Methods of providing donations

[mb22361432]

Hey all,

So after a couple of visits with some local SPs, I've come to the realization that me reaching into my wallet and handing the lady cash as if I'm giving her an allowance is skeezy AF. So looking for input on how I should be doing this. SPs, please feel free to provide input

 

[luvsdaty]

As long asits not a bag of nickels, cash is fine.

 

[Forum mod]

If digging it out of your wallet makes you feel bad, put it in an envelope beforehand and just hand that over. Or a card. Or if those also makes you feel skeezy, you might reconsider if seeing SPs is even a good idea for you. In the end, it's a paid business and you gotta pay somehow.

 

[Uncled]

I have the cash in a plain envelope and simply place it on the bed or table when I am on my way to the shower.

 

[Kikoolol]

e-transfer the whole donation beforehand.

 

[Mr. J]

Envelope is usually the go to option as some have already stated, but you gotta watch your ass with e-transfers. ONLY e-transfer with reputable providers as scams are commonplace. Good hunting!

 

[Taylor007]

Hey all,

So after a couple of visits with some local SPs, I've come to the realization that me reaching into my wallet and handing the lady cash as if I'm giving her an allowance is skeezy AF. So looking for input on how I should be doing this. SPs, please feel free to provide input

Don't do this. 🤦‍♂️ ....

e-transfer the whole donation beforehand.

 

[LM987]

When paying in cash, have the money either ready (not in your wallet) in your pocket, or in an open envelope ( so the provider can easily count).

 

[Forum mod]

e-transfer the whole donation beforehand.

The whole issue of e-transfer is a big debate. Some love it, others refuse to even allow it, as they have had transactions cancelled. There's also a level of privacy that is breached with e-transfer. It's not just as simple as that. If the two parties know and trust each other, that's a valid option. If there's an ounce of doubt, cash is the way to go.

Other than a deposit to a reputable provider, gift cards are nearly always the hallmark of a scam.

 

[masterpoonhunter]

In my 50 years of pooning, I have ONLY ever paid in cash.
Sometimes its just handed over, sometimes left on the bed/massage table, sometimes in an envelope.
And if its a regular, it might be in a card with a splash of my current cologne.
I simply do not do eTransfers, just cannot take the risk and I don't want any kind of bank record.
My cardinal rule no matter who I am meeting, NEVER have I ever taken a wallet into a session, ever.

 

[westwoody]

e-transfer the whole donation beforehand.

No problem with ladies I know.

 

[87112]

I don't overthink that part, cash is cash. I put it on a table no envelope.
I don't think any lady has ever been put off by that at least to my spider senses.

 

[Pornholio]

I like to add some flair

 

[mb22361432]

I guess skeezy was the wrong terminology, guess what I was going for was if there was a cooler way to do it

Think the envelopes might do the trick for me next time

 

[Pornholio]

Do you withdraw 5 dollar bills and make it rain lol

Yeah, i find toonies bounce around too much

 

[silkk]

I just count the cheddar in front of her and confirm we are all good before heading in the shower to scrub my schlong

 

[Bizzaynass]

I just count the cheddar in front of her and confirm we are all good before heading in the shower to scrub my schlong

What provider out there let's you pay with cheese? There's a guy on another thread here that's offering a brand new IPhone 14 that needs to see this!

 

[Equity Market investor]

From day one, I've always went the envelope route. Regarding E-transfers? Exactly ! With me.... being a long time member of perb . As soon as I meet a lady from here, I have absolutely no issue e-transferring from there on. It's always that first step with me.

Cheers

The whole issue of e-transfer is a big debate. Some love it, others refuse to even allow it, as they have had transactions cancelled. There's also a level of privacy that is breached with e-transfer. It's not just as simple as that. If the two parties know and trust each other, that's a valid option. If there's an ounce of doubt, cash is the way to go.

Other than a deposit to a reputable provider, gift cards are nearly always the hallmark of a scam.

 

[blakealridge]

I have a square reader now ☺

 

[FreeG]

Almost every SW website I've ever read has asked for day-of amounts to be in an envelope. I've seen (on Twitter) where the envelope is a nice card, or its within a book/other gift, but blank envelope always remains the simplest, go-to option. Then I'd expect them to count the amount while you're taking the shower (yes, gentlemen, TAKE A SHOWER! lol!)

Others have mentioned e-transfers - also a good option IMO (of course, do your research!); I've e-transfered the entire amount beforehand in the past and I like it because its a few less things I have to worry about (withdrawing the cash, finding an envelope, making sure I don't forget it, etc).

One thing I would recommend against is planning to e-transfer the final amount when you arrive - I've had plenty of e-transfers take 30min or more to go through. That's an awfully long time for awkward smiles, phone-checking, and small-talk (and cuts into your date-time too, of course!).