Never fall in Love with a provider
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I was actually wondering that too but was afraid to ask lol.FuZzYknUckLeS said:What does any of this have to do with Victoria Escorts?
Meiko said:
I don't know how this thread got so big. Must not be a lot to talk about. As much as I like this girl, and I accept my mistakes, I'm not waiting. I'm moving on.
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"Love will come and go as it will, destroying, and saving in equality"
I hope you do too AND...I hope it is unconditional cuz I believe that it's possible.hugedman said:And I hope you will find your soulmate soon and living happily ever after....
Good luck, ~A~
Ariel said:I skipped through reading the comments but i think we can all agree love is crazy, often unexpected and sometimes you just have to go with it even if its not ideal.In the real world some are lucky, some get and stay involved even when they shouldn't and some continue on until they find the ideal.I grew up with my parents adoring one another and "walked in on on them" a few times
Wow, that's very rare these days. Maybe I'm a hopeless romantic, but I hope to find a relationship like that one day.
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Easier said than done. We all make mistakes and i think most guys would hesitate to do that and honestly i wouldn;t blame them. If they were 100% sure or even close to then yes that would be the bright thing to do........... Confusin stuff and none of us should make judgements and only try to relate. We are all like innocent lambs when it comes to love. To put it honestly most of us are pretty much screwed . Some of us will luck out though.
Easier said than done. We all make mistakes and i think most guys would hesitate to do that and honestly i wouldn;t blame them. If they were 100% sure or even close to then yes that would be the bright thing to do........... Confusin stuff and none of us should make judgements and only try to relate. We are all like innocent lambs when it comes to love. To put it honestly most of us are pretty much screwed . Some of us will luck out though.
What does this have to do with Victoria escorts?
A lot, It shows posters are human and that is what I think this whole thing is about human contact, And a lot of people get caught up in it and think they are the only ones when they are not alone be they pooner or sp.
Might be wrong but thats my take on this.
A lot, It shows posters are human and that is what I think this whole thing is about human contact, And a lot of people get caught up in it and think they are the only ones when they are not alone be they pooner or sp.
Might be wrong but thats my take on this.
Ariel said:I skipped through reading the comments but i think we can all agree love is crazy, often unexpected and sometimes you just have to go with it even if its not ideal.In the real world some are lucky, some get and stay involved even when they shouldn't and some continue on until they find the ideal.I grew up with my parents adoring one another and "walked in on on them" a few times
Very interesting thread!
Based on personal experience, these comments are fairly insightful.
I think falling in love with anyone never mind a provider isn't good if the feelings aren't reciprocated.
But I also think if you do fall in love with an SP, depending on who she is, you have to be prepared to accept her for who she is.
Trying to change someone who doesn't want to change, is a recipe for failure.
In order for a guy to want her to quite her activities, he has to spend the time to understand how and why she is where she is and determine what she's getting out of this. Only then can you hope to guide her into a different direction that she's comfortable moving towards.
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Agreed but hope we can also agree that they won't always "fall" at the same time. Therefore if one has fallen and the other one does NOT say they are not interested, but says, "I'm not ready yet as I have stuff to deal with first" the 'fallen' one is NOT stalking the other by simply trying to keep the channels of communication open (as long as they are giving the other one the space and time they need).noneasgood said:
If the 'fallen' one says, "Take your time. I'll always be there for you whenever you need me and when you're ready to start a relationship" and the other one smiles and gives you a hug, does that send the message they are NOT interested and the fallen one should take a hike? Not as I see it.
And if in that situation, the 'fallen' one does not take a hike (and assuming they are not psychic), does that make them a stalker?
Interesting questions. I would say no this doesn't make someone a stalker unless the other person has made it clear they don't want a relationship.BS Detector said:
I could be wrong but I think these are rather rare situations.
More often than not, when you've fallen for someone and they don't feel the same way, it's usually because they aren't interested in you the same way that you are of them. They may value you as a friend but they may not want to take it any further for whatever reason.
~Alexandria~ said:If she cooks for you in her pajammas with messy hair, she's in
If she's had you in her private bedroom, she's in
if you've met her kids and her mom, she's in
If you've only ever got together paid for time, or an occasional dinner or evening out, then she's probably not in.
If she tells you she's not ready for a relationship, that it's not you, it's her, she's really not in
Excellent guideline. I'm going to remember this.
ie...Ya can't trust what they say.~Alexandria~ said:If she tells you she's not ready for a relationship, that it's not you, it's her, she's really not in
But you and I both know that if you act differently from what they tell ya, they throw that in your face later and say, "I didn't say...I SAID..."
As I said before Alex...It's a Lose/Lose situation for guys.
Not sure I agree on your first point. I think it happens far too oftennoneasgood said:
As far as your second point...(yelling at her and not you)
- THEN EFFEN SAY SO AND DON'T MAKE A GUY TRY AND EFFEN READ YOUR MIND!!!!!!
- DON'T GET TEARY EYED AND TELL ME I TREAT YOU BETTER THAN ANY GUY YOU'VE EVER MET, IN OR OUT OF THE BIZ.
Way of the Cave Man
If she goes ahead and does it anyway, behind your back while you're out hunting Mammoths or discoving Fire, then walk. Might as well meet Fate with a little dignity.
Never give your heart to a girl with glowing eyes. Sure, it's cool that she spits fire...actually it is kewl. Cavemen are screwed.
There are times when instinct is blindingly powerful, and you should trust it. Forget passing judgement on others. I'm a romantic dumbass, too, and if I made the mistake of not stopping my true love from making a mistake, I would still come back and tell her, if it took ten years to screw up the courage.
You are all, romantics and cynics, wolves and lambs alike, a bunch of rough tough cream puffs. May you all find love and gobs of misery and happiness. Actually to hell with you pooners, it's all about the ladies.
No Caveman's life is ever simple, when his girl tells him she intends to become a prostitute. There's still only one good answer, but now you know your girl is crazy. Can you trust her?flexxx said:
If she goes ahead and does it anyway, behind your back while you're out hunting Mammoths or discoving Fire, then walk. Might as well meet Fate with a little dignity.
Never give your heart to a girl with glowing eyes. Sure, it's cool that she spits fire...actually it is kewl. Cavemen are screwed.
Naturally. Most things are easier said than done. Mav will always have this regret that he didn't say what he wanted to say, at the right moment.Ariel said:
There are times when instinct is blindingly powerful, and you should trust it. Forget passing judgement on others. I'm a romantic dumbass, too, and if I made the mistake of not stopping my true love from making a mistake, I would still come back and tell her, if it took ten years to screw up the courage.
You are all, romantics and cynics, wolves and lambs alike, a bunch of rough tough cream puffs. May you all find love and gobs of misery and happiness. Actually to hell with you pooners, it's all about the ladies.
A guy just gets so tired of the lines Alex and just wants some honesty. I know guys do it to women too and it's still wrong.~Alexandria~ said:did she make you breaky? did you meet her mom?
what more can I say, bsd. after 2 years she's not in and I doubt she will ever be
I'm sorry for that but you really should try not to focus so much on yesterday. I know it's hard, but you really need to.
I hear what you're saying but tell me, Is it really so wrong just to ask someone to let you down honestly (well, maybe not brutally honest) rather than leave them hanging, thinking you really meant what you said?
Is it really so wrong to hear it directly from them rather through rumours, especially when false rumours already ocurred in the past and you both agreed to never listen to hearsay anymore and talk to each other instead?
Wishful thinking
For a while I was in the same boat about falling for someone who worked as an SP...we've been close friends for quite a few years but in all honesty I never see it going past that....I think it is possible to have a relationship with someone even knowing they work as a SP....it isnt easy but I think if the two people honestly feel enough for one another it is possible...just a shame it wont be for me....just my 2 cents
For a while I was in the same boat about falling for someone who worked as an SP...we've been close friends for quite a few years but in all honesty I never see it going past that....I think it is possible to have a relationship with someone even knowing they work as a SP....it isnt easy but I think if the two people honestly feel enough for one another it is possible...just a shame it wont be for me....just my 2 cents
