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morning after pill the responsibility of the customer or escort?

bcneil

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Just an observation, but, if an SP is not fully prepared for every eventuality when it comes to birth control, she is probably in the wrong business.

If for some reason she can't/won't take the pill and only uses condoms as a guard, you would think that any sensible SP would have something like a morning after pill on hand in case of a situation like the one the OP described. The fact that she wasn't prepared for that, and had a panic attack is disturbing. It means that she is probably unprepared for a lot of other things as well.
These have a 3-4 year self life. I don't understand why an SP who is not on the pill would not have this, just seems to be common sense. $40 is trivial, especially in the situation we have here. A $300 SP and a guy that poons at that pricepoint
 

bcneil

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The condom broke and pregnancy is the biggest concern??
No, in this particular situation, its about the $40 :pound:
 

SamGomez

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This was for 20.00 and I didn't have any more $ in my wallet. Gave her a extra 20.00 and session was 300. Thought she can deal with the 20.00. This woman didn't even want to go with me to the pharmacy.
Wanted me to deliver it to her.
No, in this particular situation, its about the $40 :pound:
 

Caramel

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This was for 20.00 and I didn't have any more $ in my wallet. Gave her a extra 20.00 and session was 300. Thought she can deal with the 20.00. This woman didn't even want to go with me to the pharmacy.
Wanted me to deliver it to her.
Thanks for more info. I'd say she is a spoiled brat and I'd take your side in this situation...when this has happened to me Ive never asked for help. They can always just go get it for free at the std clinic.
 

SamGomez

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With 320 in her pocket and working less than two blocks from a pharmacy . I felt I don't owe her anything.

Thanks for more info. I'd say she is a spoiled brat and I'd take your side in this situation...when this has happened to me Ive never asked for help. They can always just go get it for free at the std clinic.
 

Sonny

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Long story short the condom broke. The girl freaked and demanded me pay her 40 or go buy her the pill at the pharmacy. I said I'm only willing to pay half and gave her 20.00
OP's original post initiating this thread. "Long story short", indeed. Based on what he revealed, he solicited support from Perb members for his actions.
Why the need for this? Some sense in him of possible shortfall in conduct?

After considerable blowback, then he adds several other details such as:
This was for 20.00 and I didn't have any more $ in my wallet. Gave her a extra 20.00 and session was 300. Thought she can deal with the 20.00. This woman didn't even want to go with me to the pharmacy.
Wanted me to deliver it to her.
With 320 in her pocket and working less than two blocks from a pharmacy . I felt I don't owe her anything.
Sam first writes "I said I'm only willing to pay half" to the girl. Then we discover "I didn't have any more $". I guess he could have used a CC at the pharmacy, if he had gone.
Particularly if the girl was Asian, there is a big stigma attached, a loss of "face", if she goes to the pharmacy to ask for Plan B medication. Asian or not, likely reason why she asked Sam to go.

My opinion is that a gentleman would have responded to the situation by first assuring the "freaked" out girl not to worry.
By offering without any hesitation to go to the pharmacy, buy the pills and return them to the SP.
Or, if he truly had no money beyond the $20 and no credit card at all (hard to imagine), by an explanation to her of that, and still offering to go to the pharmacy with his $20 and $20 from her.
Maybe gallantry and chivalry are dead. I'm old school.
Just my 2 cents.
 
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Tugela

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I seriously doubt that any woman, Asian or otherwise, who earned a living as an SP would be concerned about "losing face" by buying birth control.

From the OP's description of the event and her behaviour, assuming that it is accurate, it sounds more like she has some sort of mental issue.
 

SamGomez

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Funny how some people think they have it all figured out.
Can't believe the Asian embarrassment pill comment.


I seriously doubt that any woman, Asian or otherwise, who earned a living as an SP would be concerned about "losing face" by buying birth control.

From the OP's description of the event and her behaviour, assuming that it is accurate, it sounds more like she has some sort of mental issue.
 

felixthecat

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if he truly had no money beyond the $20 and no credit card at all (hard to imagine), by an explanation to her of that, and still offering to go to the pharmacy with his $20 and $20 from her. Maybe gallantry and chivalry are dead.
It shouldn't be hard to imagine him having no credit card. I normally go pooning without a wallet, isn't that a recommended practice.

Now if he goes "give me your $20, I'll be right back", the girl may not see it as a chivalrous offer. She may not like going together either (being seen with an older guy or security reasons or whatnot).

it sounds more like she has some sort of mental issue.
That's a very strong assumption, potentially accusing OP of rape if she wasn't able to give a consent. I'd guess she was just tight on money if she thought that amount was important.

Look at the bright side - it's better that she freaked out, it makes less likely that this happens to her often or she does bareback.
 

Sonny

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It shouldn't be hard to imagine him having no credit card. I normally go pooning without a wallet, isn't that a recommended practice.
OP writes he had "no more $ in my wallet", so logical to assume he had his wallet with him. If not, likely in his car parked nearby.

I seriously doubt that any woman, Asian or otherwise, who earned a living as an SP would be concerned about "losing face" by buying birth control.
Not the same as birth control pills, which are used to modify female body chemistry so that pregnancy is avoided in advance.
This pill is purchased to abort possible initiated pregnancy in a fertile womb, arising from a guy cumming uncovered, and in this case unplanned, inside a woman's pussy.

Yes, Asian women may feel embarrassed in this situation, as two SPs on two separate occasions related such to me in conversation.
I know a lot of Asian women, and Western outlook does not necessarily apply here.

Still, interesting that important parts of OPs story only come out after blowback. I wonder what the thread comments would have been if his "long story short" had been a few sentences longer to incorporate all relevant detail.

From the OP's description of the event and her behaviour, assuming that it is accurate, it sounds more like she has some sort of mental issue.
Some may interpret this comment to be misogynist, but likely is just unconnected from the event. A man does not get pregnant and will not bear a child. That a SP may be upset is not unusual at all, and folks do have various degrees of emotional expression, without having a "mental issue".
 
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vancity_cowboy

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on yer ignore list
Still, interesting that important parts of OPs story only come out after blowback. I wonder what the thread comments would have been if his "long story short" had been a few sentences longer to incorporate all relevant detail.
this is something to which i attribute most of the flame wars and debates we find regularly occurring on perb - lack of initial information explaining the details of the original occurrence
 
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