I wake up each day seeing the glass half full in the last few months.....I am smiling more and feel recharged.....since I retired in 2014 I have been in a funk, but no longer ......I am wondering is it me or do all the guys feel this way.....we each started for our own reasons, we all come from different backgrounds, some visit many ladies and some like myself are looking for more of a one on one, but I wonder if we all are getting the benefit we had hoped for or didn't expect.
Newer guys to this playground.....has this changed you in your real life
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Yes absolutely. It depends on what you wanted out of it. For me it was never about just sex, I was missing passion and conversation just as much if not more than sex. It definitely made me a better and happier person over the past two months. It helped me break my "go to work > go home > sleep > repeat" cycle.
Pooning is all about the freedom. freedom from ur real life or anxiety or whatever the negativities blocking u from being happy. And for me seeing those beautiful ladies definitely gives me something more than pure pleasure... Its more like a therapy...
ALL of us Women( Sps) Are/Like Therapists .. good for your Body , Mind , Hearts and Souls ...
Some are even certified in a few therapys
Again truer words have never been spoken.......I only came into the playground to continue on with a bucket list of things I have always wanted in life be it travel around the world or in this case fantasies being fulfilled, on my first visit with my current sp Tia Luxx she made me feel so good I had to come back for more....and more....I didnt go in thinking things in life would get better and I would come out of my funk...I just wanted to have some fun......6 months later I am who I was many years ago....I get excited about things again......I don't miss my career.....my marriage is slowly getting stronger.....and I appreciate my sp so much for being patient and always making my time with her special....how can one thank a person like that.....so I wanted to see how many other guys have the same joy I have from their experiences.
PS - I am due for a another treatment in the next few days
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I'm the same way. The passion and conversation was surely lacking! I wake up in a good mood all the time, even with barely any sleep. I already know who I'm going to to see next, it's the next one that's a mystery.
spent the weekend alone with my wife, had a nice interesting conversation, and a day or two.
she even admitted, we have one of the nicer marriages of the people we knew,
so I guess that is your answer,
I read an article somewhere saying men cheat not necessary for sex, but something is missing in their life, they can still love their wife and family dearly but at the same time something
is missing.
I think it depends, like everything you have to be smart about it.
it has been a long road for me, with a lot of bumps,
but I picked an sp that was good for me, and I stuck with her,,
it has been nice, and I think there are more benefits then simply sex. though that is the big motivation, sex and money that is what this is all about right.
if you do it wrong, this hobby can ruin your life.
she even admitted, we have one of the nicer marriages of the people we knew,
so I guess that is your answer,
I read an article somewhere saying men cheat not necessary for sex, but something is missing in their life, they can still love their wife and family dearly but at the same time something
is missing.
I think it depends, like everything you have to be smart about it.
it has been a long road for me, with a lot of bumps,
but I picked an sp that was good for me, and I stuck with her,,
it has been nice, and I think there are more benefits then simply sex. though that is the big motivation, sex and money that is what this is all about right.
if you do it wrong, this hobby can ruin your life.
This stuff should be covered under extended health. Chiropractor and psychologist all in one.
Yea, I agree, I mean we do get a massage (sometimes), don't we. But the downside is that this hobby will start getting taxed and THAT is a major negative. lol.
My earlier post was written in a hurry on my phone so I could not really write in detail. I have been doing this for about three years now and I have to say I feel different. I appreciate women more, I respect them more. I find them more attractive (heck I have fun ogling at random females and thinking of they would make good SP, but in a very respectful way.) Sexually, I feel more liberated because I have been able to get in touch with a lot of hidden feelings. I have been able to act out some very silly fantasies of mine.
I have met some VERY attractive women. Most of the time after a session, I think to myself that how lucky I am to have a lovely naked girl in my arm. On the marriage front, honestly, it has not changed much. I always valued my marriage and my family because of the stability and a sense of purpose it brings to my life. Our sex life sucked right from the start and that is what pushed me into this hobby. I do feel guilty though, but whenever I do, I just contact an sp and unload the guilt.
T8E
T8E, glad to see I'm not the only one. I struggle sometimes with the strain between time spent with someone and what would happen if found out. And it's hard to swallow comments by those who disparage married men but to each their own opinion. There's definite risk involved and I'm not sure the rewards warrant the risk. On the other hand, the focus and attention required to keep this slice of my life under wraps is beneficial and keeps my mind sharper. I don't do much that would risk exposure anyway. I also feel the need to connect with a different mind on things my family may not have interest in.
I also feel a need to connect physically. My best encounters, the ones that I want to repeat, are those where the woman also has a fantastic time. Sure, she may be playing to my ego but it's still nice to feel appreciated at certain level that isn't going to happen elsewhere.
I also feel a need to connect physically. My best encounters, the ones that I want to repeat, are those where the woman also has a fantastic time. Sure, she may be playing to my ego but it's still nice to feel appreciated at certain level that isn't going to happen elsewhere.
