New guy, need lots of help ;)

[Kumquat]

To sum it all up;

I just recently turned 20, and have some
Questions. This is embarresing but I'm a virgin
And I mean as virgin as they get, never have I touched
A girl in any sexual way nor have they I.

What makes this worse is that I'm not even
"one of those guys" I've got great people skills and
I've got no problem talking to girls at all.

Basically I wanna lose the VCard.. Bad. Before it was all about
"the one" and "saving it for someone special" now I'm too freaked
To take it all that far for being judged laughed at for have not even
Seeing a real pair of breasts that wasnt by accident (lol).

I've been thinking, hard, and what I lack in is confedence... And what I'm thinking
Is being humiliated infront of someone I don't know and will probably never see again
Isnt such a bad idea.. I was wondering what your opinions/ideas on this is, and also
What/how escorts feel about virgins... This is in sum, too boost my confedence..

EDIT: also wanted to add that I am also not a bad looking guy, so it's not like I'm deformed or something (lol).

 

[uncleg]

Nothing to be embarrassed about. Not everybody has easy access to sheep or other livestock. Look through some of the ladies that advertise on this site, find a couple or three that pique your interest and get in touch. Most would be happy to rock your world and help you get over your little problem.:thumb:

 

[PeterMeter]

Further to what rebob42 says above, I think your choice should be a more experienced lady, someone in the 30+ age group that has patience and is willing to be a "teacher".
If you are comfortable with her after the first visit, I'd suggest a series of "lessons". If your long term goal here is to become a decent lover, learning from a pro is the way to go.

Your eventual partner will thank you for it, although you don't have to mention how you developed your skills.

Relax and enjoy.

Pm

 

[Kumquat]

Thank you, a lot of you - most of you have given me some great input on this. I have been following this site only for about a day or so but
the people here give this warm and friendly vibe which makes it easier to talk about these things! I also agree that losing ones Vcard doesn't need to be rushed
and I'm all for that... But for me its not about rushing it per-say it, Vcard means nothing special to me anymore.. I'm just looking for away to get over this insane
feeling i get when it comes to closing the deal with a girl, this freezing, scared, ashamed, feeling that she wouldn't understand and i would be judged! I'm aware
most of this shit is just in my head.. But i feel its just about... Time something gets done (Besides who doesnt like a little company )!

Lots of help! And thanks for being understanding, and putting up with me being a face to these parts and industry. I'll deffenetly be browsing and seeing who of the girls would feel
comfortable with this and if I feel comfortable with her, there is one thing I cant stand - Fakes. By this i mean the ones that just want the mean and just have they're eyes glued to the clock (As ive read in some review post).

Again thank you, and i look forward to being apart of this lovley community