I could not agree more . I nvere give out info about me either . It is unreasonable of an sp to ask
and they should all see how unreasonable by this case . Let stop asking for personable info and
reform this industry > just do not give it and if she will not see you with out it move on
Don't take this as a personal bash, but I couldn't disagree more.
What information an sp requires prior to a visit is up to her to decide. If you don't like the request, you are more than free to move on. But should you want to partake of her services, you must play by her rules. She sets the terms, when she will see you, how much it will cost, where it will happpen, etc. She sets the terms (and a good one will do her best to accomodate a client, especially if she wants to get return business), you can agree or not.
It's a simple thing. Just like with a mechanic, a plumber, or a dentist. You'd never consider making the unreasonable requests you seem to require from sp's when you deal with any other service provider. " I need you to fix my car in the next two hours, but I'm not going to give you my phone number, and you shouldn't charge me more than $180 because that's how much Bob at the other garage would charge". So why are sp's different?
Reforming the industry would include making sure personal information of clients *is* kept, for the protection of both client and sp.
By reforming the industry, you want to take away the criminality of the services provided, so therefore you eliminate the need for anonimity. Records need to be kept for tax purposes, and in case of disputes or even attacks, to protect the sp. Or for contact information should a heath risk show up after a visit (which can happen in even the safest environment).
By removing the criminality, you make it safer for the sp, and then they can actually work for less. Prices would drop (just like if weed were legalized, it wouldn't cost a quarter of what it does now, even with gov't taxes added). They can file tax returns, qualify for RRSPs, get health coverage, even workman's comp and EI. That's what were looking for in reforming the industry.
If you want to frequent girls who don't care about their safety by not asking for "personable information", go ahead. If you need that anonimity, you'll have to settle for the less careful ladies. Maybe those street walkers discussed in another thread. Or CL "girls". But quality providers will require personal info, contact phone # or referral before the first visit to ensure thier safety. But they destroy that info after everything proves out fine. And I wouldn't want it any other way.
Rubin