Perb member caught cheating ?
- Thread starter Fred Zed
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Too bad his dad was careless. Because he knew the risks, he should have been extremely careful. Based on carelessness alone, I think he deserves it. That kind of carelessness (about something so important) is surely to carry on in other aspects of his life. I wouldn't blame his kid for wanting to protect his mom either. He's doing what he thinks is right.
I'm gonna go with daughter. I doubt a son would "quickly turn away and block it from memory" when at first they were thinking it was just porn.
Close your browsers people!!!
Personally I'd straight up smack my dad and talk to him face to face first. Mainly cause he'd be screwed if my mother left him as he couldn't take care of himself.
are you serious? if your dad screws up you can blackmail him?! Wow, I always ended up finding out my moms totally dirty little secrets and used several approaches over the years to convince her that it would be best for everyone if she gave me a later curfew. Despite my many approaches and the incriminating information i had on her, she always turned it around and all of a sudden it was my fault OR she cried and made me feel bad for making it inconvenient to lie without consequences. I learned it was far better not to know anything she might be trying to keep secret. Shitty deal for me.
now I wish I'd had a dad growing up even MORE!
you know its sad,
being married myself, with kids.
i think what happens between my wife and me is my business, not even my kids. they don't know what happens in our bedroom behind closed doors, and in my case nothing
a buddy, his wife kicked him out after like 25 years, i remember having a few beers with him he was down in the dumps. and i told him you don't need to explain to anybody its his and his wifes business no one elses.
you know its sad it is, i have kids, and i have ofton wondered how it would all fall out if the shit hit the fan.
i guess with my heart saying it would work out ok, but i waited until my kids were grounded had jobs and a career started,
and i guess its there choice if they accept me back into there life. even my wife,
i guess for a married man it is a very stupid thing to do, but sometimes this sexual desire just grabs us. and we loose all sense.
even now, i believe this is wrong sex what is the big deal.
but im rolling arond naked with my sp having more fun sexually then i ever did in my life, if at the end of the day people don't want me to be happy, i guess that is there problem not mine
the sp i chose to see, she would actually get along great with my kids.
i don't know i have searched my mind looking for something to be guilty about, and ashamed,
and the only thing i can find is that im not having sex with my wife, not that i found another solution
being married myself, with kids.
i think what happens between my wife and me is my business, not even my kids. they don't know what happens in our bedroom behind closed doors, and in my case nothing
a buddy, his wife kicked him out after like 25 years, i remember having a few beers with him he was down in the dumps. and i told him you don't need to explain to anybody its his and his wifes business no one elses.
you know its sad it is, i have kids, and i have ofton wondered how it would all fall out if the shit hit the fan.
i guess with my heart saying it would work out ok, but i waited until my kids were grounded had jobs and a career started,
and i guess its there choice if they accept me back into there life. even my wife,
i guess for a married man it is a very stupid thing to do, but sometimes this sexual desire just grabs us. and we loose all sense.
even now, i believe this is wrong sex what is the big deal.
but im rolling arond naked with my sp having more fun sexually then i ever did in my life, if at the end of the day people don't want me to be happy, i guess that is there problem not mine
the sp i chose to see, she would actually get along great with my kids.
i don't know i have searched my mind looking for something to be guilty about, and ashamed,
and the only thing i can find is that im not having sex with my wife, not that i found another solution
The advice to go to his mother about this is just plain crazy, and if the youngster did so he would reap the whirlwind.
yeah... i say the post is bogus! what kid vacuums nowadays? especially their dad's office area?
yeah, that too... what kid EVER listens to their dad long enough to know what city he went to on business last?
My guess is this is probably real. After all, who would come up with that website address on their own. Kids will be kids and need to learn what life's about, but honestly the best thing for this person to do is either nothing, or discuss it with dad.
