I’m not talking physically close, but emotionally close as being in a relationship.
Regs who just disappear...
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This is why I like meeting non pros now . At least they want some attraction to you before you fuck them .
My all time favorite provider moved on to the next phase of her life about 5 years ago.
I had been seeing her regularly for about 3 years.
She did tell me that she was leaving the business and we were able to have really nice farewell session.
I wish her all the best.
I had been seeing her regularly for about 3 years.
She did tell me that she was leaving the business and we were able to have really nice farewell session.
I wish her all the best.
I see the same behavior within the auto sales industry with sales staff and customers.
The follow-up calls, texts and emails are simply there to keep in touch.
So if you should get the "itch", the person who was recently in contact with you is the first one you'd reach out to (ideally).
Nothing more, nothing less.
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How is finding something humorous suddenly a "demeaning attitude"? One cannot possibly judge me on three words... so here are several more:
I absolutely love women of all ages and shapes and sizes. I adore girls of all "types". The femininity is what I "pay" for. And yes, that quote from Charlie Sheen is hilarious, which is why I said what I said because NSA means exactly that. But for sensual types like myself, there ARE strings and honestly, in a pinch, I would bend over backwards to help any SP that needs assistance in an emergency situation, no holds barred, just because. It isn't only my penis making decisions here. My heart's in it too. I tip, generously, every time, even when things didn't work out. The SPs I see always get paid, guaranteed, no matter what the outcome. And always treated with utmost respect. That's me... and the great majority of guys I personally know or have met.
I think it's a lot harder for the client to tell why they are no longer seeing their regular SP. It could be anywhere from not having the funds, finding another SP, no longer wanting to cheat on their SO, finding the sex too boring, etc etc etc.
Clients are under no obligation to tell SPs why they decide to go elsewhere. A service provider is a service provider. They aren’t GFs or wives. So why would an explanation be expected?
And when it comes to SPs disappearing maybe it has to do with whatever is going on in their personal life... or perhaps they try to avoid the curse of the retirement revolving door by making a quiet and unannounced exit.
As a client or provider it is better to just fade away quietly and not announce any type of retirement from the business when they no longer want to participate in the business anymore in my opinion.
No reason should ever be given or is even necessary.
Yeah , your right. It's easy to say don't get to involved but sometimes emotions do get in the way of logical thinking.
I'm glad this thread came up. I hope it does bring awareness to some guys that just aren't sure of the situation their in. Another helpful tool is their social media. It really does give a non filtered look into what their all about.
The more you spend the more attn you will get . Texts everyday or weekly and prioritized . Always remember your not the only one getting "special" treatment. Who knows how many guys she has given personal #, seeks advice from , shares daily challenges with. There is a good chance the conversation she brought up had the same one with another clIent. If in the business awhile, works quite a bit, probably a few she is gaming or hustling .
. There is a line . Some will cross over it just to make a few more dollars . I imagine some guys that are out there will pick up on the manipulation, lies and turn the tables just to make a point. Sometimes guys can be naive but we're not dumb as some ladies would like to believe.
If your a solid, honest companion with good intentions just be yourself and enjoy your time one date at a time with the gentleman out there. It will be appreciated . All I got . Good luck to all the decent , honest gents and ladies out there
I certainly wouldn't build an expectation that an SP should announce their exit, but it's relieving to have closure you know? I can't help but think something bad happened to one of my fav providers when they stop posting to social media for an unusually long time and are unresponsive via/text phone.
Very similar to how a chiropractor stops seeing you if you have no money to pay for his rehabilitation treatment.
I believe if an sp tells her clients, I’ve a medical condition which prevents me from performing sexual acts going forward it would be fair assumption some or most of her clients would disappear if not right away maybe after few visits. So you experienced similar situation conversation flow dried up its natural. It’s really important to know your place in life or what is expected of you. It’s mutually beneficial “relation” & it disappears when one-party stops providing benefits.
I’ve providers that retired but stayed in touch briefly and I had the option to stay in touch but didn’t because I was no longer providing them any benefits so it was obvious for me to respect their off time.
You've alluded to the key point of these Arrangements !
It's a "No Strings Attached" Relationship !
Enjoy the special connections (Real or Imagined) for what they are, and appreciate the Moment .
The bottomline is it's an exchange of Sexual energy, for Financial energy .
A premeditated "One Night Stand", with no expectations of follow up Contact .
That's why I would recommend not getting hung up on just one Lady, no matter how great She is, for a multitude of Reasons . Including the emotional attachment .
Afterall, this is a very intimate Human interaction !
This Song may seem sappy, but, offers a lot of Truths .
Mr Q.
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