Rejected from a agreed session

[Anyone907]

this is like a nightmare story, I will not mentioned the name of the SP (maybe later) but I want to have everyone’s opinion on this one.
I booked a session with 2 weeks of anticipation, I did this because I knew I have to be at downtown waiting and what a great way of waiting with a good companion, anyway, one day before I texted her to confirm and all good. The same day I texted her to get the address 30 minutes before and she sent it, so I walk to the location and arrived just in time, so texted her again to get the buzz number and se replied saying that she double book by mistake because “similar” numbers were texting her at the same time, so she kick me out and offered a slot 1 hour later, obviously I did not took that. So after some messages she mentioned she felt so bad and apologize herself but still did not feel right being there and treated like that. She offered to te schedule and return back deposit, so I want to see her but I’m not sure if this happened to someone else before or it is a kind of alert here?
Thanks for your comments, really appreciated. I’m still not sure If I want to try it again.

 

[Pgup]

Ghosting is quite normal and part of this hobby. At least the SP apologized and agreed to rebook with deposit returned. Others have it worse where they reach at the location with no response from the SP ever.

I would give a benefit of doubt to the SP, who kept the communication channels open with you and apologized.
Take it as a grain of salt (with some sugar and honey if you got to see her afterwards

 

[Bobert1969]

Take it as a win, get your deposit back and move on. Once something like this happens it's hard to come back 100%.

 

[pennplaza 69]

Ghosting is quite normal and part of this hobby. At least the SP apologized and agreed to rebook with deposit returned. Others have it worse where they reach at the location with no response from the SP ever.

I would give a benefit of doubt to the SP, who kept the communication channels open with you and apologized.
Take it as a grain of salt (with some sugar and honey if you got to see her afterwards

Yup I would very much agree pgup Lucky you got an apology and return deposit! I would try again!

 

[Real Sonny Burnett]

I don’t think you need to name the person in this case. You didn’t lose any money, the offer to make it up was offered. If you feel like you don’t want to make another attempt with this person, then just move on. From what we’ve read on this board your situation could have been a lot worse.

 

[Nokia101]

This reminded me of something that happened one time… I called an SP and was inquiring about her ad and she went off on me to stop calling her and asking about her ad and I I’m wasting her time… I responded back “I’ve never called you before”. She replied “you are a loser” and hung up.

about ten minutes later she called back and apologized repeatedly as my number and this other persons number was almost identical. I said no worries but yeah I wasn’t interested after that as I feel it would have been awkward.

like another member said you got your money back and she offered to rebook. You got lucky.

 

[Anyone907]

Thanks everyone for your replies, maybe just bad luck, not sure yet what to do. I’ll send an update on what happen later 😁

 

[Forum mod]

Name her or don't bother posting this tail chasing nonsense. This is not a nightmare story, it's a double booking, happens all the time, the sky is not falling. She can make it right, in which case you made a big deal out of nothing. Or she blows you off, in which case you have a legit beef and post a review. You are an adult, act like one.