Need tips or advice on how to do a dinner date with an SP.
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If it's an all paid date then the lady or agency should already know how to conduct themselves accordingly unless you, the client, has any specific requests.
I thought it was more of an impromptu thing where you asked a lady you've seen out on a casual date and perhaps some indoor fun afterwards.
I thought it was more of an impromptu thing where you asked a lady you've seen out on a casual date and perhaps some indoor fun afterwards.
Well I havent tried it before thats why I am asking, trying to cover all details even if some of it sounds a bit dumb.
I dont think any lady I've seen will ever accept a casual date even IF I promised them a session afterwards....
Frankly for an event like this you are way better off with an independant lady.
It sounds like you have too many agency related limitations to enjoy it.
It's not like you're hideous (I apologize if you indeed are) so I don't know why you would say that. I'm no Brad Pitt and have casually asked SPs to go out with me and have never been shot down. You'd be surprised.
However, I agree with westwoody. You need to let loose a bit or there's really no way for you to enjoy something like this. Personally, I would never pick an agency girl but that's just me.
Ya that was probably also a poor statement by me. There are probably a couple of SPs I've seen who would go out with me. Heck had a stripper from a club who offered to give me her number as long as its just for drinks. I just thought its an incredibly rude thing to ask an SP, especially if they specifically say on their site to not put her in an awkward spot for asking.
You seem to be stuck on Agency SPs or SPs that offer an incall. Even if a SP has access to an incall, she is sharing/renting the space. It's not available for a single 4 hour or more date.
Quite a few SPs offer a Dinner and Dessert rate, many offer an overnight rate. Most of them make it clear that that sort of date is going to require the customer to get a hotel room.
If you have looked at those rates, and can't afford it, well for an SP - time is money. And it's not just booked time, it's opportunity time. The time that she spends having dinner with you is now unavailable to the pooner who wants to see her. She doesn't get the chance to book that time with a paying customer.
I was out yesterday with a delightful young woman that spent 2 hours talking to me at a JJBean before I took her across the street to the hotel. She spent another 2 hours making sure the sheets were well rumpled and the towels were all used and then we had dinner because we were famished. If I had insulted her by wanting to only pay for the time we were actually having sex - it could not have happened. She would have told me what, where and how I could do myself. As it is, she put herself in my phone so that I could easily phone or email her when I wanted to.
There used to be some ladies that offered a "Social Time" rate, but I haven't seen anyone offer that lately. It could have been abused or just simply not worth the hassle.
I was reading a review today of a lady that does offer dinner and dessert and also overnight rates. I've seen her and was very happy. The comments were all on how the commenters would never pay that much for what he can get in an AMP for $120 with a woman that doesn't match the pictures, doesn't provide the menu advertised, and is probably the mother of 1 or more 20 year olds - which is her advertised age. I won't even talk about "minute 2 - touch mouth to his johnny, minute 5 - climb on and rub for 30 seconds before saying it's so big, etc."
Just as there are people that like MacDonald's because the food is the same in Beijing as it is in Burnaby, there are people that like things a little less programed.
Dude I just want an incall to be available because I am too lazy to book a hotel - its another thing I have to do. And who said I wasnt going to pay full rate, I am more than happy to pay her standard rate and use one of those hours to go outside, or pay her dinner + dessert package if she offers one. Nowhere did I even mention money in this. I am by no means loaded, but it was never in my discussion so I dont know why you're talking like all I care is to save money.
Plenty of ladies want to see as many clients as possible per day, and plenty are low volume and maybe only see one or 2 clients a day. And plenty have their own space to use. I dont think what I am looking for is ridiculous or non-existent.
Edit: anyways I think I got the answers I need out of this. I dont know if putting me down was your intention but I think we're done. Close thread if you want to mods.
As I mentioned before, ask Harvi about the girls you're interested in at sweetvips.
Or if you have the time to prebook there is Peyton or Cameron Jones, Mona B, etc.
Good Luck
Or if you have the time to prebook there is Peyton or Cameron Jones, Mona B, etc.
Good Luck
It's your time to be relaxed and pampered.....so just be yourself and don't overthink things too much.
Discretion is important, so discussing sexual things out in public is not a good idea, and could become a legal issue as well. But other than that, just relax and enjoy,
As courtesans, we are trained and skilled at ensuring conversation flows effortlessly. Discuss anything you desire. Physics, politics, finance, art, travel, dogs, food etc. You get the idea. Talk about whatever you enjoy talking about. Any professional lady should be well versed on a multitude of topics, and able to engage all levels of conversation with ease.
As for attire, that is a personal choice as well. Perhaps ask the lady if she has a preference as to what you wear, or ask her what she will be wearing so that the two of you look like you actually belong together. However, it is your time, so it is most important that you dress in a way that makes you feel best for the mood you are trying to accomplish.
Physical contact will vary from lady to lady. I don't think overt PDA's are ever appreciated, but some ladies are fine with holding hands, linking arms, having your arm around her etc. Essentially looking like you are a couple on a real date - but not making anybody else who may see you uncomfortable by trying to remove her tonsils with your tongue.
If the lady you are visiting with is in her hometown, she may prefer that it looks like you are business associates or friends while in public. Each lady will be different, so you will need to ask the lady you are meeting with what her preferences are.
The same goes with food. Make sure you aren't going to a steakhouse if she is vegan, but most ladies will adapt their eating to what you desire. Just make sure you let her know beforehand what you are wanting to do foodwise so she prepares accordingly. If you just want appies or a light bite, let her know that at the time of booking. That way she can eat something more substantial beforehand if she needs to. You don't want her cranky and irritable because she hasn't eaten all day and is expecting a decent dinner, only to be served light fare which leaves her starving. Women don't like being cold or hungry ;-)
As with all things in life, communication is key to ensuring the best experiences.
I think it's really sweet that you are trying so hard to create a memorable experience for her. I'm sure your efforts will be rewarded. However, just try to relax and enjoy your mini retreat together!
Discretion is important, so discussing sexual things out in public is not a good idea, and could become a legal issue as well. But other than that, just relax and enjoy,
As courtesans, we are trained and skilled at ensuring conversation flows effortlessly. Discuss anything you desire. Physics, politics, finance, art, travel, dogs, food etc. You get the idea. Talk about whatever you enjoy talking about. Any professional lady should be well versed on a multitude of topics, and able to engage all levels of conversation with ease.
As for attire, that is a personal choice as well. Perhaps ask the lady if she has a preference as to what you wear, or ask her what she will be wearing so that the two of you look like you actually belong together. However, it is your time, so it is most important that you dress in a way that makes you feel best for the mood you are trying to accomplish.
Physical contact will vary from lady to lady. I don't think overt PDA's are ever appreciated, but some ladies are fine with holding hands, linking arms, having your arm around her etc. Essentially looking like you are a couple on a real date - but not making anybody else who may see you uncomfortable by trying to remove her tonsils with your tongue.
If the lady you are visiting with is in her hometown, she may prefer that it looks like you are business associates or friends while in public. Each lady will be different, so you will need to ask the lady you are meeting with what her preferences are.
The same goes with food. Make sure you aren't going to a steakhouse if she is vegan, but most ladies will adapt their eating to what you desire. Just make sure you let her know beforehand what you are wanting to do foodwise so she prepares accordingly. If you just want appies or a light bite, let her know that at the time of booking. That way she can eat something more substantial beforehand if she needs to. You don't want her cranky and irritable because she hasn't eaten all day and is expecting a decent dinner, only to be served light fare which leaves her starving. Women don't like being cold or hungry ;-)
As with all things in life, communication is key to ensuring the best experiences.
I think it's really sweet that you are trying so hard to create a memorable experience for her. I'm sure your efforts will be rewarded. However, just try to relax and enjoy your mini retreat together!
Except that you don't want ask her, in public anyway, how things are going at work. Unless she also has a civilian job.
Same here, I'm shocked at reading all these comments. How can you tell a girl who is dressed very revealing is an escort? What if she isn't? So many girls these days, especially nowadays, and the younger high school girls, they dress so slutty. They wear thongs in public, they wear knee high boots and call it "fall fashion". When I was in highschool, we called them "hooker boots". Normal civilian women wear fishnets, hooker boots, and tight latex in public because they think its fashionable, not because they are escorts. So how could you tell the difference? The only way I can think of is if she is getting touchy and feely with her client in public, and her client is twice her age. Then it would be a very good guess.
Indeed. I have only had one sp show up in inappropriate attire. Civilian girls, on the other hand,(younger ones)well, there's no accounting for taste. On more than one occasion, I have switched plans in mid stride. Goodbye Hawksworth, hello Cactus Club(sigh).
Probably why I, rarely, see women under the age of thirty.
I have to agree about young girls and there dress, high school girls especially,
they don't have a clue, they dress more revealing then hookers, or as revealing sometimes as hookers on a stroll.
totally inappropriate for a high school kid in school, I have no idea how there parents or the school allows.
the thing is you dress according to the situation.
it sends the wrong message.
ya girl you got fucking tits and I got a prick, maybe we can get together,
its funny or sad, the girls that dress the sleaziest. they are the ones pushing a baby stroller and struggling all by them self, a year latter.
stupid fucking parents and school.
hookers stripers don't dress like that, unless there on a stroll, or on a paid date, normally,
watch a striper come out of the bar or go into a bar before she does her thing, baggy sweats, sweater jeans.
you dress revealing you send a message. there is a time and a place.
they don't have a clue, they dress more revealing then hookers, or as revealing sometimes as hookers on a stroll.
totally inappropriate for a high school kid in school, I have no idea how there parents or the school allows.
the thing is you dress according to the situation.
it sends the wrong message.
ya girl you got fucking tits and I got a prick, maybe we can get together,
its funny or sad, the girls that dress the sleaziest. they are the ones pushing a baby stroller and struggling all by them self, a year latter.
stupid fucking parents and school.
hookers stripers don't dress like that, unless there on a stroll, or on a paid date, normally,
watch a striper come out of the bar or go into a bar before she does her thing, baggy sweats, sweater jeans.
you dress revealing you send a message. there is a time and a place.
