Here's my dilemma - the friends I hang out with are either not into the bar scene, or only hang out with their gfs. I have a gf, myself, but I wouldn't mind hanging out with guys, enjoying some eye candy etc. I'm finding it hard to "find people" to hang out with. People at work are old and and not into this stuff. My good guy friends are pretty whipped. Any suggestions?
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Some suggestions:
1) make new friends
2) find activity partners (online, for example)
3) do it yourself (and maybe you will meet new friends who are already into the scene
I like to do things spontaneously, so I often have to do it myself for similar reasons.
1) make new friends
2) find activity partners (online, for example)
3) do it yourself (and maybe you will meet new friends who are already into the scene
I like to do things spontaneously, so I often have to do it myself for similar reasons.
thats not true i think you can have both, all my relationships i've been able to "hang out with the guys", the moment a girl gives me a hard time about that i tend to leave them. at the same time i want them to have "girls night out " you can't be with each other 24/7, people start annoying me when i'm with them too much............ you can be a "guy in a relationship" and have guys time too, you just need to find the right girl. it seems the OP already has that he just has no friends LOL
Lol! ya it seems that's the case now...its a shame how so many of my guys friends have "turned" lol! I guess it would be easier if I just totally go into relationship mode but that's not me. I like my space and I want to get as much out of this time as possible before moving on .. there's gotta be some kind of online solution, no?
never really had to find new friends, so i wouldnt know about an online solution. I don't know what to say, ive managed the past few months by doing the 'rounds".... meaning, go out with a different friend every week, it seems that outta all my 10 good friends that at least one of their SO's are having a girls night out that weekend..... so i can usually hang with them although, on one occasion i had to call up an acquaintance, who is not really my friend and i don't really like, but i was really wanting to see some mini-skirts that night so i had to go all Desperado lol and call him.
A couple other times i've had to go out with chicks (oh the horror LOL), but a lot of girls are more open to talking to you when your with a couple of hot chicks, actually even if your with some not that hot chicks but are really fun girls. DOnt know how your girl is with trusting you with other chicks, but that may be an option.
A couple other times i've had to go out with chicks (oh the horror LOL), but a lot of girls are more open to talking to you when your with a couple of hot chicks, actually even if your with some not that hot chicks but are really fun girls. DOnt know how your girl is with trusting you with other chicks, but that may be an option.
I agree with alot of what your saying dood, everything except i actually don't have a problem with any GF of mine going out on a wild night. If i'm with them then i trust them 100% or else i wouldn't be with them. I don't like telling my SO's what they can or can't do, i've been that guy once and all that turns out to be is she started to make excuses to go out birthdays etc., then she started to resent me, then her friends thought i was too "controlling", fights every weekend ensued, then i gave in and our relationship changed for the better... the TSN turning point if you will.
And yes i wouldn't feel comfortable with my girl going out with a male friend , and i know girls dont' like me hanging alone with my "girl" friends either, so when i am in a relationship, when i go to clubs its always guy time....unless one of my friends invite chicks out with us, then its not really my fault now is it?
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I have a bunch of buddies I can lend out.... I have a pretty large group of buddies , and fair amount of us are single.... It's actually funny those that aren't single, tend to call me the second their SO leaves them unsupervised for a few hours... LOL but I actually love to go visit my married buddies... much better food!!!! I managed to get 3 meals this week-end!!
Actually that reminds me, one of my friends just started playing house with a lovely girl, I gotta go over see if she can cook!
Dam I love my married/attached buddies girlfriends/wives...
I have a bunch of buddies I can lend out.... I have a pretty large group of buddies , and fair amount of us are single.... It's actually funny those that aren't single, tend to call me the second their SO leaves them unsupervised for a few hours... LOL but I actually love to go visit my married buddies... much better food!!!! I managed to get 3 meals this week-end!!
Actually that reminds me, one of my friends just started playing house with a lovely girl, I gotta go over see if she can cook!
Dam I love my married/attached buddies girlfriends/wives...
Thats funny cause my buddies call me too, its seems that they can't stand the fact that there SO's are out having a wild night and they are stuck at home!! BTW cook for yourself you lazy FUCK LOL just kidding, us single guys have to fend for ourselves. OR go to Cactus Club, then you can hit on the cute waitresses too!!!!LOL
I have a bunch of buddies I can lend out.... I have a pretty large group of buddies , and fair amount of us are single.... It's actually funny those that aren't single, tend to call me the second their SO leaves them unsupervised for a few hours... LOL but I actually love to go visit my married buddies... much better food!!!! I managed to get 3 meals this week-end!!
Actually that reminds me, one of my friends just started playing house with a lovely girl, I gotta go over see if she can cook!
Dam I love my married/attached buddies girlfriends/wives...
