In my 60's and recently hooked up with a sp in their 20's. This is my first time at this after a long marriage and a first ever for paying for sex. Expected the experience was not going to be anything like I was imagining, and was not wrong!
First off the 20's thing sounded great. She (name and any identifying details omitted) came well recommended here. I was a little shocked when she opened the door. Her face had been greyed out on the site, and in retrospect I realized in my mind I had inserted the face of a gorgeous 40 year old. Was taken off guard by how young she was and think she was similarly a bit surprised by my age, although she never let on directly.
Things progressed quickly, too quickly, wish I had talked to her for 10 minutes beforehand to make us both a little more comfortable. I was only an little taller than she but I sensed immediately some hesitancy even intimidation. I had thought that she would be a professional in charge to some degree but I think the age difference played against that. I was a bit ham handed and at one point started to put my hand up behind her head which she pushed away. I started scratching her back, which my wife had loved and I never really thought much about it, but she was really not happy with that for which I apologized. (Afterwards I scratched myself with the same intensity and was surprised at how hard it actually was.) When I asked if it was OK to straddle her while she hand massaged me, she declined that idea outright. Repeating another habit, my earlier (rebuffed) hand caress behind the head, she reacted very strongly and stated that one more transgression and I would be shown the door. I apologized once more but after that I was too perturbed to make any more moves through the minefield of ordinances that I was obviously having such difficulty detecting, and pretty much just laid there.
On top of it all I was having difficulty performing after spending a sleepless adrenaline drenched night dreaming about the encounter which had left me dehydrated. A few more weak apologies/explanations and I scampered out the door. Without a doubt, the highlight of the entire (mis)adventure had been during our initial text messaging when she had replied to a comment with a heart emoji! To be honest this alone was worth the price of admission so I have no complaints.
Even though I never did anything to make her think I was a threat, in retrospect I never did near enough to put her at ease that I wasn't. As she declared to me at the end 'Live and learn'!
First off the 20's thing sounded great. She (name and any identifying details omitted) came well recommended here. I was a little shocked when she opened the door. Her face had been greyed out on the site, and in retrospect I realized in my mind I had inserted the face of a gorgeous 40 year old. Was taken off guard by how young she was and think she was similarly a bit surprised by my age, although she never let on directly.
Things progressed quickly, too quickly, wish I had talked to her for 10 minutes beforehand to make us both a little more comfortable. I was only an little taller than she but I sensed immediately some hesitancy even intimidation. I had thought that she would be a professional in charge to some degree but I think the age difference played against that. I was a bit ham handed and at one point started to put my hand up behind her head which she pushed away. I started scratching her back, which my wife had loved and I never really thought much about it, but she was really not happy with that for which I apologized. (Afterwards I scratched myself with the same intensity and was surprised at how hard it actually was.) When I asked if it was OK to straddle her while she hand massaged me, she declined that idea outright. Repeating another habit, my earlier (rebuffed) hand caress behind the head, she reacted very strongly and stated that one more transgression and I would be shown the door. I apologized once more but after that I was too perturbed to make any more moves through the minefield of ordinances that I was obviously having such difficulty detecting, and pretty much just laid there.
On top of it all I was having difficulty performing after spending a sleepless adrenaline drenched night dreaming about the encounter which had left me dehydrated. A few more weak apologies/explanations and I scampered out the door. Without a doubt, the highlight of the entire (mis)adventure had been during our initial text messaging when she had replied to a comment with a heart emoji! To be honest this alone was worth the price of admission so I have no complaints.
Even though I never did anything to make her think I was a threat, in retrospect I never did near enough to put her at ease that I wasn't. As she declared to me at the end 'Live and learn'!
