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Grik

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hi all I started this hobby not too long ago and I lowkey developed an addiction already lol
I started this journey beginning of June and have gone 6 times (twice per week)


I wanted to hear how often do you all go? Am I going too much
 

lukom

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hi all I started this hobby not too long ago and I lowkey developed an addiction already lol
I started this journey beginning of June and have gone 6 times (twice per week)


I wanted to hear how often do you all go? Am I going too much
If it starts to feel like a hobby and you're calling it a hobby you're doing too much and spending too much. Take up DJing, that's a hobby, it also gets you attention from ladies.
 

Once you go black

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The casino’s say it best , know your limit , play within it .

The only thing I would add is that a good life should always be balanced .
You can do anything too much , even going to the gym or studying the stock market .

If you are wondering if you are doing anything too much , it’s likely time to pull back slightly .
The irony is when you’re not over doing it , you’ll enjoy it more when you do .
 

RalphiEboy

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The casino’s say it best , know your limit , play within it .

The only thing I would add is that a good life should always be balanced .
You can do anything too much , even going to the gym or studying the stock market .

If you are wondering if you are doing anything too much , it’s likely time to pull back slightly .
The irony is when you’re not over doing it , you’ll enjoy it more when you do .
“All things in moderation including moderation” 😜
 
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westwoody

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Wondering if you are doing anything too much is a sure sign that you’re doing it too much.

And twice a week is too much. I overdid it and it took all the fun out of it. Once every two weeks is enough for me.
 

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When I started back in the late 80s, it was pretty much every 2 weeks on a payday. Now more recently its more like once a month (Payday) if I am lucky to get out. Everything in moderation.
 

masterpoonhunter

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I guess I never viewed having sex as a hobby, just something I wanted (want) to do.

Now wood working, that's a hobby and to that end, my planar has to be one of the most skookum tools in my shop!!
 
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Bang4thebuck

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I wouldnt call it a hobby. Its just something I do once in a while for the experience and to have fun. Just like getting a spa day, going to the movies, going to an amusement park, etc. Over time I poon less and less, in favor of spending my funds on other activities.
 

80watts

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Get a girlfriend. Don't cheat on her. You can pound her 7 days a week until you have children.... then its once a month...
Every 2 weeks put the money you would spend on a hooker, put it into an investment account.
Your gonna be a rich man... as long as you don't divorce.
Take the time and effort most men take to sneaking around and put it into your relationship with your girlfriend...
 

Okanaganguy1985

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Get a girlfriend. Don't cheat on her. You can pound her 7 days a week until you have children.... then its once a month...
Every 2 weeks put the money you would spend on a hooker, put it into an investment account.
Your gonna be a rich man... as long as you don't divorce.
Take the time and effort most men take to sneaking around and put it into your relationship with your girlfriend...
This is all good information, but you should still cheat or ask her to let you sleep with other woman

Monogamy doesn’t really exist anymore
 

80watts

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This is all good information, but you should still cheat or ask her to let you sleep with other woman

Monogamy doesn’t really exist anymore
Why is that?

There is a old Roman Emperor (Marcus Aurelius Antoninus born 26 April 121, emperor from 161 to 180), a Stoic philosopher who wrote a book called Meditations .
 

masterpoonhunter

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Aaaaand we're waaaayyyy off the rails again.
Well when you see who the poster is derailing it ...
Look at all the other threads where the same happens.
Anyway, this topic actually has deep philosophical ramifications of human behaviour.
To have sex is divine
To cheat to do it is human
and other such sayings.
 

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I wouldnt call it a hobby. Its just something I do once in a while for the experience and to have fun. Just like getting a spa day, going to the movies, going to an amusement park, etc. Over time I poon less and less, in favor of spending my funds on other activities.
That's pretty much the same as mine. It's for experience only and a way of treating myself. I would say I control my finances quite strictly and never overspend. Having lack of quality SPs within my budget, work schedule, and getting older is also driving me to see less SPs in a year compared to pre covid times.
 

80watts

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Well when you see who the poster is derailing it ...
Look at all the other threads where the same happens.
Anyway, this topic actually has deep philosophical ramifications of human behaviour.
To have sex is divine
To cheat to do it is human
and other such sayings.
Derail?? logical progression....
1st thread : reply to Grik
2nd thread: reply to Okanaganguy1985 about Monogamy doesn’t really exist anymore
(and he Marcus Aurelius Antoninus was a stoic.) Pretty much a guy who gave sage advice. For someone with ultimate power in the Roman Empire.

The thing about your actions is that they have consequences. I just don't believe that if a guy is married he should cheat on his wife.

Here is a reason why...(some scholars thinks the 10 commandments are close to the (The Code of Hammurabi is a Babylonian legal code of 282 laws and are somewhat related to Egyptian law (hey Moses was raised in the Pharohs house).

The Ten Commandments in order are as follows:
  1. You shall have no other gods before Me.
  2. You shall not make for yourself a carved image.
  3. You shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain.
  4. Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.
  5. Honor your father and your mother.
  6. You shall not murder.
  7. You shall not commit adultery.
  8. You shall not steal.
  9. You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.
  10. You shall not covet.
Pretty much in any civilization the law breaking starts with the individual. So when a man cheats on his wife, he is starting the breakup of civilization....more or less on a moral scale....

Pls note I am not particularly religious in any sense.
 

LarryandMoe

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hi all I started this hobby not too long ago and I lowkey developed an addiction already lol
I started this journey beginning of June and have gone 6 times (twice per week)


I wanted to hear how often do you all go? Am I going too much
All I know is 30 + years later it’s still a “hobby” and I know exactly where the kids inheritance has gone and it wasn’t up my nose or at the casino 🤣🤪😉
 
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