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westwoody

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Genuinely curious why guys refuse to look at them.

It seems like 90% of the inquiries women get and 90% of the FYI requests on perb could be easily answered by a quick look at a website or ad posted by the woman in question.
Also it is always better to get the information directly from the woman herself than some third hand guy.
I went for a drive with a lady last week who got 23 (!) emails/texts between her hotel, restaurant and return to hotel. Almost all were simple questions about rates and availability that were addressed clearly on her site. Answering all these takes a ridiculous amount of time.
And some were guys asking the same questions they asked on her last visit, guys she replied to but they didn’t book.

Why spend an hour answering stupid questions from lazy people when she could spend an hour making $$$$?

Time is a limited resource. You allocate it where it generates the best return on investment.

Sometimes no answer is an answer.
 
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Having had a few interactions recently with some ladies due to board issues and hearing some horror stories, I am left with very few explanations for how incredibly idiotic and stupid many pooners appear to be. They are either terminally lazy, incapable of clicking on a link; so self absorbed they don't think they need to make even a basic effort to looking into a lady; or actually hostile/aggressive and trying to power trip the lady into doing all the work for them.

These deep thinkers also ask for a link in a review where the name and phone digits are clearly listed, instead of doing a search on Leolist that takes less time than posting their stupid question does. Maybe I am cynical today because I have had to delete about 50 posts of juvenile insults and conflict today, and ban a handful of multi account trolls, but guys seriously, step up your game and smarten up already. There's a reason some ladies get very jaded and end up loathing come of their clients, and it's entirely on the guys to put in at least a bit of effort. Interestingly, the guys who do the bare minimum and follow directions are seen as superstar clients these days. Go beyond that and offer basic human decency or god forbid, even a bit more effort to make the lady feel special? You are almost god like with some SPs now given the amount of shit they deal with.
 

masterpoonhunter

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Having had a few interactions recently with some ladies due to board issues and hearing some horror stories, I am left with very few explanations for how incredibly idiotic and stupid many pooners appear to be. They are either terminally lazy, incapable of clicking on a link; so self absorbed they don't think they need to make even a basic effort to looking into a lady; or actually hostile/aggressive and trying to power trip the lady into doing all the work for them.

These deep thinkers also ask for a link in a review where the name and phone digits are clearly listed, instead of doing a search on Leolist that takes less time than posting their stupid question does. Maybe I am cynical today because I have had to delete about 50 posts of juvenile insults and conflict today, and ban a handful of multi account trolls, but guys seriously, step up your game and smarten up already. There's a reason some ladies get very jaded and end up loathing come of their clients, and it's entirely on the guys to put in at least a bit of effort. Interestingly, the guys who do the bare minimum and follow directions are seen as superstar clients these days. Go beyond that and offer basic human decency or god forbid, even a bit more effort to make the lady feel special? You are almost god like with some SPs now given the amount of shit they deal with.
THIS!!!
This would be good to auto send to every new account as it is made.
Mind you those that need it most would not comprehend the message :(
 

ancient one

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If I see someone new that looks interesting and they have a website, I will go thru it 2 or 3 times to get a feeling for what they provide and if that is what I am looking for. If and when I do meet them they seem a bit shocked but a little more at ease knowing that they wont get asked questions that have already been answered on their website. Its also a pretty good indication that the ad isn't a scam. So far for me it seems like taking the time to read their website leads to a more relaxed and fun encounter.
 

masterpoonhunter

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Never mind websites, there’s a large percentage of men who don’t even read ads !!!! Even Leo ads which have a word limit.
There is a large percentage of the population, whether it is men or women, who don't read ads, websites, emails, you name it.
It's pathetic.
 

RedDragon64

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Genuinely curious why guys refuse to look at them.
I didn't realize this was much of a thing. I always read a provider's website carefully to be sure I want to take the step of making a booking with them. I'm usually able to complete a booking in less than 2-3 emails.

I would hope the providers ignore the stream of useless messages asking for basic information available on their website.
 

Sonny69

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I’m always amazed by the questions posted on social media. The effort it takes posting the question, input it into google and get your answer. Further I’m amazed by how so many people are allergic to reading. Imbeciles love to be spoon feed.
 

Lady Vanessa

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My personal take on this:

I once upon a time owned a sexual adult social media platform and when it comes to booking in person adult encounters in your area, or FMTY, people aren't interested in reading your whole fuckin' scholastic resume and fluffy hyperbole diuretic websites and hoop jumping directions. You're only jazzing your own ego.
Keep your images up to date. Your screening concise. Sessions//rates/durations, local/touring locations up to date and keep it movin'.
I refused to shop online and recently said fuck it. Dove into Amazon shopping. I look at the photos, look at the stars and go immediately to the reviews. Same, Same??? LOL
 
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Lady Vanessa

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Never mind websites, there’s a large percentage of men who don’t even read ads !!!! Even Leo ads which have a word limit.
Never mind websites, never mind ads, there's that same large percentage of clients who pick up streetwalkers without any regard to any of that and just want a "quick fix".
 
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Cock Throppled

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Never mind websites, there’s a large percentage of men who don’t even read ads !!!! Even Leo ads which have a word limit.
Reading comprehension has fallen away everywhere. Unless it's an emoji, acronym or short words and sentences, I don't think a lot of people will even try. Too many words, or thinking scares them. Blame social media, schools, ESL, parents or whatever, but despite more information available than ever, we seem to be getting dumber.

I also see ads for some providers, and wonder how they get bookings.

The wording in ads is uninviting, or barely existant.

There are pictures that show the messiest room possible, legs or body with sores or band aids covering wounds. Then there are the mirror shots showing the guy taking the picture, rigs or open sanitary boxes or even an unflushed toilet.

So yes, guys are idiots.
 
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angry anderson

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Reading comprehension has fallen away everywhere. Unless it's an emoji, acronym or short words and sentences, I don't think a lot of people will even try. Too many words, or thinking scares them. Blame social media, schools, ESL, parents or whatever, but despite more information available than ever, we seem to be getting dumber.

I also see ads for some providers, and wonder how they get bookings.

The wording in ads is uninviting, or barely existant.

There are pictures that show the messiest room possible, legs or body with sores or band aids covering wounds. Then there are the mirror shots showing the guy taking the picture, rigs or open sanitary boxes or even an unflushed toilet.

So yes, guys are idiots.
Sordid pass time when you think about it.
 

jgg

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Reading comprehension has fallen away everywhere. Unless it's an emoji, acronym or short words and sentences, I don't think a lot of people will even try. Too many words, or thinking scares them. Blame social media, schools, ESL, parents or whatever, but despite more information available than ever, we seem to be getting dumber.
When I was headhunting for our employees, I would always have in the ad, " Please reply with your resume and a handwritten cover letter."

This gave me two pieces of information: that they could read by not sending a typed cover letter and that their handwriting was legible.

I may be the last person that does handwritten notes.
 
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masterpoonhunter

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When I was headhunting for our employees, I would always have in the ad, " Please reply with your resume and a handwritten cover letter."

This gave me two pieces of information: that they could read by not sending a typed cover letter and that their handwriting was legible.

I may be the last person that does handwritten notes.
I do the same.

It actually gives me three pieces of information, the CV, the letter and whether or not they read what I asked for. Of late, more than half send an email reply with their mistake laden CV and chatbot written cover letter and those get a 2 second review and get a nope.

And I also do handwritten notes but over the years the amount of keyboarding has seriously degraded my calligraphy.

Back on topic, is it really that hard to read the website? Review the menu and price list if it is there? And enjoy some lovely photos? Its all going to hell in a handbasket when it comes to the basics of comprehensive reading.
 
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