I've had three providers now ask me out for dates (we were sort of regulars). I said no to all three despite thinking they'd be great girlfriends but to me there were three glaring difficulties. Could I handle it if they decided to stay in the biz. Could I trust them if they said they wouldn't stay in the biz. Could I handle that they were in the biz. Could they handle that they knew I slept with girls for money (although only when I was single). What would I do, or how would I feel if a client of theirs happened to walk by when we were at dinner and gave an aknowledging loo, or said hi. For these reasons I declined. For one of them I regret it, for the others I think it was definitely the right decision. I wish you the best of luck with your love life.
