I have paid SPs to leave before. It has happened a number of times. I do my research and when they arrive they are not what they claim to be. I don't need any shit so I pay the fee to get them to leave. For some I do not know about I will do a meet and greet. If I find it is not what I want or need we both walk away. I normally try and do it in a public place so there is no problem. Ever since I got mugged in Miami I take extra steps to be safe. One of the reasons I like this Forum and you guys. I have been in some scary place in Barcelona, Athens, LA, Miami, Moscow, Rio etc...
I never do incalls too many risks. I like to control the situation. Vancouver is different so much better and safer.
So LAG I have not sent them backing for your reason but I have for other reasons ie too young, too sad, bad looks, bad outfits, too high, bad attitude. Not sure if I think I was the looser in these situations. I am happy i got out of there without getting hurt.