We pay them to smile at us, tell us what we want to hear and screw us then tell us we are wonderful. But after the few hours are done they are out of there and they start again with the next guy. Maybe every once in a while a guy comes along with windshield washer fluid or a little gift. And it lights up their day. But most guys are in and out especially the one hour or half hour crowd. Our hope is to get the most out of them and they get the most out of us. It is a game. We fool ourself if we think it is anything but. However every once in a while a real SP shows up and blows us away. Like wise every once in a while a real gentleman shows up and wows the SP.
That's nice Dickson, yes it is true that every once in awhile you meet a truly real and nice person on the job, and the worker meets a truly nice and real customer. But it is YOU who fools yourself into thinking it is anything but a game for most. What you said above, about paying them to smile at us, laugh at our fucking stupid jokes, pretend to care about our concerns, as though we should sympathize with how hard a job it is to put up with us - c'mon man, grab a spine. Nobody forces them to be there earning $200+ an hour. IF I and many other men could earn $200+/hr AFTER TAXES, ie: $400/hr, I'd put up with a lot of shit and so would any other rational person. They don't like earning $400/hr? They want to whine about their work? They want to call their customers assholes? They can quit. Go find another job that pays $400/hr! Yeah, right?
I guess that is why I do what I do to make it memorable for me and to I hope make it special for the SP. And if I stumble across the right one look out. I try to find something to make it special by taking them away, giving them new clothes, giving them a romantic adventure. I know after they are done with me they go back to their apartment or hole in the wall. Trying to make ends meet. Looking after their kids, or a dead end job with a boss they hate. They go home to wash us off of them. Thinking who can I talk to about what I do. Even high end ladies have clients who demand more because they pay more. More money might mean getting her to do more degrading acts. The big spenders spend but they also demand more.
Yes it can be disgusting. Yes it can be degrading. But once again, you treat them like children, like they don't have their own agency. You treat them like they don't have options, when in fact, they could go and do a square job and get paid shit but be respected, or actually go get a career like you or me and make decent money, or start getting a real education (not some liberal arts bullshit) that will afford them the ability to pay for their own lives and their dependents, etc. Yes, they could use a little help if they're stuck, and that is why we're there. But you've bent over backwards for people that frankly, only deserve it if they don't whine and be mean about it - it being the choices they've made. Look at it this way - if it were a man in that position, whining and complaining, nobody would have any sympathy and there's no reason at all to uphold a double-standard when they have had equal opportunity all along.
Don't get me wrong there are a number of good ladies and a number if good clients like some if us. But understand we are an exceptions to the rule. I can see it in how the hounds were released on this young lady and the personal attacks on her regarding her size or her background or her services. Attacking her is the reason why she got like that. People like us that made her express her feelings like that. I don't blame her. I have been ripped off more times than I care to remember. No need to get bitter and blame them. I am the pathetic piece of crap that wanted to pay her to do and say what I wanted her to do. So being ripped off was what I deserved. I seek it out and when I get it I should not be surprised. It was not what I was looking for but if you are going to dig for gold you better be prepared to get dirty.
Being attacked comes with the territory. Not all can be sugar and spice, you know. These "ladies" need to grow up and stop acting like children. If you choose to be a Hollywood celebrity with all the perks and money, be prepared to make some personal sacrifices. Get real people, it's a fact of life. If you want to be successful in your career Dickson, you have to make personal sacrifices and you well know this. Yes having sympathy for your fellow man/woman is a good thing to do, but you need to center yourself in that to bring up their worth and yours.
I want something - I want to feel I am a good person. I want to feel loved, wanted, desired, I want to be held, I want someone to make love to me, and in exchanged I am willing to pay. It seems like a fair exchange of money for value. At least from where I stand.
Sorry my friend, but you should recheck your values if you're willing to pay to be loved. The money you've spent on whores might be better spent on seeing a sympathetic and caring personal counsellor, then when you're whole again you can enjoy these girls for what they're actually selling - sex.
