Receiving a compliment from an SP: Genuine, fake or a mix of both?

[Resilient]

In general, getting a compliment is very flattering and nice. It also depends what the compliment is.

I am just curious on how to look at a compliment received from an SP regarding your looks/appearance. Is a compliment given with other motives like making a customer repeat, making a customer feel good, hoping the customer leaves a big tip? Is it done just to create more of a flirty vibe? Or do SPs only compliment people if they sincerely mean it? Would an SP compliment attractive as well as average looking guys, or would their compliments extend to even unattractive guys as well?

Maybe they would hold back compliments on some of the very attractive guys because they know that they hear it enough already and that some of those guys already have inflated egos. I've also received compliments before a session starts, but as well as after the session, so I'm not sure if there is any reason for that difference.

This is not to say that I receive compliments from SPs all the time. More to say that is has happened and I'm not exactly sure what to think of it or how to receive it.

I'm just curious, because with myself, I generally only give compliments that I sincerely mean. If I was to give a compliment that was fake, I'd feel quite disingenuous and I'd also feel like the person receiving it would know I was lying to them. I'm not sure if other people or SPs approach this the same way.

 

[Billiam]

Yes.

 

[Crookedmember]

I've heard "Your glass eye sparkles like the Singapore skyline on a warm summer's night" more times than I can count.

 

[carvesg]

If you heard certain compliments before in real life I would guess that's most likely genuine but if it's a compliment about yourself that you don't see, appreciate and never heard from a woman in real life; not even from your mom , grandma, aunties or relatives than I would guess it's a mantra given to flatter your ego .

We tend to know ourselves pretty well so you know when the compliment is flattery .

There's always a small possibility that the lady has different tastes or criterias to appreciate beauty or a person's personality/character but I'd stay sceptical even in that case . I would need so much convincing that by the end of it the woman would be convinced by mental exhaustion or her own persuasion....lol

 

[Resilient]

If you heard certain compliments before in real life I would guess that's most likely genuine but if it's a compliment about yourself that you don't see, appreciate and never heard from a woman in real life; not even from your mom , grandma, aunties or relatives than I would guess it's mantra given to flatter your ego .

This is a really good point. If you have been complimented on something previously or even multiple times in the past, its alot more likely a compliment is sincere.

 

[grusse]

And there are the guys that compliment themselves on here lol

 

[luvsdaty]

One nice provider actually gave me a small bottle of cologne ,which I'd wear for her when I saw her. Definitely enhanced the mood when she'd nuzzle me and tell me how nice I smelled.

 

[angry anderson]

Apart from the usual "|Get the fuck out. You're money's no good here" Depends. Sometimes if that goes with refusal of service. I guess I file that under "not a compliment"

 

[asf_post]

I get "your skin is so smooth" several time, which I take that as a compliment because it is true. But on the other hand if I hear "oooh your cock is so big", I know its' not a compliment 😂🤣

 

[steverino]

I get, "you're funny in bed." I'll take it as a compliment.

 

[angry anderson]

I get, "you're funny in bed." I'll take it as a compliment.

Hit them with this.

 

[Dick Ford]

You're overthinking it. The best providers are the ones who know how to find something attractive about every client who walks through their doors.
In my experience, compliments are ultimately more about the giver than receiver -- it's a gift that makes them feel good by giving it to you, so you should take it in that spirit. Smile, say some words of appreciation, and think no more of it 😊

 

[TenderLover]

I am greatfful and thankful for every compliment and positive comments and energy that I receive from anyone and I treat them as such and sort them out. Always return in the same manner and I don't think you can go wrong.
That's my five cents worth.

 

[Resilient]

I am greatfful and thankful for every compliment and positive comments and energy that I receive from anyone and I treat them as such and sort them out. Always return in the same manner and I don't think you can go wrong.
That's my five cents worth.

Agree. I'm very fond of giving a genuine compliment when the opportunity arises. Its always nice to be able to uplift someone's mood.

 

[angry anderson]

I had a kind of a back handed compliment when an angry lady was yelling at me because of my staying power. She was accusing me of using Viagra. That was a long time ago.

 

[Resilient]

I had a kind of a back handed compliment when an angry lady was yelling at me because of my staying power. She was accusing me of using Viagra. That was a long time ago.

LMAO that reminds of a recent incident. I got a compliment from an SP, telling me she was impressed how hard I was able to stay. I kindly accepted, but I didn't have the heart to tell her that it was because of the generic viagra that I'm taking.

She was for sure an attractive girl, but at this point I just prefer the reliablity of using pills these days to make sure things go well.

 

[angry anderson]

LMAO that reminds of a recent incident. I got a compliment from an SP, telling me she was impressed how hard I was able to stay. I kindly accepted, but I didn't have the heart to tell her that it was because of the generic viagra that I'm taking.

She was for sure an attractive girl, but at this point I just prefer the reliablity of using pills these days to make sure things go well.

Yea, well I'm at the point where I would take the pill if it did any good. It doesn't. For me. If it was a reliable option I would be all over it like white on rice, or whatever the saying is.

 

[UhOh]

Don’t be delusional

 

[Moan For Me]

I've heard "Your glass eye sparkles like the Singapore skyline on a warm summer's night" more times than I can count.

Yah I’m sure. Probably as often as JT has told us he’ll “balance the budget” in the last 9yrs 🤣

 

[ExpCharlee]

There’s something nice to say about everyone. Why lie when I can say something true? 🤷🏼‍♀️