Ok,this is just messed up,tell me this,Are sp's willing to give up personal info?
I understand they risk physical harm and may be robbed by a-holes,but dont the johns risk the same thing? I for one have went to see a girl for a set amount and a certain service,then after getting there,she wanted more money and did not do what she said she would do,Isnt this not being robbed? Dont get me wrong,Im all for the ladies safety,but Im not giving my drivers license,or credit card number to a lady who I dont know .
The "personal info" that is being referred to in this thread has nothing to do with financial instruments (you give a CC number to *anyone*, and you deserve what you get) but more contact info or reference from another person in the industry. Simple as a phone number, that's all.
But there's idiots out there that think they can call from a payphone and book an appointment. I don't blame any SP from ignoring payphone and blocked calls. These insecure, unstable individuals are not worth the risk.
Paranoia makes for an uncomfortable sesion at best, and how can they be their best when they are uncomfortable. And then they get a bad review because the guy had a bad time, expecting her to be at her best, when the guy put her on the defensive from the get go.
"Personal info" could also be as simple as a PM on this site from a respected user. I've used that many a time, and had a wonderful reception each time.
If someone asks for home address or CC number, or a work number to call you at, well, sure, I'd be a little apprehensive. But if the SP had a great reputation, and I really wanted to see her, I'd probably give out a work number... all these things are decisions each individual has to make.
The worst mistake anyone can make it to agree to something outside thier comfort level, that ensures a bad session. Haggling over price, or services offered, really puts a damper on things. Find an SP in your price range comfort zone, who offers the services you want. Its that easy.
Rubin