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rlock

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OP: Could be that a lot of them had the same problem I did when I started - was unable to post in reviews or 411. Eventually the Mods worked it out for me.
However, there is something to be said for lurking. It bought me time to check out the site and how it really works; I took a while reading other peoples' reviews and questions before I really knew what I wanted to say.
 

lenny

girls just wanna have fu
May 20, 2004
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Many of them do not post any reviews, and that is fine.
Maybe many are not too eager to self-incriminate themselves.

One of the best posters of all time, IMO, Tantalizeme, ceased posting completely around the time of Bill C-36 becoming law.

Another hall of fame PERB member, Hatrick, left a few months back, & had all his posts deleted.
 

SkinnyJohn

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I think more than half of Perb members have a SO so they are probably overly cautious about writing reviews. Who wants to leave evidence behind? Probably over 90% are just lurkers.
 

uncleg

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Haha, I remember "no, no say it's not so" or something like that.

He met a civie and we still stay in touch.
Yup, yup.....he was never the same after that......say hi to him for me.
 

maniacalone

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Maybe many are not too eager to self-incriminate themselves.

One of the best posters of all time, IMO, Tantalizeme, ceased posting completely around the time of Bill C-36 becoming law.

Another hall of fame PERB member, Hatrick, left a few months back, & had all his posts deleted.
That is their right. Obviously with your 4000 posts and lack of reviews, you seem to share the same philosophy Lenny.

However, this is a review board and not pininterest. If we all just blog about our feelings and never provide any value, the site will cease to be of use and will collapse.

In the case of Hattrick, a old post highlighted why he left.

It's becoming evident more and more members are joining to simply take and contributing nothing. In the long run this formula will not work and the site will suffer if only our long standing members are contributing.
 
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I'm new here it's because I was never able to activate my first account back in 2014. I just accepted the fact that the pooner gods wont allow me to judge Sp's.. up until 3 days ago when i finally cracked.
 

lenny

girls just wanna have fu
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That is their right. Obviously with your 4000 posts and lack of reviews, you seem to share the same philosophy Lenny.

However, this is a review board and not pininterest. If we all just blog about our feelings and never provide any value, the site will cease to be of use and will collapse.

In the case of Hattrick, a old post highlighted why he left.

It's becoming evident more and more members are joining to simply take and contributing nothing. In the long run this formula will not work and the site will suffer if only our long standing members are contributing.
If reviews are down it may not only be due to (1) active pooners who worry about LE if they post their experiences, but also (2) because of those who have put their hobbying on pause out of concerns of being arrested. Others of a similar mind may have (3) taken their action overseas or to the street scene where they feel safer re being IDed or busted. From time to time the Lounge has a thread or tidbits of info re such. I guess (4) PERB may not be attracting the traffic that it has in the past due to heavy moderation, loss of advertisers, or other reasons & consequently there might be fewer reviewers to review.

I don't think an active, lively, fun, interesting, informative & friendly Lounge will hurt in that regard, in drawing more interest to the site. I certainly enjoy the contributions of posters like Miss Hunter & WarLock, even if he is not available to more than one SP ATM. His post after yours in this thread demonstrates an example of his value.

I have no idea what pininterest is, couldn't tell you much more about FaceBook, & am completely in the dark as to whether this site is in danger of "collapse". For all i know it is about to hit the jackpot & see the 'good times roll'. What does seem clear is that efforts to improve are being made.
 

GQ1

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When your spouse is an SP, your biggest concern is her clients treat her with respect. I always respected that man because he was kind. Giving a lift or driving a street walker through McDonalds seems like a small gesture but it's not. That is one ugly life working out there and those little acts can mean a world of difference to those women. My former SO was simply too expensive for his tastes.
Yes, Hatrick was "kind" alright: "...The younger ones can be totally clueless. If they are hot however I don’t give a shit what her issues are I’m banging the crap out of her and take it out of her hide to make up for her lack of service…"

"...Wonder what else I can sell these chicks, and jew em down on the price. She was hungry too mabe next time I’ll cruise with the leftovers from the fridge and crap I want to get rid of, kind of crap for crack, Hmmm, that’s it!"

https://atrickofthetrade.wordpress....-vancouver-police-department-and-surrey-rcmp/
 

GQ1

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Yeah, I read that link a long time ago and I get your point. The comments are demeaning & misogynistic and I believe I mentioned that in a thread that was deleted months ago. But he was also kind to women. He bought them food, he gave them rides & even shared their information so they'd get business.

You need to understand the survival street scene is an ugly beast and extremely different from the indie scene. The *right* answer is to get those women in rehab and some help & get the demons out of them and get them off the street. But that's not going to happen so you find the good and take what you can. You're talking about women who are dope sick and need a fix. There is no good answer. But I'll take a guy who extends a bit of kindness to those women versus some thug that rapes them in the industrial area. My own personal "left wing liberal" answer is to get them out of the life entirely".
It's just hard to imagine that the same guy who made that comment after having sex with an impoverished pregnant woman (I'll let you look for that one) and who got hard-on-their-luck regular women into prostitution can also be "kind". But I'll take your word for it.
 

GQ1

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Well first man you need to step out of that "liberal" mind and look at it realistically. I made it clear. I am fundamentally against the street trade because it's a violent, ugly world. BUT, I'm also a realist.

So what's your answer? The "impoverished pregnant woman" is going to turn a trick regardless. So is the addict. I'd sooner see them have some guy who is at least has some level of respect for them than some predator whose final goal is to hurt or even kill them. The RIGHT answer is a society that invests in helping these women get out of that world. But we don't have a right world, so we have to work in that world.

You're viewing street life as black and white. It's not. It's 100 shades of grey and all are bad. I'll take the less bad ones. And if you want to finger point man, well let's do that. How about a society that feels it's just to allow a poor pregnant woman to have to turn tricks to support herself? We had the money for the shiny new bridge up the street from me. Why not her? And how come we can build prisons but not affordable rehab? Or we can let me write off my $100 dollar lunch but we can't give a chick with kids a bit more welfare or daycare. And speaking of the pregnant SP, where's the old man?
But the way he worded that "pregnant" comment is vile indeed. Of course these women are "going to turn a trick regardless", but instead of taking advantage of them, say, selling them "crap" so they can feed their drug habit, or being rough with the "clueless" new ones on the street, he could instead have used his money to help them get off the streets. You can't say, "well at least he wasn't a Robert Pickton." That's like saying, "well at least that wife abuser didn't kill his wife." And he did "hurt" these women - he took advantage of their desperation and bragged about it. Maybe this fellow had MPD or something. "Kind" one day, and a vile sociopath the next.
 

JonnyBoi

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The 6 to the.. Other 6
SO!
I am going to interrupt you "old folks" and ask...

What should a new Perbite do? Other than do some TOFTT and not be a leech..
I am definitely not going to try SW's or the BnG's.. I think the times are different now..
 

lenny

girls just wanna have fu
May 20, 2004
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I am going to interrupt you "old folks" and ask...

What should a new Perbite do? Other than do some TOFTT and not be a leech..
I am definitely not going to try SW's or the BnG's.. I think the times are different now..
If he's new to the hobby i'd suggest going with a well reviewed SP rather than TOFTT.

TOFTT is more suitable for guys that have to always be trying new SP's or refuse to ever do a SP twice, or more than a few times. If they hobby often, they may eventually run out of well reviewed choices appropriate to their tastes & are forced to try an unknown, hence resulting in TOFTT.

What's a BnG? SW here means street walker, i guess, though it is also used for sex worker, if nothing else.
 

lenny

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It's actually pretty complex to prove that an individual actually wrote a comment online. I had this discussion with a police officer about 6 weeks ago regarding Facebook posts & online bullying. You've got to prove said individual wrote them which takes a fairly hefty amount of forensic work. If you think SP's are expensive, try digital forensics for a criminal trial. I'm no lawyer and I offer this advice "as is" but writing "She gave me a fucking wicked blow job" is not likely to get the VPD at your door.
Also the VPD are not into charging for consensual adult sex. Much of Canada seems the same, though the VPD have said so & backed up their words.

As to those still concerned about posting public reviews under a username, i wonder if there's some way to make it even more anonymous such that they are posted randomly w/o a user name, e.g. sent to Fred Zed who then posts them by number and SP.

Alternately, there must be ways to post reviews that are within the law or less likely to be successfully prosecuted, e.g. (1) don't mention payment for specific sexual services, (2) don't mention money, (3) if cash is spoken of do so only in reference to it being for company or time spent together, (4) use code like greens + browns or blues, etc.

For guys like yourself that don't see SP's, or others who do, they could write up fictional fantasy reviews of PERB advertising SP's & sign them with the note that they are such. In fact even the reviewers who actually did see the SP could do that. How would LE know which reviews were real & which weren't?
 

JonnyBoi

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The 6 to the.. Other 6
As I understand it, BnG is "blow n go" where you go around in your car, pick up a lady and asks for a blowjob for $20-$50 (depending on the time/place?!)

It's very high risk and I am not a person looking to just "get off"...

Cliche as it seems, I like to chat a bit, build somewhat of a rapport with the lady and then we get to the good stuff (which takes me 30mins-60mins. No need to ask me to get help, my first few posts on this forum were met with a LOT of people that were very, very concerned about my "condition".) and then we might cuddle and chat some more.. Or more action if the lady wants. This is why I book mostly 1.5hrs to 2hrs.

Currently, I'm looking for mid-20-30's. A good head on their shoulders and bonus point if they got a great smile/quirk that I like. (Though I have met a few early 20's ladies that surprised me lol)
 

felixthecat

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As I understand it, BnG is "blow n go" where you go around in your car
I don't think BnG requires a car. I take it as a shorthand for a quick (15 min) oral only service, as opposed to 'quickie' (a quick FS). It can be a cardate or can be incall.
 

poonerboi

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As I understand it, BnG is "blow n go" where you go around in your car, pick up a lady and asks for a blowjob for $20-$50 (depending on the time/place?!)

It's very high risk and I am not a person looking to just "get off"...

Cliche as it seems, I like to chat a bit, build somewhat of a rapport with the lady and then we get to the good stuff (which takes me 30mins-60mins. No need to ask me to get help, my first few posts on this forum were met with a LOT of people that were very, very concerned about my "condition".) and then we might cuddle and chat some more.. Or more action if the lady wants. This is why I book mostly 1.5hrs to 2hrs.

Currently, I'm looking for mid-20-30's. A good head on their shoulders and bonus point if they got a great smile/quirk that I like. (Though I have met a few early 20's ladies that surprised me lol)
Pretty sure this was intended for a different thread.:noidea::confused:
 
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