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87.2psi

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Seeing this more often than before in SP’s ads.
I've always just assumed that it was due to the big ol schlong they're known to pack,and the ladies didnt want to be all rounded out before their time...then I read that it's a sign they are being pimped out.. and the pimp doesn't want her getting coerced by another black pimp so therefore..no black gentlemen please.
What's the concensus? Big schlongs or pimps? Or both?
And how is it that black dudes can seem to convince girls to work for them?

Btw...there is no racial undertone to this....just something I'm wondering about. I can't be the only one.
 

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I for one ,don't see a persons colour.....ever......but I've noticed the same thing in an awful lot of adds.
It always sat kinda wrong with me.
 

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I have noticed it a lot and Ito was very perplexed by it .
Seems like a very weird thing to post in an ad.
 

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Meh....that would be like saying no white gentlemen because she has white friends....but your right it could be a number of reasons really...but you rarely if at all see..no Hispanic gentleman etc etc.. I notice in Alberta it's in about 60 percent of the ads..I used to never see it in BC.but now it seems common. Alberta has a noticably higher population of black people...,.damn...i feel guilty even saying "black people"....I'm not in any way racist.
 

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As posted in a few other threads on perb there has been a string of robberies taking place in and around Vancouver. The main person involved has been black in most of the robberies. In one week there was minimum of 5 robberies by same guy. They are now using a Asian to knock the door then the black guy rushes in.

This may not be the reason in all the ads you see but definitely in some of them. Might explain the rise in this restriction.
 

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...,.damn...i feel guilty even saying "black people"....I'm not in any way racist.
On that point I have had two black girls work with me in the past and became good friends and I keep in contact with one. As many may know I am the type of person that will just come out and ask questions to people, a Filipino thing lol. I asked both of them how they prefer to be described and both said the same thing, "What do you think, you are Asian and I am black" lol. I think it could be subjective and different to different people but for them it was obvious. I don't think the term is taken as derogatory in Canada as in other countries, at least not by them. That all being said I still felt bad using the term.
 

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Its a common thing in the east where there is a higher population of black people (from all different backgrounds, African, Canadian French, African american, Caribbean Trinidadian etc etc) also in the states there is a higher population, compared to Vancouver and BC...so it seems weird for us. But for them it's totally normal, OP could be right, most of the sps who have answered this on reddit have said that its due to them being in gangs or criminals. Honestly, I would totally see how the size issue can play in...there are lots of older black gentlemen who have never been involved in crime, but they may just be way too big? I don't know, can't say, don't have that much experience with it, but I can say that, white men and Hispanics also can have a size issue just as black men do...and certainly not ALL black men have a size issue, different ones from different regions like say some African countries, the size isn't an issue.

We will never know, and the ones you ask will most likely say it has something to do with pimping or some kind of criminal activity.
 

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On that point I have had two black girls work with me in the past and became good friends and I keep in contact with one. As many may know I am the type of person that will just come out and ask questions to people, a Filipino thing lol. I asked both of them how they prefer to be described and both said the same thing, "What do you think, you are Asian and I am black" lol. I think it could be subjective and different to different people but for them it was obvious. I don't think the term is taken as derogatory in Canada as in other countries, at least not by them. That all being said I still felt bad using the term.
I know what you mean, but maybe its because my skin is darker than a lot of black people anyways, I have no issue saying it lol. I am not sure if it's the same for Asians, but us Indian people are sooo racist within our own community, some of them say the darnedest things in their own language...makes me think if anyone who was non-minority heard this, they would think we are SO racist, but it's totally normal within ourselves and each other.
 

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Black people having a monster schlong is also racist. It was myth made by racist white people to make it seem like black men were like horny savages with giant dicks and if you are not careful, they will not be able to control themselves and they WILL go after your white women.

But the ladies I've asked, they are afraid of robbery mostly, also some younger black guys have that whole over confident ego thing where they think it should be free or they try to negotiate more. Better to not hassle with it at all. Also an SP was abused in her youth by an Indian man, so she said no Indian men in her ad, so its not a big deal. Its preference. I've had an SP say she only sees asian men because its what she is into, its hard for her to see white guys because she used to be married to one and it ended badly.

At the end of the day its up the lady who she wants to see.
 
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Black people having a monster schlong is also racist. It was myth made by racist white people to make it seem like black men were like horny savages with giant dicks and if you are not careful, they will not be able to control themselves and they WILL go after your white women.
If this is true, it just goes to show that those hillbillies that started this myth really aren't smart....

I think this is one of the stereotypes that people would gladly own. They could've said they are money-grubbers, bad drivers or are cheap but they pick this stereotype to tag "the other" with. It takes a concerted effort to perpetuate a stereotype and it's obvious that they really didn't think this one through.
 
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I remembered this answer from the last time this question was asked in August.

It's not a stupid question and it comes with a simple answer.
It's a part of the hoe code of conduct. One of the 48 laws of the Pimpology Game.
This day in age, broads are soliciting on the likes of the Internet, so their ads specify "No Black Males" to indicate they've already chose a man to handle her affairs. Or not interested in being involved with a handler.
Back in the days of street walking and turning tricks from the clubs, a female wouldn't be allowed to make eye contact with a black man or any man of any race who came off as a pimp. If she made eye contact, got in his face, or went with a black man, she would be put under Pimp arrest and charged (pay a fee for breaking conduct), or could be broke (taken from her pimp).
May sound strange to civies, pooners unfamiliar with the game and indy Ladies nowadays, but Pimpin Ain't Dead!! And Pimpin Ain't Easy.
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?240550-stupid-question
 

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There is nothing funny or glamorous about pimps or pimping.
They beat women, rape them, feed them drugs, and destroy their self esteem.
Anyone from the 70s and 80s will remember how black pimps ran all the girls in Winnipeg, Calgary and Vancouver.
They had their own private social clubs, Winnipeg's was on Sherbrooke, Calgary's was behind City Hall, and Vancouver's was on Richards.
Now and then you'd see women getting beatings in public. I saw a woman get a shit kicking on Georgia by the Georgia hotel. It was a rainy night and the guy broke her umbrella over her head for fuck sake.
Pimps are subhuman filth and deserve to left face down in a ditch.

They are still around.
Of course they come in all colours now. The last two I saw were one white trailer trash, the other mixed race.
Beating up a girl (surprise) in a 7-Eleven parking lot.
 

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Yes Ava, I edited my rant there....sorry.

They are predators.
They know how to pick the vulnerable and isolated, women they can bully and manipulate.
One got a hold of a girl I knew in my teens back in the seventies. He absolutely destroyed her.
 

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I've seen ads with Black SPs stating "no black men" and asian SPs with "no asian men." I also recently seen a east indian girl on an agency site that stated she will not see men of her nationality.

So my assumption in those cases were it was a discretionary issue. Perhaps the girl was fearing the idea she might see someone from her community.

I think the 'many' ads that state "no black men" are often young petite SPs. So I think personally they don't want a guy showing up with a huge penis, LOL. That is the obvious presumption right? Of course its ridiculous as not every black man has a 12" penis.
 

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I tend to believe it's more of an safety issue than anything else. If a S.P. requests no Black or East Indian/Pakistani Men it's more likely than not they had issues with previous Clientele or S.P.'s they know did and They no longer wish to expose themselves to that risk.

Risk/Reward, if the Risk outweighs the Reward it isn't worth it at ANY price. Let's face Reality, some Men do not appreciate Women as they should be appreciated.
 

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As posted in a few other threads on perb there has been a string of robberies taking place in and around Vancouver. The main person involved has been black in most of the robberies. In one week there was minimum of 5 robberies by same guy. They are now using a Asian to knock the door then the black guy rushes in.

This may not be the reason in all the ads you see but definitely in some of them. Might explain the rise in this restriction.
I heard all about this recently and it's friken scary how they do it.

Clever using an Asian guy to get in the door. Makes differentiation by race a waste of time.

Hope everyone's security is on top of this stuff!
 

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oh westwoody , no worries i understood your post well , I am very sad hearing that you had a freind go through that , it is terrible .

when I was young and naive I had a black man ask me in a club if I was high class , stupid me I thought he meant good morals and upbringing , so I said yes , was not long before I figured out I had it all wrong( the goof was asking me if I was a high class call girl ugh I was only 20 years old and from the sticks ) , so glad I was born screaming....( and as some here will tell you I can have a temper lol :) and I was able to let him know I was not going to be his next victim .
funny thing was I first got the vibe when he bragged about his expensive socks and even told me the price, what a total idiot then the joker invited me over to a party at his house , which in actuality was some sort of booze can ....you can be sure I am a lot careful about who I meet in my real life since , just as much or more then in my professional life , I would have to say my reg civi life gave me the experiences to have high levels of security long before my professional life but I dont block or hate all men because I have meet a few bad ones .
Just as some would mistakenly paint all single mothers with the same brush, the same thing may happen with men.
Just as women are, we men are all individual, shaped by our experiences, and genetics......although being men , most of us are far more basic, and less complex than women.
There are some bad, and some that are only bad for some of the time...and there are good men as well.....and the most dangerous, are the ones that will appear to be good, just to extract what they desire for themselves , from another person.
I call them predatory parasites, because like a tapeworm they will suck the life out of the host...even if it means their own demise.
 

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I tend to believe it's more of an safety issue than anything else. If a S.P. requests no Black or East Indian/Pakistani Men it's more likely than not they had issues with previous Clientele or S.P.'s they know did and They no longer wish to expose themselves to that risk.

Risk/Reward, if the Risk outweighs the Reward it isn't worth it at ANY price. Let's face Reality, some Men do not appreciate Women as they should be appreciated.

this is what has been my experience... I am not racist, but I have had some pretty manipulating black men get into my head. I was lucky my best friend caught it once because the guy WAS actually a dirty pimp and I was falling for him lol silly girl

but really, a girl needs to feel comfortable...so, regardless of what we think, it's her choice
 

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I think it is just a shame that a few "Bad Apples" Black Pimps , have given all black men a bad name for a few sps .

I personally have no race discrimination , but I highly doubt any pimps of any color would be bothering me .
HI AVA,
nicely said! i am a black CDN male and i find this all a bit upsetting we are all individuals not a collection of clones.i think racism is at the root of all this bullshit! best regards!
 

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HI AVA,
nicely said! i am a black CDN male and i find this all a bit upsetting we are all individuals not a collection of clones.i think racism is at the root of all this bullshit! best regards!
Hi map47,

In general, I don't condone the fact that not providing a service bases on racial preference. I myself is Asian. It does hurt my feeling when being told that they can't see me because I'm Asian. However, from SP's perspective, they have to screen hundreds of text messages and find the one they don't feel scared or uncomfortable to be with. so using stereotypes works, and that is how our mind meant to work that way, especially for high volume information. otherwise, your brain would be bombarded with too much information to process. However, I do think there's alternative solution for that, as long as the sp don't work out of her own home. she can always turn a client away by seeing the client through peephole. and just let them know that she knows him. plus, you gotta understand some girls working in this industry are drug users, they can't really be the best person to be asked to not be racist you know. they have worse shit to deal with than that.

Anyhow, I feel for you man, but actually a lot of well-reviewed sps don't really have that restriction. so as long as you are a gentleman, you are good.
 
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