As a matter of fact I have asked many Auto Mechanics for a discount, especially when the estimated repairs went way over, like more than double. Too many White Knights on this board who are willing to call anyone who questions rates a "Cheapskate".
Repeats and Discounts
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I agree asking for a discount is one thing and suggesting a more frequent flyer program might be mutually beneficial is another. I like Angel's method of as an incentive benefit for being a frequent guest. I've done this a number of times and it was at the suggestion of the lady. Sometimes it works out great and sometimes not. I'm not pooning as actively as in the past so I don't even consider this type of verbal agreement as a reality.
I do haggle with mechanics, an electrician who has worked for me before, book keepers and other professionals if the quantity of work justifies a discount vs someone just doing a one of.
The OP specifically mentioned ASKING for discounts and you go on some rant about OFFERING discounts...which BTW many escorts do for any number of reasons just like many businesses do.
Then you go off on DEMANDING a discount...what are you talking about. Is that what the OP is asking the perb community?
Playing the misogynist card as to why guys ask for a discount tops off this beauty of a post.
Maybe they are just a cheap SOB? Maybe they ask for discounts when they are seeking all kinds of other services? It's just what they do.
And many of us have contacted women only to be offered a lower rate afterwards when we say we will think about it.
The perb community of advertisers along with reputable SPs represent a small percentage of women in the industry. I suspect plenty of women agree to a discounted rate. I have to think some guys ask for discounts because they often get one.
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Yes I suppose there is something to be said for the old adage...." If you don't ask, you don't get "
There are certain instances where suggested retail can be negotiated, yet you don't try it in other markets....it is socially unacceptable.
But we are not talking about "the suggested retail"....but "suggested tail" who are human beings ,with real feelings, and emotions, giving a customer access to otherwise very private encounters....and their going rate is compensation....and potential access to that service.
To barter down ,or try to attempt a conversation to negotiate a rate, is saying to them ....your not worth what your asking, so I'll make you an offer....rationalizing it as an offer, for the same service, for a lesser rate.
That discussion might be ok in my books.....if SHE starts it, otherwise the gentleman in me wouldn't allow it.
The only instance I can think of relating to the service from another individual,that might be negotiated is a salesman on a commission basis, a technician that's willing to work on contract...or perhaps a lawyer. You hire them to enhance a potential outcome, and there going rates are sometimes variable.
I'm not really sure if that would apply here, as there is no contract, just a verbal agreement with a complete random stranger.
There are certain instances where suggested retail can be negotiated, yet you don't try it in other markets....it is socially unacceptable.
But we are not talking about "the suggested retail"....but "suggested tail" who are human beings ,with real feelings, and emotions, giving a customer access to otherwise very private encounters....and their going rate is compensation....and potential access to that service.
To barter down ,or try to attempt a conversation to negotiate a rate, is saying to them ....your not worth what your asking, so I'll make you an offer....rationalizing it as an offer, for the same service, for a lesser rate.
That discussion might be ok in my books.....if SHE starts it, otherwise the gentleman in me wouldn't allow it.
The only instance I can think of relating to the service from another individual,that might be negotiated is a salesman on a commission basis, a technician that's willing to work on contract...or perhaps a lawyer. You hire them to enhance a potential outcome, and there going rates are sometimes variable.
I'm not really sure if that would apply here, as there is no contract, just a verbal agreement with a complete random stranger.
It's the same with tall blonde, leather faced Cowboys .....when asked out on a date from two farm girls on the same evening.
Would you want to go out with Miss 20 year old, who just spends half her time on the iPhone, and when she finally talks to you over an expensive dinner, all she can talk about is how cool Miley Cirus is,or the Kardashians.....and thinks it's fun just to tease you all night.
Or would you want to take out Miss 30 year old.....who wants pub food, and after a few drinks hops on top of the table and announces how she's going to prove to the Cowboy sitting with her...which would be myself..that she's is a blowjob queen.
...and then proves it on the drive home.
Now that's what we call around here.....Mister Happy topayfordinner
If I'm repeating with an SP, obviously I'm having a good time, and if I'm having a good time, there's a greater likelihood of the SP having a good time also (relative to the fact that she's working, of course. A good day at work isn't the same as a good day off, but we all still hope to have good days at work). That said, I've found that SP's I repeat with generally give me extra time or extra service, probably 75% of the time. I've never asked for any discount or anything extra with anyone, ever; this is just something that occurs. For example, the girl who doesn't give BBBJ suddenly is giving me BBBJ. Or at the end of my time, she says something like "I don't have anything coming up, do you want to hang out for a bit?"
I assumed this was standard, since it happens so frequently and, like I said, I've never asked. TBH, I usually don't like it when they ask me to stay longer; it's always awkward refusing them. I'm paying for sex; I hold no illusions about the girls actually liking me. I suppose it's a nice gesture, though.
I assumed this was standard, since it happens so frequently and, like I said, I've never asked. TBH, I usually don't like it when they ask me to stay longer; it's always awkward refusing them. I'm paying for sex; I hold no illusions about the girls actually liking me. I suppose it's a nice gesture, though.
Well said Elmore. I've had SP's offer discounts when I said I will think about it more times than not. I think they try for the higher rates but would rather get a discounted booking than no booking at all.
It's not cool to request a discount from an escort, whether she be an indy or agency lady . However, it's obviously OK to accept a discount if offered. But, if you post a review of an escort who gave you a discount, it should not be mentioned in the review, since she surely does not offer discounts to everyone.
The only exception might be in the case of extras at AMPs, since negotiating is part of the culture in Asia. I have pooned in China, and any westerner who agrees to a lady's first offer is regarded as an easy mark. The client is expected to negotiate. This cultural practice prevails in many AMPs in North America.
The only exception might be in the case of extras at AMPs, since negotiating is part of the culture in Asia. I have pooned in China, and any westerner who agrees to a lady's first offer is regarded as an easy mark. The client is expected to negotiate. This cultural practice prevails in many AMPs in North America.
I have only negotiated in Macau, because the obvious SP cutie at the casino was quoting an amount that was way beyond the norm.
I did not ask for anything below the norm. The girl was young and pretty, and the sex was obviously going to be mechanical.
Here in Canada, I know the advertised rates going in, and I always pay what is being asked, and usually more with a regular.
It seems to me that a girl feels you have cheapened her if you treat her as a commodity, and seek to pay less than posted.
If all you want is a commodity, then that's all you will get. No problem.
For me, sex is not commodity, but an intimate interaction.
Invariably with me, without the distractions of deal-making, the encounter always progresses to that.
A lot of the girl shows up.
In my opinion , I feel it's a little bit on the disrespectful side to ask for a discount on your first date with any sp or mp...
Many will offer special rates to those that become regular clientele.. some will offer customer appreciation rates annually , some will on the 3rd or fourth visit some will grandfather clients in ... some will give a set flat rate to clients that are weekly visitors... And I feel within in this industry offering a special rates to those that become regular clientele or offer customer appreciation rates of any kind should be highly appreciated...
Be grateful that the ladies actually do offer this to show their appreciation to you fellows that enjoy and appreciate their company...
But to go in and Ask for a discount on your first visit or to even ask at all is kinda a no no , cause the reputable professional woman in this industry have already set the standard for repeat clientelle with using good business practices by offering special rates! How ever they are applied!
Many will offer special rates to those that become regular clientele.. some will offer customer appreciation rates annually , some will on the 3rd or fourth visit some will grandfather clients in ... some will give a set flat rate to clients that are weekly visitors... And I feel within in this industry offering a special rates to those that become regular clientele or offer customer appreciation rates of any kind should be highly appreciated...
Be grateful that the ladies actually do offer this to show their appreciation to you fellows that enjoy and appreciate their company...
But to go in and Ask for a discount on your first visit or to even ask at all is kinda a no no , cause the reputable professional woman in this industry have already set the standard for repeat clientelle with using good business practices by offering special rates! How ever they are applied!
i have had a few different scenarios:
A couple ladies that “upped” their rates “grandfathered” me.
Another that charged $700 for 2hrs, would charge me $400 (after about 30hrs of visits).
And now I spend about 12hrs/wk with one girl and she charges me $1500.
None of these were my idea...
A couple ladies that “upped” their rates “grandfathered” me.
Another that charged $700 for 2hrs, would charge me $400 (after about 30hrs of visits).
And now I spend about 12hrs/wk with one girl and she charges me $1500.
None of these were my idea...
