Non sexual activities
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My regular and I like to explore restaurants that neither of us have been to yet.
Simply talk,I'm a good listener
Providers with whom, I did not enjoy sex or felt that she didnt like it with me. asked for massage or discussed my real world problem (with due permission) knowing that I am not going to see that person again.
In other cases just simple conversation on light topics between the action.
In other cases just simple conversation on light topics between the action.
My preference for time with companions is 3 hours, usually all private time but it’s never just 3 hours of sex. Some SP’s are reluctant to book that long a session, and I understand why. I’m sure some guys will expect a 3 hour viagra powered fuck fest and most girls don’t want that.
I’d love to have dinner or something more public but I’m a married man and can’t take the risk of being spotted. Other than the sex, which is the ultimate point of course, it’s about conversation and finding a connection for me. Small talk and some flirting for 20 minutes or so before the shower and pleasures of the flesh, then pillow talk between rounds. Then repeat steps 2 and 3. As Cube14 said above most SP’s I’ve met are pretty interesting people and I’ve had some fascinating conversations about the industry, their interests and the life of a young woman I’d otherwise never have the opportunity to interact with.
Life does not get any better than sex with a hot woman who is so far out of my league I can’t believe I’m lucky enough to be there, then laying next to her and having a stimulating conversation that I would likely not get under any other circumstances. Then the chance to have her climb on top of me and do it all again? That my friends is Nirvana.
I’d love to have dinner or something more public but I’m a married man and can’t take the risk of being spotted. Other than the sex, which is the ultimate point of course, it’s about conversation and finding a connection for me. Small talk and some flirting for 20 minutes or so before the shower and pleasures of the flesh, then pillow talk between rounds. Then repeat steps 2 and 3. As Cube14 said above most SP’s I’ve met are pretty interesting people and I’ve had some fascinating conversations about the industry, their interests and the life of a young woman I’d otherwise never have the opportunity to interact with.
Life does not get any better than sex with a hot woman who is so far out of my league I can’t believe I’m lucky enough to be there, then laying next to her and having a stimulating conversation that I would likely not get under any other circumstances. Then the chance to have her climb on top of me and do it all again? That my friends is Nirvana.
I am not very active, but I must admit that in many of my encounters, it has been the after the act chat (usually off the clock) that has been the most memorable. This is not to suggest that the sex was unsatisfactory - it is just not the sex that I remember. A classic example of that situation was a duo with Electra and Puddlegirl, and the lengthy conversation with Puddlegirl that followed.
I am very fond of dinner dates/ movies(I saw 50 shades 5 times, with 3 women. Disliked it more each time, but loved the after effects)/spa and resort visits.
Yes to all. A two hiur time is nice for this rhythm of passion and rest and enjoying the comfort of real presence ..I love to cuddle and chat. I even do that in one-hour dates. I don't expect to have sex for one straight hour. So, for 2-3 hours I'd like the remaining time to cuddle and chat, and get to know that amazing woman more.
For any other activity like playing video games, cooking etc., I'd rather get a girlfriend.
I love to talk so a 2-3 hr app't can include up to 2 normal app't sessions with the rest of the time chatting, caressing, light massage, maybe snacking if i brought something along. Perhaps a drink or 2 if i brought and she partakes. I don't find it difficult to fill the time providing the chemistry is there. Regarding dinner-i haven't done that and probably won't. Not because it isn't something i would be interested in with very select ladies, but my pride simply won't let me and that's my hang-up. I feel very strongly that any SP i spend time with needs to be fairly compensated for that time as per her rates but i can't bring myself to pay someone to accompany me to dinner and pay for said dinner. This is not to start any debates, nor offend anyone. Like i said-it's my hang up
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