RANT on leaving early in a session
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WHOAH...I define 2 hours as 120 minutes, with no expectation of how many orgasms anyone has in that time.
Why would you give them a pass by not saying who it was? Suppose they did to everyone? Not doing anyone any favours by just telling stories.
So wait...you had a 2 hour duo booked. At the 1 hr 40 minute mark, one of the two girls asked you to have a shower, & when you declined, the both got up, got dressed & walked out the door? If you want an appointment that is 2 hours of nonstop sex you probably need to book 2 & a half hours. It may be that when the SP says "would you like me to run you a shower, or...? what she is trying to SAY is " we are getting close to our allotted time being up. Is there anything else you want to do before we wrap things up?" That stops her from having to say things like "Just so you're aware, we are getting close to the 3 hour mark, & you booked a 2 hour appointment." In incalls where SPs share time & space your "not feeling rushed out the door" means your SP pays more to the house (but you don't pay any more, right?) It also may mean the SP who is booked in after her has to send the "delay at the in call" text to HER client. I have you booked until 8:30. She has HER client booked at 9. NEITHER OF US wants our clients to feel rushed but the reality is that if you as my client linger 30 minutes after the 2 hours of sex you feel entitled to, and HER client buzzes texts to say "Hey I am early: OK to buzz up?" but she hasn't showered yet, or done her makeup, or set out those snacks you love, or even made it into the building yet...because OP didn't want to feel ripped off for 20 minutes of his 2 hrs.
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Andrew69913
This thread is a rant about clients being pressured to leave before the time they have paid for is up....regardless of the activity being performed. You can nit pick this specific scenario if you choose but that's not exactly what this is about. If you want to rant about clients staying late so you don't have time to prepare for your next, that is an entirely different argument and you can make your own thread. An sp's poor scheduling isn't coming out of my pocket book.
Seriously?
OP is talking about things that happened while he still had 20 minutes on the clock, not 30 minutes after his session was over. How did you even get there?
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Andrew69913
We know how you got there...but we're paying $300 plus per hour of time so we don't have to hear about it.
Yup. And that's why the women don't participate here, despite having to pay for the privilege to do so.
Really: I am just searching for insight here OP, not trying to pick fights! Make love not enemies! Maybe you would have preferred an approach more like a therapist's?
"I see we have 16 minutes left on the clock. What else might you like to touch on briefly in your session with the time we have left?"
Or like the waiter, who just wants to count his tips, have a cigarette & burp for the first time in 2 hours..."Anything else I can get you folks before I get the bill? I'm about to cash out."
There are lots great ladies in this industry, but what really sets the bar high (besides the sex/looks) is how they “manage” your time, the “great” ones are engaged from start to finish (if you have met Scarlett Rose or Celina Rai you know what I mean), when there is time left (before the 10min shower question), they have ways to engage you (massage/drink/snack/chit chat etc)...
gentlemen: please let me make it transparent that I am in no way meaning to come off like I am ranting! I was really curious about whether OP could have misread cues. I'm in no way angry with every man here.
Just one of them. And with that, I wish nearly all of you all a wonderful evening.
Not enough, if that's all you are drawing the conclusion from. It's you who've been there so you know better: whether something else went wrong in the session, any more clues, etc.
If you are certain you were rushed out - not a pleasant situation, my sympathies, and do consider writing a review.
Personally, I think you'll live happier if you don't assume any of the following are requesting you to leave: putting her robe on, asking if you need a shower, asking what are your plans for later in the day.
They might be, and that's where you can check the time / ask how much time is left.
If you know there's time remaining, the question about shower could be just to have you cleaned between rounds (especially as it's a duo), or to find if you need another towel, or to see if they need to reserve some time for shower, or they didn't know what to say (not necessarily being a bad conversationalist, but people can have trouble thinking with their brains fucked out).
It's not even about being assertive or getting your money worth, it's a question of clear communication. If they are not explicit, you can be. They might have an incorrect read you were planning to leave.
Some of the possible replies when offered a shower:
"Oh, is it time for me to go already?"
"Yes, and I'll be back in the bedroom with you right away."
"No, I will have a shower at home." (and continue chatting)
gentlemen: please let me make it transparent that I am in no way meaning to come off like I am ranting! I was really curious about whether OP could have misread cues. I'm in no way angry with every man here.
Just one of them. And it isn't either of these two guys. To the former: really didn't mean to to pour sand in your Vaseline. Whatever I did to make you feel as though I'd blown your dad on the dining room table at Thanksgiving, I apologize. It sounds like you're badly in need of a great experience: I hope you find it sooner rather than later!
To the latter: you know how much I have always liked & respected you, & valued your opinion, as well as feeling I could speak frankly to you. That certainly hasn't changed!
:grouphug: so everyone knows I'm not stomping away mad.
And with that, I wish nearly all of you all a wonderful evening.
Except the one who can go pound sand.
I set my timer to go off 10 minutes before the end of a session. I turn it off and say "that's 10 minutes, so no rush". 99% of the time we are just chatting and cuddling at that point anyways. It's probably way more jarring then asking "would you like to take a shower before you leave?" Maybe I should switch to what the OP's providers did...
I value all insights and opinions from everyone in this community but you have quite the imagination...
I really do, don't I? But I don't really. I have been around, & I have experienced some things. Some of those things I have experienced with people who previously commented in this thread. I know what they write in their reviews, I know what they say in the forums...and I know what they tell me in the last 20 minutes of their appointments after they have declined their showers.
Again, it is a shame that at the end of a duo about which you didn't feel was negative enough to post a bad review (so it was a good experience?) you were left feeling rushed. You shouldn't have. But maybe at that point, the SPs in question just felt that (like participating further in this thread would be) anything else was like flogging a dead horse.
