Premature ejaculation
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Ah, I dream of the days when premature ejaculation was a problem. Nowadays, I have to beat the shit of my boy to get him anywhere close to the top of the hill.
Seriously, though, this was a problem at one point.
Best as I could recall, we had 2 options back then: either use a thicker condom (or double up) or do you best to take your mind off sex (ie, imagining myself in the Dallas Cowboys locker room seemed to work ).
If that still didn't dull the stimulation, then you could pull out and stop until you calmed down, or squeeze the shaft to arrest the process (sometimes a hit miss prop).
Beyond that, I'd suggest you see your doctor. I've heard there are creams and pills you can take now that dull the sensation and sensitivity , but I've never tried those myself.
As to average duration of sex, I have no freaking idea. Stupid thing has a mind of it's own. Sometimes it's a few minutes and sometimes it can go for 30-45 minutes or longer.
Have just as much chance of predicting tomorrow's weather.
Seriously, though, this was a problem at one point.
Best as I could recall, we had 2 options back then: either use a thicker condom (or double up) or do you best to take your mind off sex (ie, imagining myself in the Dallas Cowboys locker room seemed to work ).
If that still didn't dull the stimulation, then you could pull out and stop until you calmed down, or squeeze the shaft to arrest the process (sometimes a hit miss prop).
Beyond that, I'd suggest you see your doctor. I've heard there are creams and pills you can take now that dull the sensation and sensitivity , but I've never tried those myself.
As to average duration of sex, I have no freaking idea. Stupid thing has a mind of it's own. Sometimes it's a few minutes and sometimes it can go for 30-45 minutes or longer.
Have just as much chance of predicting tomorrow's weather.
I used to be 30-45mins minimal.. I believe the Angels solved that problem..
My average now is 10-30mins, depending on the lady and how I'm feeling.. A certain someone tried to kill me and made me explode 3 times in an hour.. she'll haunt my dreams for a while.. lol..
I think it's just how turned on I am and the more she's into it then more I'm down. I dream about 4-5mins =( I'd like to have a quickie before I die.. lol
My average now is 10-30mins, depending on the lady and how I'm feeling.. A certain someone tried to kill me and made me explode 3 times in an hour.. she'll haunt my dreams for a while.. lol..
I think it's just how turned on I am and the more she's into it then more I'm down. I dream about 4-5mins =( I'd like to have a quickie before I die.. lol
I think I'm 10 seconds on a bad day, 10 min on a good day. I'm not a time watcher so I don't even know for sure.
I think uncut vs cut does make a big difference in duration though. I'm uncut and when I was in my teenage it was always a bad day. It has gotten better since I didn't have to cover up with my ex. With this hobby it's always covered so it naturally has less stimulation hence it'll be a little longer.
Nowadays it's pretty random. Sometimes it's fast even when I prep it a day prior; sometimes it's not so fast even if I abstain for a couple weeks. It depends on the mood or chemistry with the partner I guess. I have learnt to satisfy the ladies with other body parts though.
I think uncut vs cut does make a big difference in duration though. I'm uncut and when I was in my teenage it was always a bad day. It has gotten better since I didn't have to cover up with my ex. With this hobby it's always covered so it naturally has less stimulation hence it'll be a little longer.
Nowadays it's pretty random. Sometimes it's fast even when I prep it a day prior; sometimes it's not so fast even if I abstain for a couple weeks. It depends on the mood or chemistry with the partner I guess. I have learnt to satisfy the ladies with other body parts though.
First of all, what do YOU call premature? Is it less than a minute? Is it consistent? Is it limited to just one particular sex act (oral, intercourse etc)?
One guy could think he came too soon because he wanted to keep going past the 10-15 min mark! So it is a bit individual. I think if you are coming in less than two three minutes, you have a problem.
When I was young, I used to come much quicker. Aat this stage of my life, sometimes I return from the session with my gun still fully loaded (so I have to come home and empty it myself).
Try self-serving yourself a few hours before the session.
Get her off first?
She doesn't enjoy a 30 minute pounding?
BFD!
Since when is about the SP?
A good way to delay the ejaculation is to close your eyes. The lack of visual will buy you some time. If that doesn't work, try closing your eyes and think of your ugly female coworkers. I work with a lot of wildebeests and hairy hogs.
Whenever I feel like I'm gonna cum, I use this method to take the edge off. Repeat and repeat. Soon enough you'll be able to control your orgasms.
I can now pound and time my release to maximize my pleasure and stretch the value of my dollar.
The drawback is I've conditioned myself to get aroused by my ugly coworkers now. Soon enough I'll be searching the ads for BBW instead of slim/fit spinners.
Whenever I feel like I'm gonna cum, I use this method to take the edge off. Repeat and repeat. Soon enough you'll be able to control your orgasms.
I can now pound and time my release to maximize my pleasure and stretch the value of my dollar.
The drawback is I've conditioned myself to get aroused by my ugly coworkers now. Soon enough I'll be searching the ads for BBW instead of slim/fit spinners.
Age definitely is a factor. The older you get the longer you last, generally speaking. I also find that slow sensual gfe sessions that culminate is a heated romp certainly add to lasting longer.
When my Jr is treated like an axe handle, sessions are usually over promptly
Thank goodness for all the gfe honeys out there.
When my Jr is treated like an axe handle, sessions are usually over promptly
Thank goodness for all the gfe honeys out there.
I have an issue with what I call "pre-cum" I sorta have a mini orgasm some fluid comes out and actually sorta feels good but need to stop thrusting for a min, then can keep going.
I've had a couple cbj's the girl see's splooge in the condom and says "oh you came already?" Which is frustrating! Never had a bbbj from an sp just girlfriends and they didn't seem to care!
My ex use to love this during sex as we didn't use condoms and it made things wetter, but random girls and sp's I've been with think I've fully orgasmed and want to stop, due to the condom "filling up a bit!"
I usually can"pound" for a few min then have to stop or really slow down during sex when having this mini orgasms. Sometimes I even get this while eating a girl out but will try to lay on a towel then get rid of it!
Can't have a girl ride me hard for 20 min lol Usually I explain to the girl and they actually prefer the stop and start method too! Sorta like "edging" for both of us!
I've had a couple cbj's the girl see's splooge in the condom and says "oh you came already?" Which is frustrating! Never had a bbbj from an sp just girlfriends and they didn't seem to care!
My ex use to love this during sex as we didn't use condoms and it made things wetter, but random girls and sp's I've been with think I've fully orgasmed and want to stop, due to the condom "filling up a bit!"
I usually can"pound" for a few min then have to stop or really slow down during sex when having this mini orgasms. Sometimes I even get this while eating a girl out but will try to lay on a towel then get rid of it!
Can't have a girl ride me hard for 20 min lol Usually I explain to the girl and they actually prefer the stop and start method too! Sorta like "edging" for both of us!
Try a change of position every 30 or 40 seconds. The time to change will buy you some room to relax and get into it. Also get a rimmer while your enjoying the oral. The sensation should balance your need to cum to soon and you will build your ability to fuck like a madman.
I've found some regulars do like to get off and they do take care of all my needs quite well if I attend to their needs as well.
One really liked to get me off in the first 10 minutes so she could have a longer session over the next hour or so. Works for me :nod:
If you are not so concerned about repeating with an SP, carry on.
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One really liked to get me off in the first 10 minutes so she could have a longer session over the next hour or so. Works for me :nod:
If you are not so concerned about repeating with an SP, carry on.
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