Reviews. Good or bad.

[Chuck99999]

I was trying to see a SP today. Who is very well reviewed on perb. She told me she is not seeing anyone for a few days because of a bad experience with a client. She told me that the guy is blackmailing her by threatening to post a bad review of her here on perb. And ruining her reputation on perb. Apparently he could not get off and blamed the SP. From all the reviews of her on perb there has been no issues with guys getting off with her. She's got a reputation of being the best deep throat bbbj around. She is totally freaked out by this guy. She sent me a post by the guy that he sent her before posting it. He told her " either you give me a free session or give me my money back or I post this. " I told her if she has nothing but great reviews than one bad one would not hurt her rep.

My question is would her rep be hurt by one bad post? I don't think so. She is a paid advertise on perb and now will only see perb members with a long history of reviews and regulars. No new clients. Like I wanted to be. This is not good

What do you guys and gals think she should do ?

 

[take8easy]

I was trying to see a SP today. Who is very well reviewed on perb. She told me she is not seeing anyone for a few days because of a bad experience with a client. She told me that the guy is blackmailing her by threatening to post a bad review of her here on perb. And ruining her reputation on perb. Apparently he could not get off and blamed the SP. From all the reviews of her on perb there has been no issues with guys getting off with her. She's got a reputation of being the best deep throat bbbj around. She is totally freaked out by this guy. She sent me a post by the guy that he sent her before posting it. He told her " either you give me a free session or give me my money back or I post this. " I told her if she has nothing but great reviews than one bad one would not hurt her rep.

My question is would her rep be hurt by one bad post? I don't think so. She is a paid advertise on perb and now will only see perb members with a long history of reviews and regulars. No new clients. Like I wanted to be. This is not good

What do you guys and gals think she should do ?

I would ask a guy like that to shove his review where the sun doesn't shine.

I have been offered free sessions because my review suggested that I was not very happy. But I never did that because I wanted a free session. I never availed myself of a free session because I feel these ladies work hard for their money. Using them or rather abusing them for an hour of free session is classless and un-manly. If she has a good repute, then just let the a**hole post.

 

[westwoody]

Let the asshole put up his bad review.

A lady has a dozen stellar reviews and then some dodgy guy posts a bad one...everyone will see what's going on. He won't make her look bad, he will make himself look bad.

 

[badbadboy]

She needs to forward the post and / or threat to Mods so this asshole gets bounced from Perb.

 

[Lets Review]

Considering the number of people that couldn't see the humor in T8E's "Disappointed" thread, not surprising an SP would be worried.

Any negative threads bring out all the White Knights anyway, so post away!

 

[MissingOne]

... She sent me a post by the guy that he sent her before posting it ...

If the events are as described, the guy is a bad actor. However, I hope the lady in question stripped out any identifying information before she sent you the copy of his threatened post. She should send the threatening info to a mod and let the mods deal with the guy. Sending the threatening info to just any old PERB member, especially one she doesn't know, is indiscreet.

Granted, we all do unwise things when we're alarmed.

 

[felixthecat]

She needs to forward the post and / or threat to Mods so this asshole gets bounced from Perb.

What he said. Happened before, even some posters with long history of reviews were banned for threats like this.

Also paid advertisers have their private forum here, I understand. That can be a place to compare notes on the guy.

 

[Caramel]

yeah tell her to tell the mods what she told you, sent them whatever she sent you, and they will take care of it. She does not need to be a paid advertiser for this, they will do it on good faith and with discretion, if he already decides to post it she can hit the report button at the bottom left triangle of each post, or message one of the mods. No one should have to live with that kind of harassment or fear.

For the record, yes one bad review will taint it for all, even if its a non-review and just a comment on other things. That's the power of the internet, it haunts forever I totally understand why girls change their names. I have even seen some past commentators stalk all of the SP's reviews for the entire duration of her career, for years and years, and post the same thing on every one of them. There is always the 1 or 2 guys per year who will call/text about what was written online and assume its true, etc. whether its good or bad, about a YMMV service or a no-show or something.

 

[take8easy]

Considering the number of people that couldn't see the humor in T8E's "Disappointed" thread, not surprising an SP would be worried.

Any negative threads bring out all the White Knights anyway, so post away!

Thank you, I am glad you got the humor in that thread. Too bad I gave in to pressure and had it taken down.

 

[VancityDivas]

That's plain disgusting. No matter how great an SP is there will always be a mismatch in personalities and some people don't click as well so it may not be 'the best' experience for some while others may be on Club 9.

Blackmail, Extortion. . Call it what you like. It is akin to exploitation and marginalizing someone; a very dark side of an otherwise very accepting industry.

I would remind anyone being victimized in such a manner that legally she's in the right and may benefit from turning to the authorities so our legal framework can actually do some good as it's been promised. LE and C36 are suppose to prevent matters like this! Matters specific to combating exploitative practices

 

[badbadboy]

My question is would her rep be hurt by one bad post? I don't think so. She is a paid advertise on perb and now will only see perb members with a long history of reviews and regulars. No new clients. Like I wanted to be. This is not good

What do you guys and gals think she should do ?

I don't think one bad review would spoil the whole batch of good reviews. It's a good balance to have excellent reviews and a bad one. It seems more realistic because if I see ten over the top excellent reviews I tend to look at it with some scepticism about not only the SP but all the posters too.

There are guys who make it the SP's problem if they get blue balled. I think it was 2014 when I had three Blue Ball experiences which at the time pissed me off to no end. I didn't blame it on the SP, I got back in the saddle again the next week and the problem fixed itself. haha.

I saw a negative review about an advertiser with excellent reviews whom I had my eye on for a while. She handled it professionally and politely while not giving in to the posters criticisms.

Not only did I think she was hot looking but also smart and confident which only made me want to see her for myself asap.

 

[JimDandy]

I always look at the record of an op to consider what weight to give it. I suspect this op would have other black marks against him and I would therefore give such a review little weight.

JD

 

[oneoldone]

I would concur with what I think is the general tone here. Suggest the lady goes the "he can publish and be damned" approach. This removes his leverage to start with. If the lady is well reviewed and has common support on Perb I suspect we have a few white knights in our midst who will ably assist in suitably commenting on the post. In addition we have an excellent team of mods who will over see such a post and comments with a fair and even hand.

Threatening someone in such a way is not acceptable. If a booking did not proceed or climax as expected and a client feels the need to discuss I'm sure many ladies would be open to that, however this is not described as a discussion it sounds more like wielding a bad review as if it were a club, which should not be allowed.

I would agree wholeheartedly with this threatening the ladies should not be tolerated period. Its possible he has been successful in the past with this "technique" one shudders at the thought so kudos to the SP for standing up to this guy.

 

[ddcanz]

Disgruntled, fake, shilly, promotional etc. reviews get posted all the time on here- that's what comes with anonymity and minimal accountability.
Reviews and queries in 411 get dissected ad-nauseam as well- it's up to us as individuals to read through and determine for ourselves the relevancy.
A well reviewed lady with good overall history should not be too harshly impacted by some jerk that attempts to leverage with the threat of a poor review.
We will typically figure it out very quickly.