Most Flattering experience(s) you've had in this hobby

[lukom]

I would assume all of us have had great and memorable experiences with various SP's, but in terms of walking feeling genuinely flattered I would hope most of us have had some flattering moments. Be it compliments or an occurrence during your session.

I am now in my later 30's, but when I started off in my twenties I was without a doubt a good looking kid and played soccer, and so i had a soccer player build. I got into this because I had the money, hated commitment and hated having to meet women at the club or hooking up through mutual circles. I felt it would lead to too much drama.

One of the best compliments I got though was a girl fresh out of high school newly turned 18 tell me, "You are way too hot to be doing this! I shouldn't even be charging you!" I was 24 at the time and I paid for an hour, but she kept me around for nearly 2 hours. I didn't have much more cash on me, and gave her what I had and she turned down the extra amount telling me I was the best she'd had since starting. I left feeling real good about myself.

At another time I had a session with an SP who was doing Safe GFE and it involved no kissing, no daty, and CBJ. I was OK with that sort of thing back then. Part way in she asked if she could sit on my face, and when she was cow girling me she would lean over and kiss me. When I had her in missionary she would reach for my face and we'd kiss and go DFK. I left after that session real flattered that I had a session with an SP who broke some of her own restrictions.

What are some of your moments that you felt the most flattered in this hobby?

 

[take8easy]

One of the greatest memories was with Cherise. There used to be these two girls who started to work with her (Grizzlies Cheerleader and Soccer Mom). I approached her for a duo and she asked me who do I want to go with and I told her I would trust her judgement. It was my probably 5th session with her and it was supposed to be for an hour. So we started with the cheerleader and around 30 minutes mark, the door opened and it was the soccer mom. So for a few moments I was surrounded by three women and a brief foursome ensued. Eventually first one left and the duo continued with me, Cherise and the girl number two. It was one of the greatest Xmas gifts I ever got.

On another xmas day, I had an hour date with one of my ATF's but I didn't book her luxury package deal. We we were having wine and enjoying ourselves when she told me I could stay a while longer and she threw in the luxury package as a x mas gift. Again, this was my third or fourth visit with her.

I have received rimming during, I have had golden shower and few more gestures but again, ALL of this happened during my repeat visits.

Things do get better once they trust you and feel comfortable with you.

 

[nightswhisper]

A SP retired for me and was my girlfriend for 8 months.

 

[silenceisgolden]

I've been fortunate enough to have two:

1. When I was fairly new to this whole thing, I saw a SP who was known for massages but also did FS. I was mostly looking for the massage and HE, but wouldn't you know it things escalated. We had a good enough time that I tried to make a same-day booking on the next Friday afternoon. But she wasn't available--such are the risks of being a same-day booker. After being out with friends Friday night I figured it was worth a shot and tried contacting her again just after midnight (this wasn't totally offside since she did sometimes run ads fairly late at night). Lucky for me she was out with friends too, was just about to head home and agreed I should meet her there. It felt a lot more like a bar hook-up than a date with a SP (well, except for when I gave her the money). We didn't follow any normal "script" and instead went with the flow, including making sure she ended up as satisfied as me by digging into her drawer of toys. There was no clock-watching and after the dust settled we just hung out for another hour or so having a beer until we said our goodbyes. From there, I saw her a couple more times. Then while I was in Vegas I called her and told her I'd fly her down the next night so she could hang out with me and my friends (I'm not rich, but somehow this made sense at the time). She didn't end up coming down to Vegas, but when I returned Sunday evening she came over to my place for a non-SP "date" I suppose--basically she came over and made sure my weekend ended with a bang. From there, we kept hanging out from time to time. Sometimes I'd pay, sometimes not (I was of course always willing to pay, but sometimes she'd refuse, or sometimes I'd pay for an hour and stay the night, or whatever). Long story short, in some ways it went from an SP relationship to closer to FWB. Eventually it ended (I got a girlfriend, and she left town), but it was an interesting couple of months.

2. I saw a highly regarded SP for two hours on a rainy Vancouver weekend afternoon. I guess we hit it off pretty well both in the bedroom and not, but for a variety of reasons I didn't end up repeating. About a month or so later, while I was in Mexico, she called me just to catch up and, I assume, give me the hint hint that I should repeat. Either business was slow, or I made an impression. Either way, it was good for the ego, although in hindsight I suppose it was offside for her to call me like that. Anyway, I never did end up repeating. She's still active so there's always a chance...

 

[Bizzaynass]

This just happened to me last week. My ATF regular came back to town after being away for over 2 months. She texted me when she returned and we saw each other again. During our appointment, she told me she was no longer taking bookings and no longer posting ads (essentially retired). I was saddened by that and when she saw the look on my face, she assured me that I was an exception and still able to see her when her civilian job allows her to. I'm seeing her again next week again for a social date and fun at her place afterwards, my tenth visit in a year with her.

 

[Kokoo]

This just happened to me last week. My ATF regular came back to town after being away for over 2 months. She texted me when she returned and we saw each other again. During our appointment, she told me she was no longer taking bookings and no longer posting ads (essentially retired). I was saddened by that and when she saw the look on my face, she assured me that I was an exception and still able to see her when her civilian job allows her to. I'm seeing her again next week again for a social date and fun at her place afterwards, my tenth visit in a year with her.

Since she's retired can you tell us who you're ATF is? You can PM me if you prefer.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Three SP's who have left the business have remained social friends, two with occasional benefits.

 

[rickyn]

Not sure what qualifies but is it when

-a SP gives you her personal # (3 times)
-she wants or does buy you breakfast (2 times)
-falls asleep in your arms for four hours cause she feels comfortable.
-when a SP tells you your the best DATY ever (took that with a grain of salt) but then the next one tells you she should be paying you for DATY. Then another provider actually tries to give you half the donation back cause of your DATY skills,& you politely refuse. Only to learn she used the bathroom before leaving,& left the cash in there on purpose. Apparently I'm good (& honestly don't have a clue what I'm doing) but didn't think I was that good lol
-or have a discussion about a service she doesn't provide or tried in life. But all of a sudden it happens and wants to do it again & again off the clock.
-but when a lady makes you a handmade personal and meaningful gift during her recovery,just because you were kind to her and she remembers you. That may be the most flattering and memorable thing ever.

Side note:these are all different SP over my time. None of these instances are the same lady.

 

[masterblaster]

First of all I don’t consider it a hobby not sure why some people do. This spring an SP I’m involved with took me with her to go back where she had grown up to visit her father and siblings. Was nice to meet her family, had never been to that part of the county before, had a great trip.

 

[VinVan]

Way back in the mists of time when I first started in this hobby I met a slightly older woman and became smitten with her. She was smart, attractive and had a wicked sense of humour. At the time we met she had suffered some hard times. I was relatively young and hungry for experiences. She thought I was pretty vanilla until during one session she asked me to smack her ass. I thought “sure,” and gave it a little tap while riding her from behind. She turned her head, and I’ll never forget this for all my days, and said, “harder.” The combination of the look in her eyes (a slightly glassy, euphoric gaze) and the tone of her voice (part dare, part demand, part submission) connected two wires in my brain that had never touched. I smacked her ass again, much harder, and I watched as she received the sharpness of the impact and gave a sigh of pleasure. Until that moment I did not know that women like her existed. She was clearly a bottom and, in that moment, she showed me I was a top. The more I spanked her, the more intensely she came. I left so many welts on her ass that day and discovered a part of me that I’m still learning about to this day. We connected on many levels, and after that session, sexually too. We moved in together and had more adventures than I can count. We eventually parted ways, but I’m truly grateful she chose me for that part of her journey.

To this day, I indulge this part of my personality with various SPs I’ve met along the way who are also so inclined. I’m always pleasantly surprised when I meet a lass who will share that vulnerability with me. It takes a certain degree of trust building, and when that is established the sessions are often magical for both parties.

 

[cruefan]

Getting a thank you text from a lady hours after the appointment saying that they had an amazing time.

Getting a text the next time they are in town asking if you would please come see them again and being given their personal number.

 

[theveruza]

- Before moving to Canada, a SP asked me to PM her on the board we were using so she would give me her personal email so we could stay in touch. That was definitely a highlight for me.
- Had a SP I had seen more than once send me a sweet text after a couple months of not seeing her
- Had a couple SPs thank me for DATY because they enjoyed it

 

[AA_Train]

A now retired lady used to always get me my favourite beer and snacks before every session. I never asked her to do it, she just decided to do it on her own one day and kept it up until she retired.

 

[nowayjose]

One girl fell asleep in my arms and then I fell asleep. She kept waking me up because I was snoring. I would move to get up and go home and she would pull me back. Wanted me to stay but didn't like the snoring.

 

[Dawn2Dusk]

Only do massage and never fs. Have very rarely gone for bbbj.

This one Asian college girl went down on me without even discussing extra when I flipped. Said I deserved multiple women. Slid her shorts off as all of this is going on and let me feel around. It was nuts. After it was all said and done she wouldn't take a tip. So crazy. Really regret not getting her WeChat or # or something.

Have had a few more similar instances over the years. It's also balanced out by having some absolutely terrible experiences as well.

 

[jgg]

Being told that "for another $300.00 you can come back".

 

[Jethro Bodine]

When they don't slam the door in my face or start laughing when I take off my pants.

Cheers
J

 

[islander1-1]

A cpl of months ago, with one of my faves,,, in the middle of a session she announces we are going to have a guest in a cpl of minutes,,, sure enough in comes her room-mate. My fave tells her friend to sit on my face... "Isn't that the best DATY you have ever had?" while I was busy performing one of my favorite things to do.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

A cpl of months ago, with one of my faves,,, in the middle of a session she announces we are going to have a guest in a cpl of minutes,,, sure enough in comes her room-mate. My fave tells her friend to sit on my face... "Isn't that the best DATY you have ever had?" while I was busy performing one of my favorite things to do.

Nice! Of course it could have gone the other way as well. LOL!

 

[Cami Parker]

Don’t ever forget that we are human too. In most cases we continue to see you because we genuinely like you. Having a lady accept you as an ongoing client is very flattering in itself, and shouldn’t be overlooked. Like you, were seeking the companionship of gents we enjoy spending our tine and sharing our bodies with.