Pooner camaraderie: Any guys meet fellow pooners to shoot the breeze?

tantalizeme

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Pooners rarely seem to meet face-to-face.

Typically, we pursue our hobby in lone-wolf fashion. Some guys seem embarrassed when bumping into a fellow pooner at AMPs or micros.

Well, I’m not one of them. Over the past 1½ yrs I’ve met 8 pooners socially. This happened because one of us liked the other's reviews and suggested meeting, and the other accepted.

For most of the guys I met, this was the first time they actually shared a coffee or beer with a fellow pooner. Several were well-travelled and had amazing stories to tell. In 3 cases, we ended up pooning together.

Just like hockey fans or golfers have a shared interest and often like hanging out together, pooners too have a shared interest and might enjoy shooting the breeze. And, as yesterday afternoon proved, there can be a lot of breeze to shoot.

I met this pooner—call him "Bob"—for coffee. After an hour’s easy-flowing chat we booked 2 girls at a nearby micro.

Turns out, the girls have adjacent bedrooms. Given the rapport between Bob and myself I suggested, "Why don't we just do it in the same room?"

Bob was enthusiastic about the idea, and the girls—who said they had never done a foursome before—got swept up in our enthusiasm and agreed.

Initially, each of us focused on "his" girl but it didn't take long for some spontaneous mixing and matching. After doing Greek with one girl I changed covers and switched to the other for the finale while Bob did CIM with my original girl.

“Two-for-one,” he joked.

Afterwards Bob and I talked up quite a storm at another coffee shop, even competing for air time while trading pooning stories and sundry opinions about life. We went our separate ways close to 4 hrs since first meeting up.

For me, such camaraderie adds not only another meaningful dimension to pooning—it can also create a brilliant synergy by making possible threesomes or foursomes that are among this hobby's highpoints for me.
 

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Sounds like an interesting afternoon. I have a buddy whom shares the hobby so i hear you on sharing stories and adventures. The foursome idea is easy to do when you have a brother in arms. We have experienced this overseas.

Here I find it much more of a pain as the woman I tend to want to meet are all independents.

I would assume most guys don't get together due to obviously not wanting to be outed and the fact that half the men are married.

I am always curious how many members here may be friends or colleagues.

Happy pooning!

Dr. CC
 

hotjac

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It sounds like a great idea socially, and from some of your writings Tant it seems like more bang for your buck too, with much richer experiences. I think we have both gone around the block enough times that just a simple bj, and fs, is just same old same old, and hardly enough to get aroused over unless it's a banging hot body like Kelly or Vivi.

As for downsides from Crabtree, it sounds like someone was trying to make a club, or organization out of pooners - which would always end up politicized with types of polarizations by leader-of-the-pack mentalities ... not really based on friendship. and mutual fun.
 

storm rider

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I have not had a foursome with another pooner as I am not comfortable with it in general....just not my thing....as for socializing with other pooners I took it to another level and organized a monthly poker game...it took a while to get the group of players worked out...it took a lot of research with regards to each persons posts/views/opinions to guage each persons percieved mindset...my hard work paid off as I have a group of 9 players who attend the game each month.....we enjoy a wicked dinner before the game and compare notes about gals and the like.....we swap stories and exchange information and we most definatly get into some serious trash talk during the game...hell I got razzed something serious after a long time of hosting the game as I had not won a game yet....everybody got their digs at me and then I won the game that night and went on a tear and won the next 3 months in a row as well.

Overall I would say I have gained 9 good friends...I play golf with those that play golf....I have gone on a road trip to edmonton with 1 guy....and another of the group helped me pick up and put togeather the sectional & dining table I bought at Costco last month....and my culinary skills have gone through the roof since I started this game....so I can appreciate the social aspect of knowing/meeting other pooners and I can say that the pooners that make up my guest list cover a wide cross section that includes marriage status/employment/ethnicity/age.

I have been hosting this poker game for over 2 years now and I have no regrets.

SR
 

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I have not had a foursome with another pooner as I am not comfortable with it in general....just not my thing....as for socializing with other pooners I took it to another level and organized a monthly poker game...it took a while to get the group of players worked out...it took a lot of research with regards to each persons posts/views/opinions to guage each persons percieved mindset...my hard work paid off as I have a group of 9 players who attend the game each month.....we enjoy a wicked dinner before the game and compare notes about gals and the like.....we swap stories and exchange information and we most definatly get into some serious trash talk during the game...hell I got razzed something serious after a long time of hosting the game as I had not won a game yet....everybody got their digs at me and then I won the game that night and went on a tear and won the next 3 months in a row as well.

Overall I would say I have gained 9 good friends...I play golf with those that play golf....I have gone on a road trip to edmonton with 1 guy....and another of the group helped me pick up and put togeather the sectional & dining table I bought at Costco last month....and my culinary skills have gone through the roof since I started this game....so I can appreciate the social aspect of knowing/meeting other pooners and I can say that the pooners that make up my guest list cover a wide cross section that includes marriage status/employment/ethnicity/age.

I have been hosting this poker game for over 2 years now and I have no regrets.

SR
That is awesome of you to host such gatherings, it is nice when you have a group of people who share a common interest become close friends, also making a network to cover each others asses on the rare occasion can be a side benefit of it also.

+1 for beign a generous host.

It would be interesting to meet others who persue this hobby, although not sure the threesome/foursome thing would be the fiirst thing on my mind, but a nice lunch and a few drinks would be good fun.
 

storm rider

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When Derek used to have his micro downtown off Robson he often talked about having PERB parties. Never did happen (or maybe I just wasn't invited :) )but I always thought it was a good idea. Derek was great to hang with. If you arrived and your girl was not quite ready Derek would bring out a beer and we would yabber for a while. Sometimes a post poon beer as well. It was a gas.

Miss those Derek days (and Tom, though Tom was less hospitable)

Anyway, I'm all up for some socializing (don't know if I share Tant's enthusiasm for sharing a room with a fellow pooner, I like my privacy, but to each their own :) )

giddyup
I have experienced/enjoyed this aspect as well...for an extended period of time I and another pooner had the "Sugarland supper club" going full throttle...once a week we would get togeather at SugarK's place and make dinner togeather...this was convenient as SugarK lived in the same building as her gals at the time....we would make enough food for all of us as well as the Sugarlings.....I gotta say it was such a treat to bring piping hot chicken/pork souvlaki with roasted rosemary/garlic baby potatoes accompanied with a greek salad & pan fried pita bread with tzatziki sauce to those gals....holy fuck they went gaga over it LOL....truth be told I damn near got a BBBJ when I brought the gals beef wellington ;)

Fun stuff is all I can say....ahh the memories come flooding back to my mind right now.....damn....Stella looked so cute in those fuzzy Hello Kitty slippers & matching robe :thumb:

SR
 

Ray

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My situation was a little different.
One of my best friends was a pooner who got me to try it when we were younger. I enjoyed it and continued sporadically for a while.
Difference was, I was married and he was not. He tried to use it against me, and got to a point where he insisted I share my wife with him.
So I lost my best friend.
Have since learned to keep my extra-curricular activities discreet.
 

Man Mountain

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Over the years, I've been to a few social gatherings with forum members as well as meeting a couple of guys that I engaged with fairly regularly in chat in one on one situations. The werl thing a couple of months back was a good time. I'm always open to meeting forum brethren. But I also don't see myself engaging in any sessions with any fellow dudes -- meeting and socializing is my limit. :)
 

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I get together with Randy Whorewald (some of you may remember him) quite often for coffee.
 

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Yes this an aspect of the business that I have enjoyed , Over here on the island for the last 2yr or more we have ? had ? a social group made from members of the board and some girls too. It has had its good time and bad .. i still see some of the guys socially for breakfast or to help out with some thing
About 5 yrs ago I got together with one guy off the board and we had a foursome with some of the ladies with both knew . We had only meet for coffee once before to get acquainted .

Shooting the breeze with others that know all about what you do is a little liberating we are such an up tight society about sex here in north America other countries .. are far more open about it in there social groups .. not just those that see escorts ...

I all way up for a foursome or more .. but not too many guys are ..
 

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I've always wondered about meeting guys you can talk to about our hobby.
None of my friends would understand and totally judge me.

VIP in Victoria used to have parties where the pooners got to meet the girls.
I always wished there was something like that here.
 

hotjac

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When Derek used to have his micro downtown off Robson he often talked about having PERB parties. Never did happen (or maybe I just wasn't invited :) )but I always thought it was a good idea. Derek was great to hang with. If you arrived and your girl was not quite ready Derek would bring out a beer and we would yabber for a while. Sometimes a post poon beer as well. It was a gas.

Miss those Derek days (and Tom, though Tom was less hospitable)

Anyway, I'm all up for some socializing (don't know if I share Tant's enthusiasm for sharing a room with a fellow pooner, I like my privacy, but to each their own :) )

giddyup
Ahh Derek .. yes he was a great host; and always, in the beginning, was quick with a beer. actually some of his girls would also offer you one just before the shower. He would be one micro operator that i would like to have back again.
 

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No, I did not share my wife.

Back when we were younger, physically fit and adventerous, we contemplated the whole swinging/swapping thing. But this 'friend' had nothing to offer in return and my wife never found him attractive. It may have happened if he wasn't trying to be forceful about it and we were having drinks, but he was never respectful.

My wife ended up finding him creepy the way he was acting, and I realized it was best if we stopped hanging out. Haven't seen him in years.
My wife knows I frequent strip clubs and knows I 'may have' visited massage parlors, she'd rather not have it discussed openly.
 

tantalizeme

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Some inspiring contributions to this thread

No, I did not share my wife.

Back when we were younger, physically fit and adventerous, we contemplated the whole swinging/swapping thing. But this 'friend' had nothing to offer in return and my wife never found him attractive. It may have happened if he wasn't trying to be forceful about it and we were having drinks, but he was never respectful.

My wife ended up finding him creepy the way he was acting, and I realized it was best if we stopped hanging out. Haven't seen him in years.
My wife knows I frequent strip clubs and knows I 'may have' visited massage parlors, she'd rather not have it discussed openly.
Just want to express thanks to those who've shared examples of pooner camaraderie. I'm glad a few guys on this board have experienced, or even initiated, mingling with fellow pooners.

Storm rider, I'm really impressed by your monthly "poker nights" with other pooners!

Ray, I'm sorry to read the guy who introduced you to pooning got the hots for your wife and wanted to pressure the two of you do a threesome with him. Bizarre. Usually you'd think pooners don't experience the kind of sexual scarcity that causes many non-pooners to become obsessed with some particular lady and to make incredibly foolish decisions as a result.

But it's not easy to feel sanguine about pooners ever forming anything like a "community." Personally, I'll sporadically make contact with fellow pooners whose posts intrigue me.

If they care to meet, we can have a nice rap session and possibly go out pooning together, but that's probably as far as my socializing with fellow pooners goes.

Basically I just love to bang a new girl every other week or so. I'd certainly like to push the boundaries of what's possible in this hobby, but for the most part I still prefer the intimacy of a one-on-one encounter.

Occasional 3-somes or 4-somes with SPs & fellow pooners are a nice change. Like everything else, it's good to do these things sometimes, though I'm not planning to make them a regular habit.

But if I hear local SPs organizing reasonably priced orgy parties like those in Europe (as reported in another thread by brother mrsp), I'll definitely sign up. http://gentlemansparties.com/
 

badbadboy

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Although I like the idea of meeting up for coffee or drinks etc I think the anonymity of the forum works best for me. I don't mind chatting in the chat area and sharing but face to face has some trust issues for me.

I've done the foursome thing in the past but not with SP's. I do read with interest some of the recent events in the reviews and just say "damn that's hot" :D
 

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As a relatively inexperienced pooner, i'm rather intrigued by the idea of "group pooning". If anyone's looking for a tag-team partner, feel free to PM :thumb:
 

satinguy

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Excellent Thread!

I would welcome the idea of the guys getting together. I just found out a few of them do it here in Edmonton and maybe i will make an effort some time to join them some time. This hobby can be lonely and having an opportunity to shoot the breeze and have a beer with someone else in the hobby can only be good. I have communicated with many of the Edmonton guys and they all seem first rate to me. Discussed getting together for coffe or drinks with a few but other than a meet and greet i attended and met some great guys, i have never met anyone yet.

I notice some of the girls have some interaction and get together so why not the guys. I know a lot are worried about who they may run into but i say if i am here and my boss shows up, all the better. I would also be open to some 2 on 2, 3 on 3, or 4 on 4 action as long as there is an even ratio of guys/gals. Feel free to pm if interested.
 
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