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Pgup

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Non sexual activities that you like to do with a companion. Let’s say you’ve booked for 2-3 hours.
None! I book only for the sexual. For non-sexual, I have many friends.

Even then an hour is too long for me. I am a one hit wonder and don’t feel like discussing the day any longer after the deed’s over. I am respectful and polite though. Still trying to figure the beat way to prolong the session, but the premature ejaculation is the culprit. Viagara/Cialis, I don’t want to go that road. Would welcome any suggestions though!
 
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vitaminD

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None! I book only for the sexual. For non-sexual, I have many friends.
Yup, an hour is more than enough time for me, and im not a premature ejaculator.

I'm starting to think that many guys here lack friends or a bustling social life, judging by the things they say, particularly this thread.
 

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Booking an escort and doing both sexual and non sexual activities isn’t abnormal. It is an easy, drama free way to get what you want.

I often have men talk about things they’d never tell their friends before they’d be embarrassed or don’t think they can talk about that at all.

Exemple: A man telling me maybe he’d like to get pegged.
Not sure he’s gonna talk about that with his bros during hockey night. Not sure he’s gonna tell his wife either. Definitely wont

Exemple: A man travelling for work and wanting to do more than order room service to his room but less than awkwardly hitting on local girls in the hotel lobby’s bar.
All he has to do is call an escort, have a drink (non sexual), maybe go out for dinner (non sexual) and guess what? He’s sure to not go back to his room alone. A good situation if you ask me.

These men have friends.
 

Pgup

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Booking an escort and doing both sexual and non sexual activities isn’t abnormal. It is an easy, drama free way to get what you want.

I often have men talk about things they’d never tell their friends before they’d be embarrassed or don’t think they can talk about that at all.

Exemple: A man telling me maybe he’d like to get pegged.
Not sure he’s gonna talk about that with his bros during hockey night. Not sure he’s gonna tell his wife either. Definitely wont

Exemple: A man travelling for work and wanting to do more than order room service to his room but less than awkwardly hitting on local girls in the hotel lobby’s bar.
All he has to do is call an escort, have a drink (non sexual), maybe go out for dinner (non sexual) and guess what? He’s sure to not go back to his room alone. A good situation if you ask me.

These men have friends.
Example 2: He could also book an escort and not walking back to his room alone :). Depends upon the person. Some people get high only after establishing a connection, others go straight to business without wasting any time.
 

vitaminD

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Booking an escort and doing both sexual and non sexual activities isn’t abnormal. It is an easy, drama free way to get what you want.

I often have men talk about things they’d never tell their friends before they’d be embarrassed or don’t think they can talk about that at all.

Exemple: A man telling me maybe he’d like to get pegged.
Not sure he’s gonna talk about that with his bros during hockey night. Not sure he’s gonna tell his wife either. Definitely wont

Exemple: A man travelling for work and wanting to do more than order room service to his room but less than awkwardly hitting on local girls in the hotel lobby’s bar.
All he has to do is call an escort, have a drink (non sexual), maybe go out for dinner (non sexual) and guess what? He’s sure to not go back to his room alone. A good situation if you ask me.

These men have friends.
I get it if you are travelling or something. the other examples I disagree with.

some have friends, plenty on this forum clearly dont
 

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Non sexual activities that you like to do with a companion. Let’s say you’ve booked for 2-3 hours.
I’ve had a companion I’ve taken snowmobiling for the day, proper mountain snowmobiling. I doubled her on a deep pow day, her squeals were insane and she was so hot in the snow suit.
We had the most amazing sex that weekend
 
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There is one SP I've booked who enjoys a good bottle of wine as much as I do. I book extra time just so we can enjoy the wine before we enjoy each other. It would be fun to do a wine tasting with some extra 'tastings' with her some time.

I'm also big on cuddling. It's a really healthy part of this hobby -- getting that skin on skin contact and just relaxing with each other.

One of the most interesting sessions ever was with an SP with whom I had a fantastic mutual oral workout. Afterwards we curled up together and just vegged in a weird meditative state ... we both commented on how it was the most relaxed state we had ever achieved at any time!

Finally, a great massage and sex alway pair together well.

Bonus: figure out some way to have sex on the beach with an SP one evening. Probably the only part of dating I miss!
 
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There is one SP I've booked who enjoys a good bottle of wine as much as I do. I book extra time just so we can enjoy the wine before we enjoy each other. It would be fun to do a wine tasting with some extra 'tastings' with her some time.

I'm also big on cuddling. It's a really healthy part of this hobby -- getting that skin on skin contact and just relaxing with each other.

One of the most interesting sessions ever was with an SP with whom I had a fantastic mutual oral workout. Afterwards we curled up together and just vegged in a weird meditative state ... we both commented on how it was the most relaxed state we had ever achieved at any time!

Finally, a great massage and sex alway pair together well.

Bonus: figure out some way to have sex on the beach with an SP one evening. Probably the only part of dating I miss!
What’s better than sex on the beach? Tulips 🌷 on the organ… 😜
 
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I once took out a SP for New Years. She was dressed very well and looked sexy as hell, but then she had a beautiful face and figure to start with, with eyes in the place on her. We had a great multi-course dinner and great conversation, she was very open and a great communicator. After midnight we retired to her place for dessert and start the new year off right.
 

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Why would I hire an escort to do things that aren't sexual with when I can do non sexual things with woman I'm not paying?
A couple of big reasons I can think of.

If you don’t have an SO or GF’s to do these things with (and even if you do) it’s pretty hard to beat the feeling of doing anything with a hot woman who’s way out of your league and comfortable being with you. If you’re Brad Pitt and can get dates with attractive women any time you want I guess that’s not a problem, but for most of us ….

Second is the sure knowledge that you’re going to finish off the evening screwing the hot woman who’s way out of your league, and that the sex if going to be pretty fantastic :) Even Brad must have some unsatisfying encounters. When you have a night out with an SP there’s no frustration of your evening ending without getting laid.
 

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it’s pretty hard to beat the feeling of doing anything with a hot woman who’s way out of your league and comfortable being with you
I spent a weekend with one of those hot women. It was fantastic. One time we’re having lunch and she says “If you’re bored we can go back to hotel and play” ooohh…
Sometimes knowing you can do it anytime is as good as actually doing it.
 
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rizzgod

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Why would I hire an escort to do things that aren't sexual with when I can do non sexual things with woman I'm not paying?
I think you are greatly underestimating how down bad some of the guys on here are.

I believe there are some certain exceptions or very specific circumstances where it is reasonable to pay for non-sexual services, but for the most part its just severe desperation. You must be significantly lacking in at least two out of three categories: looks, social skills, or financial resources, to feel the need to hire an escort for extended amounts of social time or non sexual services. Particularly when there is an entire industry catering to this specific need, such as sugar babies, or just regular old gold diggers which you could opt for instead. and there is a near infinite amount of incredibly attractive civilian women who are willing to socialize and do non sexual things with without any costs if you have a likeable personality.
 
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