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"No Black Men"... Cuiriosity is piqued

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ddcanz

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Related question - why do some SP's refuse to see men that are asian? Could be similiar answer to what Erica Phoenix and Lady Via already posted, but I've seen several ads that very explicit say stuff like "I do not see men of asian origin at all". Is it because they treat you bad or something else?

I.e. Erica your leolist ad says in very bold text: I respectfully decline for intensely personal reasons to see anyone of Indian/South Asian/Pakistani/Fijian heritage/ancestry; I do see persons of many races, nationalities & cultures.

Is there some reason for that beyond the potential of running into a fiancee/husband/etc?
Why should this matter to you?
If it is REALLY that important to you then take her advice- buck up for an appointment and you can discuss it with her in person.
If you happen to fall into her restricted category then just respect her wishes and move along.
No free cheese!
 

Poonian

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It doesn't really matter to me since I'm not middle eastern or asian :cool: It's more curiosity behind the reasoning for needing such a statement that has me curious.
 

badbadboy

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I visit a few SP's who won't see Persians, Indians, or Black guys. It's just from their personal history with the SP not having an enjoyable experience with those guys.

Its the old "one bad apple spoils the whole barrel" situation IMHO
 

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We had an Egyptian guy at work that only lasted a few days. Well educated engineer, seemed okay to me. Then I saw how he interacted with women.
His attitude towards women was off the charts misogynistic. He would not take instruction from females, even if they were the plant manager. He told me "I don't take orders from a woman, neither should you". Not a good attitude for today's workplace. So cultural background means a lot.
 

grusse

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I remember talking to a female server who had just arrived to start her shift.She was pissed off cuz the taxi-driver refused to listen to her when she told him what route to take to get to the pub.
his f....d-up culture wouldn't allow him to take directions from a female.btw, she said the cab also stank.
 

PierreCoeur

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The last time this topic came up, I remember there being a post about a young woman at an agency telling the booking person "No brown (EI) guys!) Then one day, a regular client came in, the agency thought "Oh but he's a great guy, and no one else is available; she won't mind this ONE TIME!" The booker went ahead, and when the girl opened the door and entered the room, she found herself face to face with her fiancee. He did not know she worked; she did not know he partook.

It's not always about HATE, folks, but I guess that's easier to believe.
Don't you just love open relationships? Probably the best thing that ever to happen to that couple. They either split up over keeping secrets or it just sent their relationship to the next level.. Either way it was the best thing that could ever happen.
 

PierreCoeur

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Here is the thing with honesty. If it is up front it is wonderful. But when it is cloaked with a statement that might appear as hatred or bigotry, it isn't so nice.

I would prefer an SP's Advertisement to say something like this . . ."If you want a wonderful experience with me, please note that all men with dicks 6 inches and longer or with more than a 6 inch girth will be refused" Or . . . "Regretfully because of a fear of being recognized or encountering someone I might know, I do not want to take appointments from Asian men, etc. etc."

If it is a matter of a girl being a race hater then you get what you deserve when you are challenged by someone.
 

uncleg

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In an industry as intimate and personal as this................is it really anybody's business if an SP doesn't want to see a client because of race, creed or colour ?
 

JohnHenryIrons

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I have seen this only in America and it's no surprise. The United States is one of the most oppressive, and racist countries in the world. If you go north to Canada it's almost non exsistant. Bottom line is They don't want service from Black men.. Period. Even if it's paid for. Where it really sucks is It's hard enough finding a woman (GF) in the states as a black man already, and it's really sad that paying for it isn't even an option. You just have to be on your A game. I'm In Vancouver not Toronto, I've heard it's over there too, but that city is heavily influenced by America anyways.. It sucks and it shouldn't exsit.

Canada has a lot more equality for religion, race, and gender.. There are a lot of women construction workers, firefighters, and garbage ladies. This independence prompts the need not to have a pimp. which means a lot more self employed workers and less slaves. which I think is awesome. In the states, most Pimps happen to be black and I know that No Black Men is a safegaurd women use to try to avoid being cherry picked by pimps, rival pimps, and being abused in some sort of way. But that only speaks about the inequality of our neighborhoods and how much opportunity outside of illicit activity black men have in their communities.

If the US legalized prostitution like in Vegas, And had regulated brothels that provide health benefits and safety from pimps, the pimp profession would nearly die out. there would be no need for them.
But this isn't always the case.. Most of the times No Black Men is usually a cry of the amount of power even "working" women have that they can flex over men in America...
 

InnocentBoy

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From what i've seen the ladies from TO or out east have this restrictions in their ads and bring it with them when they work here.
 

InnocentBoy

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Guess all that practice tipping cows and fucking them makes u grow a bigger package.
Don't Forget those country guys or guys in Calgary. I always packed well going to Calgary. More anacondas on those trips than others for some reason. :)
 

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I wonder if street walking SW's just immediately turn around and walk away when they see someone of dark skin, because it probably means = cheap...the darker the skin and the brighter the shirt the bigger the flowers on the shirt, and the smell of fenugreek, or especially the bright orange turban on top would probably give a better signal...:doh:
 

mark670

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whats up erica arent this to make money its all about respect and manners the is a tough place we need work together over come are problems so
have good miss phoenix
 
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