Personality or physical attraction to SP?

[Theguyfromvictoria]

I think the obvious answer is ‘both’
I like a playful ad, one that show some personality...
But obviously physical attraction is also paramount....it may sound a bit crass but I have always been of the mindset ‘hell, if I’m gonna PAY for it, it might as well be someone young/hot ‘ that wound never, ever look my way twice...

I pose the question as their is a contributor on here that while doesn’t necessary fit my definition of ‘young/hot’, I am quite attracted to her personality ...
I’m guessing the response will be that I should book her ? Thanks
Look forward to the responses..

 

[vanperb]

Looks gets me through the door. Personality gets me to come back.

 

[dickdoes]

Agree 100 percent

 

[MDpooner]

Has to be a combination of both. I have met 5 physically beautiful SPs, I would see any one of them again because of the physical attraction I had. None of their personalities turned me off. WHile it will likley not matter to the individual SPs I am thinking of, there are a number that I have decided never to communicate with simply by their personality presented here on perb. (I am aware that by saying this I will invite attacks)

 

[cruefan]

I agree that looks will always be what initially gets me to make the booking and the personality combined with chemistry is what will have me coming back for more.

 

[Mr. J]

Looks gets me through the door. Personality gets me to come back.

Couldn't have said it better myself.

 

[islander1-1]

YES Looks, First impressions count.. weather she is advertising on the web or on a street corner somewhere.. IT's the looks that draw me in, but the chemistry has to be there to have me come back. One thing I have come to realize with at least 2 of my big favorites, is once they know they got me hooked but good.... they play hard to get.... But then when I finally get to see her, its even better than ever..

 

[GeeBeeP]

I agree with the OP, I've been more attracted to providers after getting some sense of their personality (and added them to my bucket list) even though they aren't necessarily the "young/hot" dream girl.

I suspect it depends on what kind of interaction you're into as a client, personally her looks get my attention, but not immediately a booking. The way she presents herself in ads, website and social media give an indication of her personality even without meeting in person.

I've had way better sessions with ladies that have engaging personalities than ones who might be drop dead gorgeous but aren't any fun to be with before, during, and after the main events.

So to answer the OP's question, yes book her. IMO a good time with an SP isn't only about how hot she is at first glance. (And lets be honest we've all likely been taken in by misleading and re-touched pics and booked ladies who aren't quite as young or hot as they seem to be anyway.)

And a shout out to all the Perb contributors who include their of impressions of a SP's personality in their reviews!! That makes a huge difference to the possibility that I'll meet an SP. Thanks boys!!

 

[take8easy]

Like other members have said, yes, looks make me consider seeing an SP. Either that or good reviews and still looks do matter. But all the girls I have repeated, I found their personality great and/or the chemistry was great.

 

[steverino]

The personality (sensual excitement versus pure physical) makes the experience.

 

[masterblaster]

I was initially attracted to an escort some years ago because of her physical appearance. Blonde, very attractive with an awesome body. After I got to know her then her personality was what I found attractive.

 

[PierreCoeur]

Intelligence, Personality, kindness, Facial beauty, great fit body, humungous boobs. If a girl doesn't have the first two traits, I would not visit her a second time.

If there are reports or reviews of women who have all the traits described above, I likely will not visit out of fear she would become an addiction. I am already a nympho and I don't want to be addicted to someone who ticks each checkbox on my list.

 

[kvee]

TBH, I'm not sure how bad the personality has to be, for me not to see a smokeshow again.

 

[Bizzaynass]

Intelligence, Personality, kindness, Facial beauty, great fit body, humungous boobs. If a girl doesn't have the first two traits, I would not visit her a second time.

If there are reports or reviews of women who have all the traits described above, I likely will not visit out of fear she would become an addiction. I am already a nympho and I don't want to be addicted to someone who ticks each checkbox on my list.

I found that lady 18 months ago. 15+ dates later and a few thousand dollars later, I'm addicted to someone who ticks each checkbox on my list.

 

[PierreCoeur]

I found that lady 18 months ago. 15+ dates later and a few thousand dollars later, I'm addicted to someone who ticks each checkbox on my list.

I think the most repeats I have ever done with a single woman is about five. That's when I recognize her as an addiction and just disappear. Can't imagine seeing someone 15 times and not being obsessed with them and/or being "in love". I hate being in love with anyone because when that happens I start a diary to myself talking about the relationship and writing fucking poems. That is just pathetic.

 

[Poon Raider]

I think the most repeats I have ever done with a single woman is about five. That's when I recognize her as an addiction and just disappear.

This is an interesting perspective and understandable. I have 2 ladies who've I have just hit the 5 visit mark recently but I find the sessions are great. We know what are our turn-ons, and personalities, things get less and less business-like. In fact, my only issue is us catching up/talking too much it eats into the physical fun time

 

[Joe36blow]

Both and neither all in one. I’m always game to meet new ladies, and it’s surprising how some can play my like a fiddle when others, who initially drew me in physically, fell flat. Yes behave thrown caution to the wind many times and had epic sessions as a result.

 

[Andrew69913]

TBH, I'm not sure how bad the personality has to be, for me not to see a smokeshow again.

Last smoke show I saw was a bust. Nice woman but really didn't want to be in the business. I caught the vibe right away while she was telling me how much she was looking forward to trying greek. She had zero experience, obviously, and she had no lube, oil, or anything of the sort and just wanted to use soapy water in the shower. Anyway, I just couldn't make myself perform no matter how much my little head wanted to. My big head just kept saying, you can't put this poor woman through this lol. We just ended up chatting a while, she told me how much she wanted to go home and how I should be the sp not her lol. Her ad came down that evening and I haven't seen her again.

 

[noahbody1964]

I started with rub and rugs so massage was first priority. Like so many thing here it’s impossible to gauge without going and feeling first hand. All tastes are different so even with reviews, one mans hard massage is another's soft. Tasteful photos and intelligent description got the call.

As I progressed to FS SP’s once again tasteful photo, literate and interesting posts peaked my interest. Again the reviews are one mans beauty is another’s aunty. Same with all the age queries and concerns.

I know understand that for me looks get my attention but the attitude and personality are why I want to see any particular lady again. One wonderful lady I actually see social outside of the hobby and I still see her for dates.

No personality, no repeat. No matter how hot she may be.

 

[grizzly]

Like many have said, initial looks do provoke me to book, but her personality and attitude keep me coming back {which you don't find out until the first visit}. One one hand, I booked with a travelling girl who had rave reviews. She was a total smokeshow, like playboy material. I booked an hour and was out in 40 minutes as she had absolutely no personality outside of the act. Needless to say, I have never and will never see her again.

On the other hand, I used to see a lady who probably wouldn't register high on the total hotness scale, but she always went above and beyond. Not just in the bedroom but before and after as well. I lost count how many times I visited her. Often our times ended with going down the street for nachos and a beer, at her request, and she even paid for the nachos.