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POLL: What is GFE?

What does "GFE" mean to you?

  • CBJ, One SOG

    Votes: 1 1.8%
  • CBJ, MSOG

    Votes: 1 1.8%
  • DFK, CBJ, DATY, MSOG

    Votes: 16 28.6%
  • DFK, BBBJ, DATY, MSOG

    Votes: 22 39.3%
  • DFK, BBBJTC, DATY, MSOG

    Votes: 10 17.9%
  • DFK, BBBJTC, DATY, Greek, MSOG

    Votes: 6 10.7%

  • Total voters
    56
  • Poll closed .
Excellent Idea!

I always thought GFE was a role play type of thing. You know complain about the toilet seat being up, having a headache, watching romantic comedies.... :p Seriously though, I was under the impression that CBJ, DFK etc... wasnt really GFE and that it was more an attitude of making a client feel really special..... So comments would be helpful for sure gents....
 

Ulysses

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Attitude is a necessary but insufficient ingredient of GFE. I think the vast majority of guys would consider DFK to be an absolutely minimum requirement.
 

chuck1561

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here is a definition from a Glossary of Terms that I found..

For myself I basically agree with Grendle above but here is a definition of GFE that I got from a glossary of terms section at BD site... It seems to be in 2 parts:

GFE
Girl Friend Experience. Definition varies by provider. Refers to a type of session providing aspects of social and physical interaction beyond the act itself. Some ladies provide the GFE experience as part of their regular services, while others do so depending on the circumstances or not at all.


GFE
Girl Friend Experience #2: What it means to each person is a little different, but to most guys it means a provider that makes the experience seem unrushed, enjoyable, fun, relaxing and more like a "real date than a quick commercial encounter. In practice, though, it seems to depend on chemistry, personality and mutual expectations, as YMMV ("your mileage may vary") for both the provider and client. A general description might be: a multiple hour session that facilitates the experience, mutual cuddling/foreplay, mutual kissing, mutual oral sex (covered or uncovered--depending), and involves either the illusion or reality of passion on the part of the provider.

to me GFE is like saying "Open Minded" ..it can mean whatever the person saying it wants depending on what that person prefers in an encounter..IMHO..oh and for your general information here is the link to the glossary...

Glossary of Terms
I think I have put this in another thread somewhere (the link that is) and can't remember where..;)

ps..Luscious...I really like your sense of HaHa..lol:p

BTW..I didn't vote either..to me not it's not one (although I really like DFK etc) or any combination of the physical act itself that makes a GFE..it's the entire experience..again IMHO;)
 
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Re: Excellent Idea!

Luscious said:
I always thought GFE was a role play type of thing. You know complain about the toilet seat being up, having a headache, watching romantic comedies.... :p Seriously though, I was under the impression that CBJ, DFK etc... wasnt really GFE and that it was more an attitude of making a client feel really special..... So comments would be helpful for sure gents....
Luscious - point well taken! I just had no way to include "attitude" in the poll. I suggest that the first 10 mins of any session be devoted to a tiff related to the toilet seat position. After that, the sex will be "make-up sex" and therefore GFE by definition!! :p

When I think back on my pooning experience, it occurs to me that the vast majority of GFE's for me involved at least DFK and BBBJ - but a good attitude and mutual respect were other key ingredients of the session. Having said that, I recently had two back-to-back GFEs in MTL recently where DFK was not on the menu. Oh well....to each his/her own, I guess!
 
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Hipster Doofus

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wow! yer a fucking idiot!
I hate the term GFE...its misused in every review I've ever read and I refuse to use it.

GFE is....(are ya ready?)......tenderness and affection towards each other. Nothing more than a feeling - its NOT a sex act.
 

chuck1561

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again just my opinion...

Yes people go to see sp's for sex..that being said there are also people and a lot of them who go to them for that and a whole lot more...if one doesn't like to talk or the companionship type of encounter fine..but you cannot say that the other doesn't exist...I know ladies and from this Island who go on Long appts..(4days etc) and if one thinks they go for 96 hrs of straight sex without them saying a word..well...I just mean that as an example..4 days is a lot but one can go on far shorter appts and still want the "company" and the sex without having an actual gf.. I myself like the whole experience and there is Nothing Wrong with that!! Everyone should not be lumped together as to what they like and don't like...IMHO;)

ps...if you notice on some ladies sites, they offer up socializing pkgs (Dinner etc and Private time together)... "The Whole Experience" and I do believe that the agencies offer it as well:p
 
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No specific act counts as GFE to me. It's how well you relate, attitude, sense of humour etc. I can come into a situation with a game plan, (eg defining to self what acts will occur as above), but when you fall into "what feels natural" it seems more real and more fun.
 

chuck1561

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Good Point Crusty

Well said ;) :p
 

chuck1561

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this is why I didn't vote...

I honestly do respect your opinion...however mine just differs..the term "GFE" seems to mean whatever anyone wants it to mean..but to me the poll does not reflect at all what a GFE (if one is to use that term) is supposedly all about..Wether one wants to believe it or not.. There are guys who would go on an appt no matter the length not have any sex at all and consider her a GFE because of the way they were able to relate to each other..the Poll IMHO is misleading and Iam not saying that to offend or attack anyone it again is my opinion.....and what a gf would do with a bf ( in the real world) also differs..I've heard many guys (who have an SO) go to sp's because of what their GF won't do for them ...but as I mentioned ..GFE seems to be able to mean whatever the person using it wants it to mean..just like the elusive "open minded" ;) my 2cents is now up to 10 bucks..oh well:D
 
At VE our minimum to call one of our ladies GFE is DATY, MSOG, CBJ, and light kissing (DFK YMMV) but they must also have the personality to match. Our ladies that provide Greek and BBJ usually do so on their own accord and its usually not included in full service. We try to match people up as well as we can so the client isnt disappointed and the lady isnt put in an uncomfortable situation. Any clients out there provide the BFE? You know where the hour is spent tuning up the car or redoing the kitchen? :p
 

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Gosh I don't believe it. It is Hipsters other side coming out. What did you do spend all weekend watching chick flicks?? Seriously tho my felling of the term GFE is that there is a mutual attraction by both client and sp. In other words(and you can tell when it happens) that all money exchanged aside there is a physical attraction. It has happened to me over the years with a few ladies. They were always the most memorable ones. No sp can be that good an actress.
 
I think you just made it easier for me to put into words what we look for in GFE personality. A lady who genuinely likes the company of a man and is very easy to get along with. A lady's open minded menu is the kindling, a great personality and a genuine love for the work is the fuel. And with the right spark, you've got FIRE baby! :p
 

chuck1561

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Good Point Luscious

I think you hit the nail on the head luscious, IMHO, along with the previous post although I couldn't get past the "mutual physical attraction" part, as with all the encounters that I've had that may have been considered "GFE" to me, I obviously have found the Lady Very Attractive but I don't think of myself as attractive to women so that wouldn't enter my mind as part of the experience.. as a matter of fact..the ladies I had a Great time with made me forget all about that as if it didn't matter..if that makes any sense :rolleyes: ;) :p

ps..lol..luscious...how about gift certificates for tune ups...tools and I don't get along...and I used to get kicked out of kitchens..;)
 
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spaceghost

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PAIGE!!!

Oh my!... usually so reserved and distant when it comes to the discussions on this board. Usually you are content to let the Perb.erts yak back and forth.

Gee... a move to Vancouver and we get a 'new', more engaging paige (post-wise that is).

I like it.
 
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