had the chance to explain the situation to him & lost a good regular.
I think a lot of guys forget that not all the women in this business share the fact that they are an escort with everyone in town, let alone everyone they know. A lot of us are also (shockingly!) not single. We often have more to lose at being "outed" than the clients do.
However, I guess accidents can happen too:
The closest I have come to doing this to someone was when I was coming out of a store once I noticed a man I recognized, & automatically began the say Hi; I got to about "H-" when I realized he was a client! I awkwardly rushed away. He was standing by himself, & I knew he wasn't married or in a relationship, but it was outside a women's clothing store so I figure he was probably waiting for someone. I was totally mortified. I haven't seen him since. I wonder if it was because he was mad that I acknowledged him or if perhaps he was actually offended that I didn't stop & chat? I have had guys before be hurt that I didn't say hi when I saw them on the street. Or maybe it just was too close to home & brought up some kind of guilt about the fact that he was seeing an escort or made him realize how easily he could be found out. I don't know... Unfortunately I haven't had the chance to explain the situation to him & lost a good regular.
mortifed prolly
He was prolly mortified.
After all, you have had a connection with this person. Then you stopped, so he probably felt hurt. If he WAS married, he shouldn't feel that way.
I will never get why married men feel the need to see a SP. If that's something they need then I guess that's them.
He was prolly mortified.
After all, you have had a connection with this person. Then you stopped, so he probably felt hurt. If he WAS married, he shouldn't feel that way.
I will never get why married men feel the need to see a SP. If that's something they need then I guess that's them.
It caught me off guard
About year and a half ago I was walking quickly down Robson near Burrard and this Asian girl who was with a girl friend kept looking at me with a smile on her face. I didn't acknowledge her until later I realize it was Lilly! I had only seen her twice and the last time was when she was still on Oak Street. So, it is a strange world after all. Some do remember you after all.
About year and a half ago I was walking quickly down Robson near Burrard and this Asian girl who was with a girl friend kept looking at me with a smile on her face. I didn't acknowledge her until later I realize it was Lilly! I had only seen her twice and the last time was when she was still on Oak Street. So, it is a strange world after all. Some do remember you after all.
agrees with Danika
i totally agree
although it wasnt an SP, some nutcase recognized me in a mall once from a pic in a dating site. it wouldnt have been so bad, but she yelled "hey, i know you: from the other side of the food court. needless to say, i couldnt get away fast enough once i found out who she was. (yes, stupid me stayed for a moment, cuz i didnt know who it was. thought maybe someone i dated in the past or something)
i totally agree
although it wasnt an SP, some nutcase recognized me in a mall once from a pic in a dating site. it wouldnt have been so bad, but she yelled "hey, i know you: from the other side of the food court. needless to say, i couldnt get away fast enough once i found out who she was. (yes, stupid me stayed for a moment, cuz i didnt know who it was. thought maybe someone i dated in the past or something)
lol married or not men like variety!
Some wives after marriage, stop providing sex to their man because things become routine, or they gain weight after kids and no longer feel sexy and are too comfortable to change...or whatever the reason...
the fact remains that men need good sex...I don't think that a married man is nessisarily wrong for seeing an sp. I mean 99% of men wouldn't leave their family obligations for a hoooker...
I look at it this way, Id rather have my man safely "get in and get out" relieve some tension and come home then to be dating some civilian behind my back...
LOL maybe I am more understanding because I can appreciate a girls beauty...
I think if I get married my husband is going to never be deprived of good sex...and maybe we will pick up girls together...sharing is caring lol
As long as Im # one is his world and he is #1 in mine...with good communication we should be able to be swingers without jelousy.
I do know though that I would allow him to experience other women, however I would encourage it to only be with me included....and I would NEVER be with another man unless it was ok with my #1 and most likely it should be, because I am making money or becuase I am fulfilling a fantasy as he would with an escort...
I wonder if there is a marriage out there like that or is my head in the clouds again?!
Yeah it would be really hard to set limits or boundaries on an "open" marriage...but being in this industry makes me realize even if I get married...he can see an sp very easily without me knowing...
I would rather know where my man is and what he is doing and why then to set limits on his freedom and have him lie to me because he thinks hes gonna get in shit...
and vise versa...what if I want to keep that client or two once I have a real career...? do I lie or do I communicate my desires and hopefully be understood...
and then like I said before there is the factor that "I kissed a girl and I liked it" lol...
what if we are out somewhere and I meet a girl who is just as wild and crazy as me, why shouldn't I be aloud to take her home to share with my SO?
and vise versa...why can't my husband look through the escort sites and pick one I like too!
Maybe I just don't see the point in promising to only be with one person for your whole damn life...I don't want to be owned by anyone...
sure I want a life partner...someone who won't leave my side no matter what...but I think Id prefer to keep things real then to say "I will want to sleep with you and only you Forever"...Id be lying...
Who knows ...things might change in the future.
but I think honesty and good communication and trust is more important than monogamy!
I would rather know where my man is and what he is doing and why then to set limits on his freedom and have him lie to me because he thinks hes gonna get in shit...
and vise versa...what if I want to keep that client or two once I have a real career...? do I lie or do I communicate my desires and hopefully be understood...
and then like I said before there is the factor that "I kissed a girl and I liked it" lol...
what if we are out somewhere and I meet a girl who is just as wild and crazy as me, why shouldn't I be aloud to take her home to share with my SO?
and vise versa...why can't my husband look through the escort sites and pick one I like too!
Maybe I just don't see the point in promising to only be with one person for your whole damn life...I don't want to be owned by anyone...
sure I want a life partner...someone who won't leave my side no matter what...but I think Id prefer to keep things real then to say "I will want to sleep with you and only you Forever"...Id be lying...
Who knows ...things might change in the future.
but I think honesty and good communication and trust is more important than monogamy!
