POLL: What is GFE?

[shank]

GFE

I would say GFE is when the SP offers at least one of the 3 services: DFK, BBBJ, DATY. This is a more reliable rating method.

If you get all 3 and MSOG, DIGITS and DT (dirty talk) then it's a SGFE (super GFE or PSE?).

Chemistry is subjective and varies quite a bit. Not a reliable rating. I would use YMMV here. If you want to rate it then do it separately.

 

[paintman]

For me the gfe is something that I feel not the acts themselves. Sure we all like to receive the extras but hey safety first. Do I really want to dfk an sp that I know does bbbj with anyone that can pay extra? I don't think so......
I feel that kissing wether french or not is intimate but the soft touching and cuddling can bring me to the closeness that I associate with gfe.
Its all in what the individual needs. But without chemistry it is certainly to mechanical to be gfe.

 

[bigmoe69er]

You are right on, Paintman! I agree with you 100%.
---Moe

 

[Hipster Doofus]

Do I really want to dfk an sp that I know does bbbj with anyone that can pay extra? I don't think so......

Lets take that a little further. If you are that squeamish - Why would you want to DKF with an escort in the first place? Why would you even visit an escort?

Forget about DATY - do you have any idea where thats been?

Lets say you have 2 escorts. One allows DATY, DFK and BBBJ. The other does not.

Is the first one "dirty" and the second one is "clean"?

"Clean" relative to what? She aint a fawking nun.

 

[Hipster Doofus]

Gina

I'm fighting for the rights of escorts to suck dick any which way they please.

Call me an activist.

 

[spaceghost]

Aww c'mon Gina...

Dontcha wanna be a dirrrrty gyrrrl for me?

 

[shank]

GFE

If its just chemistry why even bring up bbbj, dfk, daty into the equation?

GFE as a review rating has to be reliable. My understanding of it was whether a particular sex act was offerred or not.

Chemistry is a romantic rating. You can have it without any sex. Good conversation, dinner, massage, cuddling can do it alone.

To define GFE as a sexual experience and a romantic experience is like comparing apples and oranges. SPs tend to mean romance when they describe themselves as GFE whereas hobbyists mean sex.

 

[spaceghost]

Whaddya saying Shank... that when guys refer to GFE... they want SEX from an sp like they would get from a good girl friend?

It's interesting how guys also hold those girlfriends - the ones who were great companions AND could f*ck like a good, dirty prostitute - in the highest esteem.

I think that Chemistry is a good part of the equation for the GFE question... but equally as high is the raw SEX component.

She may cuddle... but if there was a lame hj, no MSOG and you were given the bum's rush out the door... the negative reviews would fly.

Which brings us back to measuring the sex component.

___________________

"Damn it Jim, I'm a hooker not a miracle worker"

 

[Poseidon]

I think the whole GFE experience all boils down to each individual's past tastes and experiences. If in the past, you had a GF that offered all activities in the sex menu as well as the chemistry then you would compare this to the GFE. Or if one had a GF but didn't get everything in the sex menu but just had chemistry then you would compare this to a GFE.

BBBJ is a risky activity, but being in this hobby or being an sp all have risks no matter how clean and safe you are, and how well you maintain your hygiene. Condoms and other contraceptives aren't %100 effective. Slippage of condoms can occur at anytime. So if any sp or hobbyist wants to be 100% safe. Don't have sex, be monogamous, or hell just masturbate. IMHO, This concern about BBBJ has been beaten to death.

 

[Poseidon]

Spaceghost wrote:
Take out the greek and this is why Victoria-Lee was being lured to Vegas for a two week appearance with guarentee of 70,000 US (not including tips).

What did she have to do, and do you know if she took this gig?

 

[spaceghost]

That... you will have to ask her yourself. She has mentioned the issue before which is why I commented on it here.

 

[bigdman]

Paige

Please check your PM box...thanks

bigdman

 

[Pete Graves]

Ask this question on TERB and see the answer you get. A lot of SPs would like to think they don't have to provide DFK and BBBJ to advertise a GFE, that their charming personalities are enough. But I never had a girlfriend that wouldn't kiss me or that put a condom on me before she'd give a BJ.

 

[chuck1561]

Well..

Agreed Pinhead..

Peter...This isn't TERB...and sp's no matter where they are from don't HAVE to provide anything they choose not too... the ladies who have answered in this thread for example have very succesful business's and that is being done with the services that they offer...Guess that just means you just won't go see one of them is all It's simply a matter of choice ...Yours and Hers

 

[Pete Graves]

Gee Chuck, please point out where I said they had to offer certain services. However, they should be prepared to receive criticism when they advertise a "GFE" based on their sparkling personality only. Have you had a girlfriend that wouldn't kiss you?

 

[chuck1561]

hmmm let me see...

well..Pete this is where I got that idea...
Quote:
"A lot of SPs would like to think they don't "have" to provide DFK and BBBJ to advertise a GFE" ...
correct me if Im wrong but I took that as meaning if they advertise as GFE, in your opinion, that would mean they would have to provide those services to stay in business or compete with other sp's who may provide those extras , which just isn't the case..if so ..how are these gals staying in business?

and as I have said,IMHO, GFE means what you want it too.if you feel that the lady doesn't meet your expectation because of her advertising and your experiecne with what you think GFE is then don't see her...there are still different takes on what GFE means to each person ..including to clients...

oh..btw..I've seen sp's who DFK and still don't think my experience with them would be GFE because of how I was treated in other aspects of the encounter..

 

[Pete Graves]

See, that's the problem Chuckie: if the lady doesn't meet my expectation because of her advertising, then it's likely I or someone else has already spent the money. It's bait and switch really. GFE implies something. IF a SP doesn't want to act like a girlfriend, that's fine. But then they shouldn't advertise that they do.

 

[chuck1561]

that's your opinion..

bait'n switch (well that's your opinion).. but I hardly think so..that's what reviews are for..and these gals have plenty..so noone should go to them without having some idea of what's offered...for example, if the ladies who've responded here are guilty of that then they wouldn't be as succesful as they are...your perception of GFE is just different than mine and of some others as well...is all..but I have a lot of respect for these ladies, have seen one of them, and in my book she is GFE..IMHO..we're all different as is our opinions.. that's what makes the world go 'round....I've also previously mentioned that I know guys that go to Sp's because of what their gf's won't do(not talking about DFK as that is not the main thing that has been mentioned in this thread that has been disagreed with by sp's) again have been with ladies who offer certain services..but still got treated like crap...not GFE in my book!

also, if in your research of a lady you plan to see, who advertises as such, you can't find out if she is what you want before you go see her then why take the chance in loosing your money and wasting your time.... or for that matter when you're there ask before you hand over the money...you can always leave if you're not satisfied with the answer..and then at least in that case only your time will have been wasted not your money

 

[maude]

Paige - That would be ....

Cruel and unusual punishment . . . Especially having to put the coffee on prior to leaving . . . . ;-)

 

[chuck1561]

LMAO...

Now that's a GFE... but you'd look sexy in fuzzy pj's, even the ones with da feet in them