ok perhaps i'm starting this thread because I am sick and am going a little stir crazy but this has been something that has been in the back of my mind and It has pushed it's way to the front.
I've been with a few sps this summer with very positive results. They have been very kind, skilled and attentive and I have thouroughly enjoyed the experiences. But with all of them there has been one thing that could have been better with all of them is the selection of the music.
Now, I am aware that it is their place and you kind of have to play by their rules. I have a policy that if it's my car it's my music, when it's their car their music. I can see the same rule applying here. I am also aware when you first meet an sp, there is no way for them to know what music you like so they will often pick sort of generic insrumental "romantic style music, like piano or jazz or something like that.
Now I believe that sex is an experience for the 5 senses and i believe that music plays into that but is of course not all of it. Now Ipersonally like music with more driving energetic beats (ie metal, electric blues, classic rock and alternative) but my taste is pretty diverse as i'm sure is the taste of all the fine sps in this city and mood on that particular day does influence musical preferences.
Now a couple of the ones I have been with have asked me about music and I told them to choose what they want basically because i don't want them fishing through cds for 15 minutes. But if they take clothing requests, shouldn't they take musical request too? i believe that the right music at the right time with the right person can really enhance the experience and take it to another level.
I guess my questions are these
1. How important is music during a session
2. Who gets the say in the music played?
3. What have people found to be the best music?
I open it up to the mob......
I've been with a few sps this summer with very positive results. They have been very kind, skilled and attentive and I have thouroughly enjoyed the experiences. But with all of them there has been one thing that could have been better with all of them is the selection of the music.
Now, I am aware that it is their place and you kind of have to play by their rules. I have a policy that if it's my car it's my music, when it's their car their music. I can see the same rule applying here. I am also aware when you first meet an sp, there is no way for them to know what music you like so they will often pick sort of generic insrumental "romantic style music, like piano or jazz or something like that.
Now I believe that sex is an experience for the 5 senses and i believe that music plays into that but is of course not all of it. Now Ipersonally like music with more driving energetic beats (ie metal, electric blues, classic rock and alternative) but my taste is pretty diverse as i'm sure is the taste of all the fine sps in this city and mood on that particular day does influence musical preferences.
Now a couple of the ones I have been with have asked me about music and I told them to choose what they want basically because i don't want them fishing through cds for 15 minutes. But if they take clothing requests, shouldn't they take musical request too? i believe that the right music at the right time with the right person can really enhance the experience and take it to another level.
I guess my questions are these
1. How important is music during a session
2. Who gets the say in the music played?
3. What have people found to be the best music?
I open it up to the mob......
