New hobby

[tritonium]

When I got my first big boy job at a big tech company, and after being sexless for years from a devastating relationship I ended up similarly addicted. Once I saw an escort, the dam broke and I just kept seeing them. I slowed down after the layoffs happened in 2024 and then I got a girlfriend, but now my business has picked back up and I've found myself salivating at some of the babes I see on the street.

If a younger guy were to ask me whether to start seeing escorts I'd probably tell him it's not worth it if you're neurotic and prone to addiction. However it did get me more comfortable with women.

 

[Tsubame]

I guess I never viewed having sex as a hobby, just something I wanted (want) to do.

Now wood working, that's a hobby and to that end, my planar has to be one of the most skookum tools in my shop!!

I too was surprised by the term "hobby". Not that I mind, just unexpected.

 

[80watts]

No. Just random rantings.

Larry you should go to a college or university campus if you want to hear very radical approaches to everything, they have always been the hotspots of society' s rampages into the unknown for radical thinking and stuff....

 

[Larry's Torch]

Larry you should go to a college or university campus if you want to hear very radical approaches to everything, they have always been the hotspots of society' s rampages into the unknown for and stuff....

There's a world of difference between "random rantings" and "radical thinking" (and stuff?)

 

[80watts]

There's a world of difference between "random rantings" and "radical thinking" (and stuff?)

Maybe, but it seems like a lot of guys here are the status-quo types, and don't like out of the box ideas...

Butt hey communications is what needs to happen...for society to improve... don't you want society to improve, or you still stuck in a box somewhere?

 

[Once you go black]

hi all I started this hobby not too long ago and I lowkey developed an addiction already lol
I started this journey beginning of June and have gone 6 times (twice per week)


I wanted to hear how often do you all go? Am I going too much

I think it all comes down to how much recreational funds you have .

( Plus honestly how much other stuff you have going on in your life that you enjoy )

I could go more but I’d have to give up some of life’s other pleasures to do so ,
Such as time w Friends , Dinners at nice restaurants, traveling ,, concerts , etc ,
Which I’m not willing to do .

I go about once a month to in the summer cause my libido goes up in the summer ,

Other than that I try to keep it to every couple months rest of the year

( although I’m not always successful , as casual sex is my go to for stress relief . )

First signs of Spring makes me horny,
First signs of Fall Rainy season makes me horny,
the Holiday season makes me horny
( 3 times )

I average 6-12 times per yr .