Meeting an SP in 'real life'

[mreffect]

So, I've been chatting with a well reviewed SP outside of the escorting world. We met on another site and are looking at meeting up. When we got round to exchanging pictures I realized I recognized her from escort ads/reviews here. I'm unsure whether I should proactively bring it up or just leave it to her and whether she wishes to disclose.

I've no issues dating SPs and have done it before, but only with women i've met through paid appointments. Unsure on the best approach and wondering if anybody has experience similar to mine above.

 

[Bigbone69]

So, I've been chatting with a well reviewed SP outside of the escorting world. We met on another site and are looking at meeting up. When we got round to exchanging pictures I realized I recognized her from escort ads/reviews here. I'm unsure whether I should proactively bring it up or just leave it to her and whether she wishes to disclose.

I've no issues dating SPs and have done it before, but only with women i've met through paid appointments. Unsure on the best approach and wondering if anybody has experience similar to mine above.

I dated a girl that turned into a sp. it was a little difficult. And always found that talking about her job caused a lot of turmoil. So it’s probably best to let her tell you.

 

[Bobert1969]

/\This. NEVER bring it up if you happen to recognize a provider. If she's just trying to lead a normal life outside of "work" you'll just make things awkward for her.

 

[YYC]

Leave it to her to bring it up. Then you have a choice of saying "oh wow, cool, tell me more" or "yeah, I knew from the start".

 

[masterpoonhunter]

I don't know about the thread here.
The OP met online a gal but he knows she is well reviewed here (his words). They exchange pix and he sees she is advertising her services.
So
He knows she is an SP.
She knows she is an SP.
The only unknown is if she knows he is a perbite.
Not the best way to kick off a potential for a lasting relationship.
But WTF do I really know about lasting relationships anyway.

 

[SolidSnake]

Seriously? This could be one of the worst ways to self-sabotage. Maybe another post could do a one-up like "how about telling her I'm a sex-addict/offender?"

 

[bts23]

So, I've been chatting with a well reviewed SP outside of the escorting world. We met on another site and are looking at meeting up. When we got round to exchanging pictures I realized I recognized her from escort ads/reviews here. I'm unsure whether I should proactively bring it up or just leave it to her and whether she wishes to disclose.

I've no issues dating SPs and have done it before, but only with women i've met through paid appointments. Unsure on the best approach and wondering if anybody has experience similar to mine above.

My buddy used to date a SP, turning out to be a big mess dealing with her and her family issue. Not recommended.

 

[Forum mod]

Sorry folks, but this topic has only been discussed 1000 times. Not going to rehash again. Closed.