POLL: What is GFE?
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BWHAHAHA! SG yer killing me!
Hey Victoria Mod - BAN THE FAWKER!
obscene images on a board about hookers! Imagine that!
(i say that facetiously)
Hey Victoria Mod - BAN THE FAWKER!
obscene images on a board about hookers! Imagine that!
(i say that facetiously)
Hi Paige...
Thanks for getting back to us (I love those who are articulate and bold enough to engage us in debate).
Chuck... you yanked your post... but I want to comment on a part of it... I am not trying to change anyone... just pointing out Paige's concern with the poll results - and then questioning some parts of her concerns.
Paige? Is there not concern about infection from DATY (small mouth cuts... soft gums which can bleed, ect)? As for test results... don't some things (like HIV) take up to six months to show up on tests?
Oh... Victoria Mod? Hipster made me do it! LOL
Thanks for getting back to us (I love those who are articulate and bold enough to engage us in debate).
Chuck... you yanked your post... but I want to comment on a part of it... I am not trying to change anyone... just pointing out Paige's concern with the poll results - and then questioning some parts of her concerns.
Paige? Is there not concern about infection from DATY (small mouth cuts... soft gums which can bleed, ect)? As for test results... don't some things (like HIV) take up to six months to show up on tests?
Oh... Victoria Mod? Hipster made me do it! LOL
just had to make a change
I yanked it because part of it had to do with wether Paige would respond or not..she posted hers while I was writing mine..you talked about the Poll and 65%..65%of what...39 people total voted in the poll so far...my opinion, but that's a small number of people..not gonna have too much effect on anything let alone concern an sp about her business that's been doing well way before this little poll was posted....there are lots of people out there that don't consider bbbj to have anything to do with GFE..and the simple fact is..call ..try and make an appt ..if bbbj is what you want and she doesn't offer it..well I guess you're outta luck with that sp...her business will continue and the client moves on..been happening for years..go figure
I yanked it because part of it had to do with wether Paige would respond or not..she posted hers while I was writing mine..you talked about the Poll and 65%..65%of what...39 people total voted in the poll so far...my opinion, but that's a small number of people..not gonna have too much effect on anything let alone concern an sp about her business that's been doing well way before this little poll was posted....there are lots of people out there that don't consider bbbj to have anything to do with GFE..and the simple fact is..call ..try and make an appt ..if bbbj is what you want and she doesn't offer it..well I guess you're outta luck with that sp...her business will continue and the client moves on..been happening for years..go figure
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lol - I know where this is going!
its a TRAP Paige! SG is cornering you into a no win situation.
You need to DANCE!
its a TRAP Paige! SG is cornering you into a no win situation.
You need to DANCE!
Hipster, hipster, hipster...
I am sure Paige can handle the Kobayashi Maru.
Paige... what do I want? Your opinion. Nothing more... not even for an extra $20.
I am sure Paige can handle the Kobayashi Maru.
Paige... what do I want? Your opinion. Nothing more... not even for an extra $20.
Right on Paige. Besides, in response to one of HD's earlier comments about pulling out a gas mask and gloves for DATY... you can buy special latex squares that are disigned for safe DATY. They come in all kinds of flavours and colours too. Don't you guys watch the Sunday Night Sex Show!??! And I think the underlying point here is that if the client chooses DATY without cover, its HIS choice, not the ladys. And if the lady chooses CBJ rather than BBBJ, again, it HER choice. We all have our little safety hangups (for me its amusement park rides.... can't trust em no how). We are all individuals looking for some good times. There is always a happy medium.
Safety should be the priority for everyone, SPs and clients alike. No one wants to hear that they got some funky infection over a few minutes of careless pleasure. And for guys who are really insistent on BB activites, a BBJ I have no ideas on, but BBFS the woman can wear a female condom, and presto.... the client has the illusion of BBFS!! Everyone is safe, everyone is happy.
As for GFE....I think Luscious hit the nail on the head. It is an attitude not an action. You can have great sex, but if she isn't into it, it takes away from the overall pleasure of it.
My $0.02
Safety should be the priority for everyone, SPs and clients alike. No one wants to hear that they got some funky infection over a few minutes of careless pleasure. And for guys who are really insistent on BB activites, a BBJ I have no ideas on, but BBFS the woman can wear a female condom, and presto.... the client has the illusion of BBFS!! Everyone is safe, everyone is happy.
As for GFE....I think Luscious hit the nail on the head. It is an attitude not an action. You can have great sex, but if she isn't into it, it takes away from the overall pleasure of it.
My $0.02
some SP's merely go through the motions, while others truly enjoy the times they have with their clients, but i don't think any SP confuses what she is doing with "love-making"!
you can buy sex but you can't buy love... you can love buying sex tho...
you can buy sex but you can't buy love... you can love buying sex tho...
XTC Fan
It is, to some extent, a matter of semantics. I do believe that some providers (albeit a small minority) would feel that they are making love. Your final statement, however, is 100% correct!
---Moe
It is, to some extent, a matter of semantics. I do believe that some providers (albeit a small minority) would feel that they are making love. Your final statement, however, is 100% correct!
---Moe
I was giving this whole issue of the GFE experience some thought while hanging out at a local strip club yesterday (gotta do something while waiting for my quarterly business trip to Vancouver and visiting your fine mp's!).
Anyway, whether we are visiting an SP at a strip club, an mp, or an escort, we are basically asking for some level of service. I part with X dollars, she provides a service. Point is, whether I just bought a dance at the sc or a couple of hours of companionship with specific services included, the lady can chose to provide them mechanically or can provide them while pretending that we are friends.
Arguably, a lady who talks to me, makes me feel more comfortable, who plays the game that she is enjoying the experience, who makes the most of our few minutes or an hour, is more important in my book than whether the BJ is BB or not. Heck, I had a GFE with a lap dancer yesterday... it certainly wasn't FS, but she did provide a value added service that enhansed the pleasure. Probably somewhere in the definition of GFE is providing services at the high end of what we paid for, rather than the bare minimum. Remember, a lot of sex is in our brain -- Playing the part of my GF while providing X service is worth more to me than simply having an SP perform a service.
The thrill is in the chase, not in the purchase of services.
Anyway, whether we are visiting an SP at a strip club, an mp, or an escort, we are basically asking for some level of service. I part with X dollars, she provides a service. Point is, whether I just bought a dance at the sc or a couple of hours of companionship with specific services included, the lady can chose to provide them mechanically or can provide them while pretending that we are friends.
Arguably, a lady who talks to me, makes me feel more comfortable, who plays the game that she is enjoying the experience, who makes the most of our few minutes or an hour, is more important in my book than whether the BJ is BB or not. Heck, I had a GFE with a lap dancer yesterday... it certainly wasn't FS, but she did provide a value added service that enhansed the pleasure. Probably somewhere in the definition of GFE is providing services at the high end of what we paid for, rather than the bare minimum. Remember, a lot of sex is in our brain -- Playing the part of my GF while providing X service is worth more to me than simply having an SP perform a service.
The thrill is in the chase, not in the purchase of services.
