Clients can choose SP's by race, hair colour, body type, age, natural or enhanced and dare I say "menu"
SP's if they say they won't see clients of certain body types, lack of hair on head, too much hair on their backs, age, race and what the clients want off the menu are scoffed at.
It is a free world and we are all human who have their own core set of values. If a SP says she won't see "insert the reason here"; accept it and move on. They have their reasons and it's not for us to debate and dispute an SP's choice. The stories I've heard of certain types of clients who didn't get past the front door makes me happy the SP had the guts to tell them to get the hell out and was quite vocal about it.
Seriously, there are a lot choices out there and if I got turned down because of age or my beer belly, I am not gonna sweat it. Plan B or Plan C most likely would be happy to see me. Try not to let Plan A's reasons ruin your day. It may hurt personally for a while but think about it if she had seen you against her best intuition and didn't enjoy the experience with you; you would be out $$$ and really pissed off. At least being turned down doesn't cost you any $.