I don't know why you would believe marrying a working girl is a good idea unless you met her outside of her working circumstances.
marrying a working girl
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The one thing I can add to this discussion is that these relationships arr generally informed by theirsimetimes brutal authenticity.
There is not the luxury of pretense on the basis of social niceties. The authenticity cuts both ways; it can be comforting but it can sometimes be hurtful. There is little about the other person that remains unexposed.
There is not the luxury of pretense on the basis of social niceties. The authenticity cuts both ways; it can be comforting but it can sometimes be hurtful. There is little about the other person that remains unexposed.
HAHAHAHA :high5:plus...after playing Goldilocks on The Cock Carousel, she'd know what's 'juuuuuuust right'
How true. Reminds me of a nursery story. This bed is to hard, this bed is to soft but this bed is juuuuuuuuust right.
It's not really social graces that's the problem. Most working girls give you their best side when you are seeing them on a paid basis. They are companions who fulfill your physical and emotional void for the specific few hours for which they are paid. Judging and falling in love with a woman (or man) from that snapshot is surely setting up for massive failure.
However, if you met said girl during your daily routine whilst traversing the cafes or grocery stores, by all means, go for it. I don't believe in condemning a person to their future because of their past. There are film stars who sold their dogs, emperors who started as beggars, heroes who were thieves, and great wives who were working girls.
However, if you met said girl during your daily routine whilst traversing the cafes or grocery stores, by all means, go for it. I don't believe in condemning a person to their future because of their past. There are film stars who sold their dogs, emperors who started as beggars, heroes who were thieves, and great wives who were working girls.
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It's impossible for escorts to fall in love with clients. The nature of the business does not allow that to occur.
But escorts and clients are both human, and it's very possible for humans to fall in love with humans.
I believe if a client and an escort were to fall in love, then either side will do their diligence to try and make it work or atleast attempt to. Otherwise all one sided engagements are just being set up for failure. Love is bounded by equals. I learned that lesson the hardway myself. It was a grateful lesson, and without it I wouldn't have known better.
Most escorts only give their best because we are paying for it. I've come to experience more than that with some. And it's take it as a lesson or a blessing. Seeing all sides of the coin. Either way there's no actual love between escorts and clients until the element of human falling in love with another human becomes real.
But escorts and clients are both human, and it's very possible for humans to fall in love with humans.
I believe if a client and an escort were to fall in love, then either side will do their diligence to try and make it work or atleast attempt to. Otherwise all one sided engagements are just being set up for failure. Love is bounded by equals. I learned that lesson the hardway myself. It was a grateful lesson, and without it I wouldn't have known better.
Most escorts only give their best because we are paying for it. I've come to experience more than that with some. And it's take it as a lesson or a blessing. Seeing all sides of the coin. Either way there's no actual love between escorts and clients until the element of human falling in love with another human becomes real.
No Boxing Day but that was my Christmas present. Repeat scenerio 3 days later though, she allowed me to sleep most of the night with her after we finished, first time for that, quite enjoyed it.
And you are saying this because you are an escort ? You used to be an escort? You have an experience as an escort???
I just love it when ppl talk like they have such experience in that situation.
yes, we do fall in love with clients dharlin. I know it's so hard to believe it but guess what, we do have heart...
Gezzz
With respect to my experience when involved in a personal relationship what I discovered was how much the same they are outside of work with an other quality women I have had a similar relationship with. There was a comforting familamity about the relationship with a surprising absence of unwanted drama.
I see you have failed to read my entire post. From a business standpoint, it's not suppose to happen. "But escorts and clients are both human, and it's very possible for humans to fall in love with humans". Not once did I say escorts have no heart. When actual love occurs in these relationships, then you will know when it's real. Cut the money out and you'll know otherwise. I learned my own lesson through experience. Did I have a happy ending? No I did not. But do I regret it? No I don't, infact I'm grateful and it's made me be more real about these relationships. Sorry but you don't know who I am or what I went through.
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Service providers and escorts are not unlike cops in that they are just like any other people ...only more so.
You know, I’d have no problem marrying a former sex worker. I’m not sure how I’d feel if she were still working.
As long as we could be honest with each other about things then why not. Here’s a beautiful woman who loves me (surprisingly) and I love her. She could have had her choice of many men yet she chose me. I think I’d feel really lucky, I’m not wealthy so I’m pretty sure it wouldn’t be money that she was marrying me for.
Now how do I find such a woman, it’s not like I can book a session with a girl and then just ask her out after, that’d be creepy.
As long as we could be honest with each other about things then why not. Here’s a beautiful woman who loves me (surprisingly) and I love her. She could have had her choice of many men yet she chose me. I think I’d feel really lucky, I’m not wealthy so I’m pretty sure it wouldn’t be money that she was marrying me for.
Now how do I find such a woman, it’s not like I can book a session with a girl and then just ask her out after, that’d be creepy.
Not necessarily. Guess it would depend on the dynamics of your encounters with her. I don't have the experience of marrying a former sex worker or even a current one, we came at it from the other direction lol.
Coming up on 10 yrs now and best 10 of my life. She has her work and I have my unrelated work, we both contribute. Its no different than any other relationship, actually better than most I have seen and for sure any I have been in.
I'm just trying to say it can work. Treat it the same as any other relationship except you have to check your jealousy at the door.
I humbly suggest that in any relationship, jealousy should be checked at the door.
That is very true but it will come up more often if you lady is a provider lol.
