Need some advice for my first time with an SP

[hmata42069]

Hello Friends,

I'm considering seeing an SP in Vancouver BC for the first time in my life. I'm a virgin male in my late 20's and have been doing my research, as lately, I've been feeling the urge for companionship and intimacy. My research leads me to use the services by asianfever.ch.

2 Things are the most imp for me : 1. Safety and discreetness, 2. Legality.

Since they provide incalls, and by reading their websites FAQ + Anonymous booking through telegram, looks like I'm covered.

Looking for suggestions from the community if there is something else I might have missed. Any recommendation or suggestion is much appreciated.

Thanks for your time.

 

[neema.neema]

stick to a well reviewed girl.
Im also in my 20s, and I would recommend a girl in her 20s aswell, do some research to make sure they are actually in their 20s and not pretending to be like alot of girls are, older ladies sometimes are awkward to talk to and theres not as much of a connection I find.
stick to a girl who has msog incase you bust early.
when youve narrowed down your search, private message some of the guys who have reviewed her, alot of members are more honest with their reviews in the DMs than they are publicly on this forum.

we could give you more recommendations if you told us the age range, ethnicity, body type etc you are looking for.
feel free to pm me aswell for recommendations, I dont review every girl i have seen, I also dont post a review until some time has passed after seeing her.

also dont see any girls who will come into this thread and self promote themselves haha, thats always a red flag

 

[Banged_Up]

Jerk off an hour before your appointment.

 

[hmata42069]

Jerk off an hour before your appointment.

Damn! Then I most likely wouldnt go

 

[vanperb]

Here's my advice for first time clients and what I think they should consider. It's counter to the advice that most people would give here but I think you should really consider your actions

https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/how...aking-your-first-booking.300414/#post-2199717

Interestingly, here is non perb post that reflects a lot of my thoughts on the topic

http://imgur.com/ytAlruB

If you do decide to go through with it here a guide you can follow:

https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/vancouver-visitors-guide-2023.333856/

 

[westwoody]

Some excellent comments there.
“If some of those angry people could get fucked they’d be a lot less angry”.

 

[rebelwithsomecause]

Hello Friends,

I'm considering seeing an SP in Vancouver BC for the first time in my life. I'm a virgin male in my late 20's and have been doing my research, as lately, I've been feeling the urge for companionship and intimacy. My research leads me to use the services by asianfever.ch.

2 Things are the most imp for me : 1. Safety and discreetness, 2. Legality.

Since they provide incalls, and by reading their websites FAQ + Anonymous booking through telegram, looks like I'm covered.

Looking for suggestions from the community if there is something else I might have missed. Any recommendation or suggestion is much appreciated.

Thanks for your time.

Hey friend, I would personally avoid seeing a full service escort for your first sexual experience, and perhaps check out a massage with happy ending first. You can find those services at "Massage Parlours" and it's a much more gentle introduction to sensual touch and erotic connection. It will give you a sense of whether or not this kind of thing feels right for you. I also think a sugar baby might be a good route for you because it will allow you to develop a much more intimate, organic connection with a lady around your same age, and the exchange of money for time and intimacy is much the same. A sugar baby in the mid or late 20s I think would be a great match for you as often times the early 20s ladies tend to be a little transactional minded, but that's my opinion only. I like the website sugar daddy meet for that. Seeking is quite popular but it's very oversaturated and a lot of people are wanting to be virtual arrangements.

If you're absolutely hellbent on seeing a fssw provider, I would highly recommend a MILF type or older provider, as I find older ladies have a higher sex drive and enjoy a younger man's energy because he can keep up with them! Don't be afraid to mention that it's your first time, and that you would be keen for her to show you the ropes. With an older lady you can always expect more experience and wisdom and I feel that those qualities are exactly what makes them perfect for a newbie. You can always make a plan out of it, ie X amount of sessions with working girls until you feel confident and experienced enough to approach the regular dating scene? In terms of a provider that comes to mind for this I recommend any of Vienna 8911, @SkylerAnne @ExpCharlee Beckett, or @EuroSZabina

As for your safety concerns, personally I would stick to providers who have several positive reviews, or a Tryst profile, and who have their private incalls. Leolist verified is unfortunately not always reliable. Tryst is much more reliable, it's a fully sw-run site and it takes several weeks for the girls to get their profiles approved on there. Pink Diamond Condo group is a collective of independent girls who rent out the same several incall locations and they're pretty reliable, for example. A small deposit is generally standard, but if they're asking you to send something like 50 or 75% of their full rate, it may be a red flag. That kind of thing is typically rare, and only for the highest end providers with absolutely obscene rates (talking 4/5 figure per hour).

I hope this helps 🙏

 

[hmata42069]

Here's my advice for first time clients and what I think they should consider. It's counter to the advice that most people would give here but I think you should really consider your actions

https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/how...aking-your-first-booking.300414/#post-2199717

Interestingly, here is non perb post that reflects a lot of my thoughts on the topic

http://imgur.com/ytAlruB

If you do decide to go through with it here a guide you can follow:

https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/vancouver-visitors-guide-2023.333856/

Hey, whats 1122 and 6456 ?

 

[hmata42069]

Hey friend, I would personally avoid seeing a full service escort for your first sexual experience, and perhaps check out a massage with happy ending first. You can find those services at "Massage Parlours" and it's a much more gentle introduction to sensual touch and erotic connection. It will give you a sense of whether or not this kind of thing feels right for you. I also think a sugar baby might be a good route for you because it will allow you to develop a much more intimate, organic connection with a lady around your same age, and the exchange of money for time and intimacy is much the same. A sugar baby in the mid or late 20s I think would be a great match for you as often times the early 20s ladies tend to be a little transactional minded, but that's my opinion only. I like the website sugar daddy meet for that. Seeking is quite popular but it's very oversaturated and a lot of people are wanting to be virtual arrangements.

If you're absolutely hellbent on seeing a fssw provider, I would highly recommend a MILF type or older provider, as I find older ladies have a higher sex drive and enjoy a younger man's energy because he can keep up with them! Don't be afraid to mention that it's your first time, and that you would be keen for her to show you the ropes. With an older lady you can always expect more experience and wisdom and I feel that those qualities are exactly what makes them perfect for a newbie. You can always make a plan out of it, ie X amount of sessions with working girls until you feel confident and experienced enough to approach the regular dating scene? In terms of a provider that comes to mind for this I recommend any of Vienna 8911, @SkylerAnne @ExpCharlee Beckett, or @EuroSZabina

As for your safety concerns, personally I would stick to providers who have several positive reviews, or a Tryst profile, and who have their private incalls. Leolist verified is unfortunately not always reliable. Tryst is much more reliable, it's a fully sw-run site and it takes several weeks for the girls to get their profiles approved on there. Pink Diamond Condo group is a collective of independent girls who rent out the same several incall locations and they're pretty reliable, for example. A small deposit is generally standard, but if they're asking you to send something like 50 or 75% of their full rate, it may be a red flag. That kind of thing is typically rare, and only for the highest end providers with absolutely obscene rates (talking 4/5 figure per hour).

I hope this helps 🙏

Hi, I thought of avoiding Massage parlors, For I find it less secure ( In terms of LE ) and also less discreet. I plan of seeing a MILF for sure, for the same reasons you mentioned!!!! Whats Pink Diamond Condo group? Also, any insights into what incall condos look like. Is there a chance for neighbors to be aware of whats going on, and make complaints etc. Any insights into this?

 

[jamasianman]

If you're worried about massage parlors but want to dip your toes into a happy ending massage, consider seeing an independent massage provider such as Miss Beatrice or Sexy Personal Trainer. A nice milf recommendation is Sarah Forte. Pink Diamond Condos is a sort of agency, they have a bunch of condos across the mainland and let providers rent them out. Incall condos look just like any other condos, sometimes sparsely furnished but they are stocked with toiletries. In terms of privacy, no one will talk to you on the way up because they have no reason to. Just pretend you are going to visit a friend. And if the off chance someone asks you why you're there just say you're visiting a friend. Don't worry about nosy neighbours. Just do your research and have fun. I also recommend tempgf angency they are my favourite.

 

[blakealridge]

I would highly recommend a MILF type or older provider, as I find older ladies have a higher sex drive and enjoy a younger man's energy because he can keep up with them! @ExpCharlee Beckett

Omg it’s happened I’m an OLDER LADY / MILF lol

I have seen lots of virgins, there’s actually a review about it. I’d never pressure you into anything and I do a lot of check-ins. I’m silly and fun and gentle. Lots of us indies are, don’t listen to this guy telling you not to have sex with a pro. Sex is as big or as little a deal as you want it to be. You don’t “lose” your virginity, you just *gain* an experience. And what better way than with someone who’s comfortable, experienced, and a practiced communicator?

 

[masterpoonhunter]

Some great replies here and that one about jerking off ? why? You'll be getting your unit worked by a lovely lady who knows what she's doing. Let her do that do you!!
Regarding being worried about getting called out going into a massage parlour if it makes you more comfy, just limp along or hold your arm, fake agony, the neighbours will figure my god that guy needs that massage!! But just get in the door.
Then succumb to what awaits.
Oh, and make sure you tell all of us IN FULL DETAIL exactly how you and she did.

 

[Langleydude]

Omg it’s happened I’m an OLDER LADY / MILF lol

I have seen lots of virgins, there’s actually a review about it. I’d never pressure you into anything and I do a lot of check-ins. I’m silly and fun and gentle. Lots of us indies are, don’t listen to this guy telling you not to have sex with a pro. Sex is as big or as little a deal as you want it to be. You don’t “lose” your virginity, you just *gain* an experience. And what better way than with someone who’s comfortable, experienced, and a practiced communicator?

Just be realistic about your expectations about future encounters. Seeing someone as awesome as Charlee Beckett can set the bar impossibly high for future partners (I haven't met her yet but I want to), but having said that you will also know how good it can be. Just relax take your time and enjoy the experience and ask for guidance if you're not sure about something.

 

[blakealridge]

Just be realistic about your expectations about future encounters. Seeing someone as awesome as Charlee Beckett can set the bar impossibly high for future partners (I haven't met her yet but I want to), but having said that you will also know how good it can be. Just relax take your time and enjoy the experience and ask for guidance if you're not sure about something.

so funny when people who haven’t met me assume they know what it would be like to meet me. I’ve been sure to explain what I can do that you can’t expect from non-pros etc. I go through consent and how to communicate and explain that I’m much more practiced than the majority of folks. You should come see me and we can roleplay you’re a virgin so you can actually speak to the experience I provide to virgins.

 

[Wakeup]

Decades ago one women told me to run one off in the car first cause only one shot.
Went to another and she said, I’ll give you a tip. Don’t start from behind!
Unfortunately not a problem anymore, now the women gotta work at it usually.
Good luck

 

[YYC]

Don't worry about legality. If you're worried about whether or not things are legal, just stay home and put aluminium foil over your head.

Just go do it. Don't overthink things. Go to an MPA, go to FSSW, just go do it. You will NEVER regret it, unless you choose poorly 😂

 

[YYC]

Omg it’s happened I’m an OLDER LADY / MILF lol

Shit, if you were in porn, you might qualify to be in the mother-in-law role since the average age of mothers in law in porn is like, what, 25?

 

[hmata42069]

Thanks! @YYC what MPA's would you recommend for a beginner?

 

[MB Mod]

Thanks! @YYC what MPA's would you recommend for a beginner?

That’s a question you should be asking in the relevant 411 forum and not here.