There's a twitter post from an SP about regs who just ghosts all of a sudden.
It's happened to me on this side of the fence more often than not, and is one of the reasons this hobby isn't as fun for me anymore.
At one point in time a regular provider will retire / find the love of her life / start a llama ranch / move out town / etc and I'll never get a good bye or so long or it's been fun. I know that part of the appeal of seeing SPs is that everything is NSA, and there's a transaction to make sure everyone is on the same page. No explanations, no expectations. Still, for those of us who regularly see providers we do connect with, it's hard to imagine them leaving without saying anything.
I originally thought this might be a provider thing, or millennial thing, or maybe I'm just a sap.
But to hear it happens on the other side of the fence too... it's kind of validating. Shared misery and confusion and all that.
To those women who I've known before and come to know intimately, I do wish the best for you even though I never got a chance to say it.
It's happened to me on this side of the fence more often than not, and is one of the reasons this hobby isn't as fun for me anymore.
At one point in time a regular provider will retire / find the love of her life / start a llama ranch / move out town / etc and I'll never get a good bye or so long or it's been fun. I know that part of the appeal of seeing SPs is that everything is NSA, and there's a transaction to make sure everyone is on the same page. No explanations, no expectations. Still, for those of us who regularly see providers we do connect with, it's hard to imagine them leaving without saying anything.
I originally thought this might be a provider thing, or millennial thing, or maybe I'm just a sap.
But to hear it happens on the other side of the fence too... it's kind of validating. Shared misery and confusion and all that.
To those women who I've known before and come to know intimately, I do wish the best for you even though I never got a chance to say it.