Isn't that the truth! I absolutely HATE it when I get messages like this: Hey babe, you party? No. Does it look like it?
Sometimes I respond " like a rock star"
Then I get " reAlly ok!! Cool babe, so let's hook up "
Then I respond
" party like a rock, party like a rock star, party like a rock .... "
I just keep at it over and over till they give up.
I'm not judgmental. Some guys work hard play harder. I'm easy to be around. I know a couple guys who indulge. I handle them ok. It doesn't bother me, but I stay sober. I rarely drink more than a glass or 2 now of wine with clients. I don't enjoy being around wild behaviour tweekers, so I don't see those types. The ones who call at 6 something in the morning after I've posted, thinking I party but in just waking up. All night animals I refer to them as. Nope I don't do them. I have a couple regulars who see me in the evening sometimes and question their state but I don't ask details. I'm not dumb though.