Once again, thank you guys so much for the replies. Greatly appreciated.
I definitely plan on pursuing this hobby at some stage in my life. However, before the jump, I'll be sure to keep all information, suggestions, and advice close to heart.
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Actually, I do have one more question. This one regards establishments dubbed "micros". How is the environment like? I can't help but picture a clinic-type scenario where there is a line up, as well as some magazines placed on counters to pass the time before being presented selections. Are the bro-sans, papa-sans, or mama-sans all of asian descent most of the time if not all? (I'm afraid of bumping into family friends/relatives oy vey.. )
Thanks again in advance!
Hi Entity;
Just to answer your question: "Micro" is short for micro brothel, and the way you are picturing one is entirely wrong. A massage parlor may come closer to what you describe (at least in Vancouver), but even there I have never seen a line up of guys waiting their turn. (Although I have seen the waiting room with the magazines!) A micro, on the other hand, is usually 2 or 3 girls working out of a condo or apartment in a residential neighborhood (as opposed to a massage parlor, which many times has the look of a store or office building, and many times has a clinical feel inside.) The girl you made the appointment with will open the front door when you arrive and lead you to her private bedroom, which most times has it's own attached bathroom and shower. Unless it is one of the larger and busier micros, you will normally not see the other girls or their clients, and will feel like you are alone with her. (You might actually be alone, depending on when and where you go.) Many times you will not see any papasan (or mamasan, etc.) In short, what you have been picturing is more like a full size brothel such as the Mustang Ranch in Nevada, but Vancouver micros are more like going to your girlfriend's apartment for a quickie. Oh yeah, in Van, many of the micro girls are asian, but not all. There are also lots of other girls that work in places that are much like micros. They just seem to call them "incalls" instead.
I think there was a lot of good advice given here regarding the attitude you need to have concerning your relationship with the girl. It's ok to let yourself fantasize that she is your girlfriend (I do all the time.) But don't fool yourself into thinking that you can turn that into reality. You can take the girl out of the whorehouse, but you can never take the whorehouse out of the girl. It won't work out. If she quits working, she will resent you for it. If she keeps working, in the end you will resent her for it. Or she will be convinced by some schmuck client (that is trying to convert his fantasy into reality) that you don't really love her, because if you did, you wouldn't send her off to the whorehouse everyday. Go figure.
However, with that said, I remember when I was in my early twenties the last thing I wanted was the commitment of a "relationship", with it's high chances of ending in divorce, loss of most everything I worked so hard for, and a future of child support payments to a woman who uses my kids as pawns in her war with me. (No, I haven't been there, done that. Well, not all of it anyway. Just watched almost all of my friends go through it.) But it seemed the relationship thing was all the girls wanted. I just wanted to get laid on a regular basis.
If you feel the same way, SPs are the way to go. In fact, if your goal with a non-SP girl is just to get in her pants, think of all the time and money it's going to cost you taking her on dates, buying gifts, etc, etc before you finally get to score. And even then, it's never a sure thing. On the other hand, you can get a well reviewed girl at a micro for what? $140/hour? About the cost of one date with a regular girl, right? And it's a sure thing your getting laid right away. You didn't have to spend countless hours finding her, getting to know her, suffering through the endless chick flicks and conversations about what all her girlfriends are doing, telling her lots of lies to make her think your goal for the two of you are the same as hers. All the while your uncomfortable because you aren't getting laid yet and don't know if you ever will, and she's uncomfortable becuase she knows you want to get laid, but she doesn't want to "give it away" to soon. Such games! SPs are a good deal man. And if you like screwing this particular SP, you just call her up again, and she's ready and willing. Unless you are an abusive ass, she's not going to dump you or make other excuses. You're getting laid, plain and simple, and she's glad you're there sticking your thing between her legs!
