For you.....yes anytime.Arizona40 said:
Paris/Caryn
For you.....yes anytime.Arizona40 said:
Remember the days when masturbation only made you go blind? Now it apparently kills kittens as well. Guess I better quit while I'm ahead.chuck said:
Ummmmm ......... Very questionable I would think. Lol! Maybe an SP stole him and whisked him away someplace.Arizona40 said:He's trying to be a good boy these days. I wonder if he's been successful?
I understand so completely where you are coming from! I'm sorry that you have had to deal with that. At the end of the day it's nobodys fault....just more stuff to sort out.ashley said:I have not posted here for a really long time but this thread hits really close to home.I did date a man who was my client it was a very difficult realationship to say the least.I did quit working as an SP but... he could never forgive me for my past. I felt like I always had to prove myself to him.I know in his mind there will always be that little voice saying she is a just whore.
Was his name Maverick?ashley said:I did date a man who was my client it was a very difficult realationship to say the least.I did quit working as an SP but... he could never forgive me for my past. I felt like I always had to prove myself to him.I know in his mind there will always be that little voice saying she is a just whore.
Careful ...... Ashley Fame may become jealous with all the attention Maverick gave to her on previous threads about Ashley Fame.the toad said:Was his name Maverick?![]()
I know a guy who married an SP on the condition that she quit working, so she did, and then after awhile she asked him to buy a car for her mother and he said, 'Waaaaaaait a minute...I married you, not your family', so she said, 'Fine, I'll just go back to work....'TJ in the 'Peg said:Ashely, this may sound like a silly question, but what exactly was there to forgive?
We all have our pasts, if you chose to give up your SP profession (and yes, I see it as a profession), well then what was the issue? We all have our pasts. It is our past who makes us who we are today, if any of us have to be forgiven for our pasts, then we have to be forgive for who we are today, if someone needs to forgive us for who we are, then that isn't someone we should be seeing because they really don't like who we are.
Be proud of who you are, and who you were, because that is really part of who you are today. If someone can't accept that, then politely say good bye to them and move on, they don't deserve you.
.... and yes, I really believe that.
That SP either:rockyy said:I know a guy who married an SP on the condition that she quit working, so she did, and then after awhile she asked him to buy a car for her mother and he said, 'Waaaaaaait a minute...I married you, not your family', so she said, 'Fine, I'll just go back to work....'
Guys always want to have their cake and eat it too...
And without mentioning names, I hope you know that there is at least one guy out there that doesn't think that way and has the ability to look at the whole person. As I've said before, who are any of us to judge her for being in the business when we are too, just from the opposite perspective. The job just didn't matter to me and it still doesn't. Any guy that EVER throws it in her face in an argument down the road (assuming they went into the relationship with him knowing) is a bastard and does not deserve her.ashley said:I have not posted here for a really long time but this thread hits really close to home.I did date a man who was my client it was a very difficult realationship to say the least.I did quit working as an SP but... he could never forgive me for my past. I felt like I always had to prove myself to him.I know in his mind there will always be that little voice saying she is a just whore.
Well, this is all new information...BS Detector said:And without mentioning names, I hope you know that there is at least one guy out there that doesn't think that way and has the ability to look at the whole person. As I've said before, who are any of us to judge her for being in the business when we are too, just from the opposite perspective. The job just didn't matter to me and it still doesn't. Any guy that EVER throws it in her face in an argument down the road (assuming they went into the relationship with him knowing) is a bastard and does not deserve her.
yeah but you can´t intellectualize your feelings. At the end of the day we all react emotionally, no matter how illogical it may be. I've actually been in situations where I´m, like, thinking rationally, but reacting emotionally, and saying to myself, ´Now I´m doing this incredibly stupid childish thing, and I know it, and I´m totally powerless to stop it.´TJ in the 'Peg said:1) In addition to my other little philosophical mantra above, I also beleive that we have to accept that being an SP is what an SP does, not who they are.