Pricing Menu Meltdown - Surcharge to NOT do something?

[vivalasvegas]

I'd be interested in the SP community's opinion on this. I'm not a FS guy, I enjoy massages, edging, or half service. Many SP's offer tiered pricing for non-FS vs FS, others do not, and that's their prerogative, no problem. When I say that I'm not interested in FS, I often hear "you're paying for my time, whatever happens during that time is up to you (within boundaries obviously)." I can respect that. But check this out: I contacted a SP/MP (posts in both sections) today for a massage who advertises that she's open to special requests, my request was to focus less on my back, and more time on the flip side. She said no problem, that's edging, so there would be an edging surcharge of X. Then came the sticker shock. She quoted me a DOUBLE surcharge, one for edging, one for NOT massaging! I'm like WTF, I can respect your edging surcharge (reluctantly), but another surcharge of the same amount to NOT massage???? Repeat: a surcharge to NOT massage! This puts the price of a simple hh massage with a bit more attention on the package 50% higher than her regular massage with a hj! Whether the massage is on my shoulders, calves or cock in the same time frame, does it really matter? I declined, and despite being completely friendly and respectful, I received a text back accusing me of being rude, wasting time, etc. Politely asking for clarification is not being rude. Is it me or is surcharging to NOT do something, while also surcharging to do something else during that time out of line??

 

[Uwuboi]

I'd be interested in the SP community's opinion on this. I'm not a FS guy, I enjoy massages, edging, or half service. Many SP's offer tiered pricing for non-FS vs FS, others do not, and that's their prerogative, no problem. When I say that I'm not interested in FS, I often hear "you're paying for my time, whatever happens during that time is up to you (within boundaries obviously)." I can respect that. But check this out: I contacted a SP/MP (posts in both sections) today for a massage who advertises that she's open to special requests, my request was to focus less on my back, and more time on the flip side. She said no problem, that's edging, so there would be an edging surcharge of X. Then came the sticker shock. She quoted me a DOUBLE surcharge, one for edging, one for NOT massaging! I'm like WTF, I can respect your edging surcharge (reluctantly), but another surcharge of the same amount to NOT massage???? Repeat: a surcharge to NOT massage! This puts the price of a simple hh massage with a bit more attention on the package 50% higher than her regular massage with a hj! Whether the massage is on my shoulders, calves or cock in the same time frame, does it really matter? I declined, and despite being completely friendly and respectful, I received a text back accusing me of being rude, wasting time, etc. Politely asking for clarification is not being rude. Is it me or is surcharging to NOT do something, while also surcharging to do something else during that time out of line??

you’re overthinking things. Who gives a shit, there’s so many girls to choose from just move on.

ooooohhhh noooo the one girl doesn’t like me 🥲

 

[westwoody]

There’s plenty of others.
Don’t worry about this one.

 

[Harmony-bc]

I'd be interested in the SP community's opinion on this. I'm not a FS guy, I enjoy massages, edging, or half service. Many SP's offer tiered pricing for non-FS vs FS, others do not, and that's their prerogative, no problem. When I say that I'm not interested in FS, I often hear "you're paying for my time, whatever happens during that time is up to you (within boundaries obviously)." I can respect that. But check this out: I contacted a SP/MP (posts in both sections) today for a massage who advertises that she's open to special requests, my request was to focus less on my back, and more time on the flip side. She said no problem, that's edging, so there would be an edging surcharge of X. Then came the sticker shock. She quoted me a DOUBLE surcharge, one for edging, one for NOT massaging! I'm like WTF, I can respect your edging surcharge (reluctantly), but another surcharge of the same amount to NOT massage???? Repeat: a surcharge to NOT massage! This puts the price of a simple hh massage with a bit more attention on the package 50% higher than her regular massage with a hj! Whether the massage is on my shoulders, calves or cock in the same time frame, does it really matter? I declined, and despite being completely friendly and respectful, I received a text back accusing me of being rude, wasting time, etc. Politely asking for clarification is not being rude. Is it me or is surcharging to NOT do something, while also surcharging to do something else during that time out of line??

As somebody who offers massage, gfe, and kink sessions, I can totally understand her reasoning. My massage is just a massage. It’s focused on deep tissue massage with a hand release. Im open to a bit of edging and usually edge a bit anyways but If you’d like to skip the massage altogether, then it’s not a massage session and would be either my kink or my gfe rate depending on the activity 💕😘

 

[Harmony-bc]

my massage is something I really enjoy offering. But it is my cheapest session. I don’t like to step too far out of what I offer in that session.

 

[Bang4thebuck]

As somebody who offers massage, gfe, and kink sessions, I can totally understand her reasoning. My massage is just a massage. It’s focused on deep tissue massage with a hand release. Im open to a bit of edging and usually edge a bit anyways but If you’d like to skip the massage altogether, then it’s not a massage session and would be either my kink or my gfe rate depending on the activity 💕😘

I think if she used this phrasing it would have been better received than what she actually said lol. What you posted makes sense to me.

 

[JackRyder]

I think if she used this phrasing it would have been better received than what she actually said lol. What you posted makes sense to me.

Um ok where is the post of what she actually said? He appears to have been price shopping and she replied to his question with her prices.
The fact that this thread is up discussing a lady's prerogative in regards to her pricing is surprising for this site , which has an excellent reputation for not allowing that.
Every human being communicates differently, find that lady who talks the way you like rather than make them all the same, like robots.

 

[angry anderson]

I'd be interested in the SP community's opinion on this. I'm not a FS guy, I enjoy massages, edging, or half service. Many SP's offer tiered pricing for non-FS vs FS, others do not, and that's their prerogative, no problem. When I say that I'm not interested in FS, I often hear "you're paying for my time, whatever happens during that time is up to you (within boundaries obviously)." I can respect that. But check this out: I contacted a SP/MP (posts in both sections) today for a massage who advertises that she's open to special requests, my request was to focus less on my back, and more time on the flip side. She said no problem, that's edging, so there would be an edging surcharge of X. Then came the sticker shock. She quoted me a DOUBLE surcharge, one for edging, one for NOT massaging! I'm like WTF, I can respect your edging surcharge (reluctantly), but another surcharge of the same amount to NOT massage???? Repeat: a surcharge to NOT massage! This puts the price of a simple hh massage with a bit more attention on the package 50% higher than her regular massage with a hj! Whether the massage is on my shoulders, calves or cock in the same time frame, does it really matter? I declined, and despite being completely friendly and respectful, I received a text back accusing me of being rude, wasting time, etc. Politely asking for clarification is not being rude. Is it me or is surcharging to NOT do something, while also surcharging to do something else during that time out of line??

Go along with a buddy to take up the slack and step in for the stuff she wants to do for a lesser price. I am available Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays.

 

[Forum mod]

Enough complaining about pricing.