Ms Erica, I'd love to let you sit on my testicles, but Elsi might get jealous and her cat o' nine tails really scares me.
marrying a working girl
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It's sorta why the member is crooked...Gee, for you to allow that for such a long time,you must have really enjoyed those three couples on your testicles for 10 years.
Wow - you are some tough nut, - or to be more precise, you must have some tough nuts.
Weird, but ---- "to each their own".
It also doesn't hurt when a certain young lady can orgasm almost on demand, now that's what I call stress relief....it's your soft snoring I'd have to get used to.
I caught feelings for one who has shared a lot with me in terms of her personal life. I’ve hung out with her and finally worked up the courage to tell her how I felt, honestly. While flattered, she was honest with me about her inability leave her current line of work and due to what it is affording her in terms of financing her education and how she wishes she was able to do something else in order to reconcile being able to feel something romantic and not sacrifice her future.Not sure if this counts but I’m dating someone who I met as a client and have since been ONLY with her. She is still currently working.
I’ve had many relationships and dated professionals such as doctors, lawyers etc and I have to say that this relationship has been the most satisfying. Ironically we don’t have sex that often. This sort of makes me laugh because I have a super high sex drive and I’m crazy about this woman. I find that my feelings for her run a lot deeper than the sex (she is still the most amazing lover I’ve ever had).
In the beginning it was really hard for me though. I had a very traditional view on relationships and sex and I’m the first to admit I had a lot of hang ups. I had a hang up about the fact that I met her as a client and how that dynamic is. I had issues with my saying I’m not going to be seeing anyone else while she is still sleeping with clients.
She got jealous a few times about my behaviour and I will admit I threw the whole “you’re sleeping with people” card as if that was my power to invalidate any of her feelings.
We have struggled with a lot of things and I will say for sure it takes a very different type of person to understand and accept this type of relationship.
Fast forward to the OP.
I think you may have been talking more about someone that was in the game that is now out of the game. Prior to my current relationship, I don’t think I could have imagined being accepting of a wonderful woman that had that sort of a past. While all things being equal, my ego would probably still prefer someone who hasn’t but for the right woman, who cares.
I’ve learned that a very strong and magical experience with another person isn’t a common occurrence. Why would I rob myself of one of the world’s greatest experiences because I can’t handle someone’s past or they don’t fit into a social norm.
Funny how experienced can change us!
She hasn’t blacklisted me or cut me out of her life so I guess for now I’m happy to be her friend.
if its the right person,
nothing else matters,
saw my sp last night,
its easy to get lost with her,
I know the devil is in the details. and the few hours we spend together, is nothing,
but, I know what she is, and who she is,
but the important thing is, is who she is to me
nothing else matters,
saw my sp last night,
its easy to get lost with her,
I know the devil is in the details. and the few hours we spend together, is nothing,
but, I know what she is, and who she is,
but the important thing is, is who she is to me
I guess it depends. For me I wouldn't care too much about their past but if I were to seriously to date a SP I would not want her to be in working as a SP. Past can be forgiven but I feel if she is seeing me in a serious relationship I wouldn't want her to be with other men. Is just human nature you want what's special/percious to be yours only.
However, if it is being friends with them going out for a dinner/movies/coffee I have no issue with. Is their life they can do what they feel and I respect that. Actually meet a few SP's for dinner as friends. Is just like any other friends. They actually have some interesting conveersion and you can talk about sex and other sex topics with them without feeling weird.
SPs are normal human and they have their past and their life. I am sure a lot of them do dream one day getting marry/or is already married. And some people brought up an important point if you are dating/married a SP never ever ever EVER! Bring her past into an argument. Because it will hurt them a lot and makes them question your relationship with them.
However, if it is being friends with them going out for a dinner/movies/coffee I have no issue with. Is their life they can do what they feel and I respect that. Actually meet a few SP's for dinner as friends. Is just like any other friends. They actually have some interesting conveersion and you can talk about sex and other sex topics with them without feeling weird.
SPs are normal human and they have their past and their life. I am sure a lot of them do dream one day getting marry/or is already married. And some people brought up an important point if you are dating/married a SP never ever ever EVER! Bring her past into an argument. Because it will hurt them a lot and makes them question your relationship with them.
Sigh I come home to an empty apartment everyday…… sometimes I do wonder sure I got a nice 2 bedroom apartment with no mortgage but is t it worth it. I worked 7 days a week for a few years when I just graduated to pay off my student loan and save up for a place.
But now I have that there is no one to share with…… yes SP can seem nice and friendly and maybe that's their personality but after the session is done is over.
I am happily 20 years married, and I promised myself I'm going to care for my wife as long as I or she is alive. I intend to fulfill that.
BUT
I routinely meet SPs I think are amazing women. That I could see myself wanting to date if my circumstance swere different.. or just wanting to be friends with.
It takes a certain kind of strength and force of personality to be a good high end SP. There are some amazing ladies out there.
BUT
I routinely meet SPs I think are amazing women. That I could see myself wanting to date if my circumstance swere different.. or just wanting to be friends with.
It takes a certain kind of strength and force of personality to be a good high end SP. There are some amazing ladies out there.
I have given up trying to figure out my relationship with my wife and my sp.
it really doesn't make any sense
but somehow that makes sense, emotions are fickled and what drives them who knows.
Im just going with it, or them, both of them
it really doesn't make any sense
but somehow that makes sense, emotions are fickled and what drives them who knows.
Im just going with it, or them, both of them
So glad I found this thread. Very interesting discussion which basically boils down to Love!
The way I see it the heart wants what the heart wants, whether she is an SP or the woman at the desk beside you in the office. If you feel love it matters less what they may have done for a living than how they make you feel for a lifetime.
The way I see it the heart wants what the heart wants, whether she is an SP or the woman at the desk beside you in the office. If you feel love it matters less what they may have done for a living than how they make you feel for a lifetime.
It would be great to marry a Service Provider that I saw, and we " Clicked". I would prefer that over just some random woman I met.
I have become friends with an SP I have known for a while. She says she doesn't want a relationship but her actions don't always indicate this, to my way of thinking anyway. She invited me over on Christmas Eve and we had a few drinks, she flashed her boobs at the kitchen table, I started to fondle them and we ended up in bed. Same thing has happened 7 or 8 times over the last couple months.
After we finished on Christmas Eve we layed in her bed for a bit and then I went and slept in the spare room, she prefers to sleep alone. I woke up around 7:30, got dressed and walked quietly past her room so as not to wake her, always do this when I sleep over. She was awake though and asked me if I wanted sex before I left. I told her I would very much like that. We had sex again then she put on a t shirt and came downstairs with me. I got my stuff together gave her a couple hugs, fondled her boobs some more and left. It was the first time that she wanted to have sex again in the morning when I slept over. One of my best Chriistmas mornings ever.
After we finished on Christmas Eve we layed in her bed for a bit and then I went and slept in the spare room, she prefers to sleep alone. I woke up around 7:30, got dressed and walked quietly past her room so as not to wake her, always do this when I sleep over. She was awake though and asked me if I wanted sex before I left. I told her I would very much like that. We had sex again then she put on a t shirt and came downstairs with me. I got my stuff together gave her a couple hugs, fondled her boobs some more and left. It was the first time that she wanted to have sex again in the morning when I slept over. One of my best Chriistmas mornings ever.
Sounds like you've got a fuck buddy- although mostly on her terms- that just happens to be an SP.
That's a good arrangement 'blaster if you can keep it real.
I had a similar thing develop with a pro several years ago. I cut it off because not paying made it offside (in my mind) to my marital circumstance.
In the course of the past 20 odd years I have thought seriously about a marital relationship with three women I came to know in their professional capacity. Each of them were amazing persons that were far too easy to be with and were relatively issue-free. All three were Chinese mainlanders, well-educated and from families who, whIle not super-rich, were what I would presume highly-functional professionals and they lived their lives in China well above a mere subsistence level.
In the way of background, lost my wife to cancer when our two children were still toddlers and while I was in position to afford more than adequate childcare and had great support from my family I had my hands full as a single parent. While I did date casually, I was always hesitant about attempting to develop a serious long-term relationship with an other woman because she would not just be getting me but also my two kids who would want to look to her as a mother. This situation generally works better in the fictional world of television or the movies than it does in realty where a considerable number of complications have to be resolved without the benefit of a sympathetic scriptwriter. In any event, I refrained from physical intimacies with casual dates on the basis that I could not fool myself or the woman into thinking that there would be anything more than a casual friendship, hoping perhaps when my kids got older and required much less of me in there lives there would be time for me to explore the prospect of a lasting relationship.
Bad mistake.
The passing of time is a funny thing and I suspect photoshopped the memory I had of my wonderful wife into some ideal iconic being that could possibly be a less-than-positive presence in any relationship I might have with another women.
And on the other hand, maybe, to my discredit I just didn't have the courage to commit to any other woman again.....Indeed, there is a certain safety in solitude that maybe I take comfort in. Hence, my resorting to working girls where permanency is neither expected nor presumed.
Each of the three women that I considered as a long-term partner came with a child that while not a negative consideration, it was not a factor that caused me a great amount of enthusiasm.
In any event, two of the three no longer live in Vancouver, though I do keep up with them on occasion via email and the like. They have moved on and appear to be content with their lives, and I am happy for them....But I do miss their presence in my life.
The third woman I still see and we remain very close but more as 'brother and sister' than anything resembling passionate lovers.
At the end of the day, I have few regrets. I can say that I would have been very comfortable and even proud to have introduced any one of them to my family, friends, professional acquaintances,etc. They all came with a highly-developed social skill-set and an engaging personality; and through my relationship with each of them they have made me a better person. In the absence of a Hollywood happy-ending, I can't complain.
In the way of background, lost my wife to cancer when our two children were still toddlers and while I was in position to afford more than adequate childcare and had great support from my family I had my hands full as a single parent. While I did date casually, I was always hesitant about attempting to develop a serious long-term relationship with an other woman because she would not just be getting me but also my two kids who would want to look to her as a mother. This situation generally works better in the fictional world of television or the movies than it does in realty where a considerable number of complications have to be resolved without the benefit of a sympathetic scriptwriter. In any event, I refrained from physical intimacies with casual dates on the basis that I could not fool myself or the woman into thinking that there would be anything more than a casual friendship, hoping perhaps when my kids got older and required much less of me in there lives there would be time for me to explore the prospect of a lasting relationship.
Bad mistake.
The passing of time is a funny thing and I suspect photoshopped the memory I had of my wonderful wife into some ideal iconic being that could possibly be a less-than-positive presence in any relationship I might have with another women.
And on the other hand, maybe, to my discredit I just didn't have the courage to commit to any other woman again.....Indeed, there is a certain safety in solitude that maybe I take comfort in. Hence, my resorting to working girls where permanency is neither expected nor presumed.
Each of the three women that I considered as a long-term partner came with a child that while not a negative consideration, it was not a factor that caused me a great amount of enthusiasm.
In any event, two of the three no longer live in Vancouver, though I do keep up with them on occasion via email and the like. They have moved on and appear to be content with their lives, and I am happy for them....But I do miss their presence in my life.
The third woman I still see and we remain very close but more as 'brother and sister' than anything resembling passionate lovers.
At the end of the day, I have few regrets. I can say that I would have been very comfortable and even proud to have introduced any one of them to my family, friends, professional acquaintances,etc. They all came with a highly-developed social skill-set and an engaging personality; and through my relationship with each of them they have made me a better person. In the absence of a Hollywood happy-ending, I can't complain.
I just don't see what all the fuss is about marrying a working girl? She's a woman just like the other three and a half billion on this planet. North America is such a puritan continent. I mean if you love someone, you love someone, it really shouldn't matter if yhey work on Wall street or they sell hot dogs on Granville street in my way of thinking. As someone who's been in serious relationships with both sp's and civilians there really isn't any difference. And if you have issues with being with an sp then those are your hang ups not hers. The last serious relationship I was in was with an sp and we had a great relationship with a lot of trust and no jealousy. The fact that she was an sp wasn't what sank the relationship. I think what ultimately sank it was that I became complacent in the relationship and started taking her for granted.
Lesson learned on my part. If you're the jealous type, then getting involved with an sp isn't for you, actually being in any relationship isn't going to work until you deal with that. Just don't go into it thinking that you're going to "save" her.
Lesson learned on my part. If you're the jealous type, then getting involved with an sp isn't for you, actually being in any relationship isn't going to work until you deal with that. Just don't go into it thinking that you're going to "save" her.
If this is true, I am so fucked. :faint2: Might as well start packing my bags :Cry:
