In general, getting a compliment is very flattering and nice. It also depends what the compliment is.
I am just curious on how to look at a compliment received from an SP regarding your looks/appearance. Is a compliment given with other motives like making a customer repeat, making a customer feel good, hoping the customer leaves a big tip? Is it done just to create more of a flirty vibe? Or do SPs only compliment people if they sincerely mean it? Would an SP compliment attractive as well as average looking guys, or would their compliments extend to even unattractive guys as well?
Maybe they would hold back compliments on some of the very attractive guys because they know that they hear it enough already and that some of those guys already have inflated egos. I've also received compliments before a session starts, but as well as after the session, so I'm not sure if there is any reason for that difference.
This is not to say that I receive compliments from SPs all the time. More to say that is has happened and I'm not exactly sure what to think of it or how to receive it.
I'm just curious, because with myself, I generally only give compliments that I sincerely mean. If I was to give a compliment that was fake, I'd feel quite disingenuous and I'd also feel like the person receiving it would know I was lying to them. I'm not sure if other people or SPs approach this the same way.
I am just curious on how to look at a compliment received from an SP regarding your looks/appearance. Is a compliment given with other motives like making a customer repeat, making a customer feel good, hoping the customer leaves a big tip? Is it done just to create more of a flirty vibe? Or do SPs only compliment people if they sincerely mean it? Would an SP compliment attractive as well as average looking guys, or would their compliments extend to even unattractive guys as well?
Maybe they would hold back compliments on some of the very attractive guys because they know that they hear it enough already and that some of those guys already have inflated egos. I've also received compliments before a session starts, but as well as after the session, so I'm not sure if there is any reason for that difference.
This is not to say that I receive compliments from SPs all the time. More to say that is has happened and I'm not exactly sure what to think of it or how to receive it.
I'm just curious, because with myself, I generally only give compliments that I sincerely mean. If I was to give a compliment that was fake, I'd feel quite disingenuous and I'd also feel like the person receiving it would know I was lying to them. I'm not sure if other people or SPs approach this the same way.
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