*~* looks, attitude or service? *~*

[Cami Parker]

Agree...
That's how I rank the men in my personal life.
Just be fun and great in bed... And not a total troll. Lol
Let me worry about the looks side if this equation lol!

I'm a happy man if I get amazing service, stellar attitude from an attractive enthusiastic female.

So L = 6 and up with S & A = 9 or 10 makes BBB give a :thumb:

 

[Cami Parker]

Nothing worse than an SP who acts like she's being paid to be there. I don't care how hot or great in bed you are. That's just lame. Part of the fun of having sex is feeling sexy a desirable (at least for me) not like someone is doing you a favor. When I used to engage in civilian relationships, I always ended up breaking up w guys because they couldn't keep up with me in bed and always ended up acting like they were so exhausted an sex was such a hassle which really pissed me off... That's when I realized it wasn't fair of me to put the expectation of satisfying my physical needs on one man alone. Just too big a burden, not fair and probably not even possible.....
"It's not you, it's my vagina!" Lol

A hot woman with a bad attitude and shifty service is a horrible experience.

A lady with great service who is not hot and has a bad attitude is almost equally as bad.

A lady with a great attitude shifty service and is not hot isn't really worth seeing.

It has to be two or more together that works best.

Great attitude and stellar service can make up for a lady not being drop dead gorgeous.

However a bad attitude and or bad service can't really be made up for by being hot plus one of the others.
Like bad attitude but hot and great service. Mood killer
Bad service but hot and a great attitude generally equals no repeat.

Best dates are of course always hot lady, stellar service and fantastic attitude. That's your A game and we are lucky that most of the ladies pull that all off.

 

[hankmoody]

That's so funny. Do you ever watch Seinfeld? It's my favorite. There's this one episode ehere Herry is dating Feorge's ex who he actually can't stand but is extremely sexually attracted to. There's a scene where he's playing chess with himself, on one side dressed as his penis and on the other side dressed as his brain, arguing with his penis about how terribly obnoxious she is and no matter how wonderful it may be for penis, brain is seriously disgusted. It's a pretty epic battle lol

I've had that exact same experience in real life. Every bone in my body was screaming leave except one. It was weird.

All 3 but attitude, service and looks in that order if you want an order.

 

[P_e_r_b]

I thought you were talking about personal relationships, but come to think of it, yes. I suppose the same thing applies to professionals too. As far as skills, the expectation is a little higher on the pros of course. It's sort of like going to a Zagat rated restaurant. Comfort food won't do. It's got to be something exotic and completely satiating.

When I used to engage in civilian relationships, I always ended up breaking up w guys because they couldn't keep up with me in bed and always ended up acting like they were so exhausted an sex was such a hassle which really pissed me off... That's when I realized it wasn't fair of me to put the expectation of satisfying my physical needs on one man alone. Just too big a burden, not fair and probably not even possible.....
"It's not you, it's my vagina!" Lol

It really is hard to keep up. Personally, I don't mind my significant other having other guys (as long as I know about it) cause everybody's appetite varies. I just don't like secrets (that far more "cheating" than the physical stuff). Again, that's just me.

 

[Dickson]

Attitude attitude attitude. With the right attitude résulte in Great service. Appearance although important it Is the attitude. For me.

 

[Cami Parker]

I totally agree 100%!! To me "cheating" has nothing to do with sexually monogamy and everything to do with honesty and communication...
I don't think I would want to put a man in a position where he felt like he had to lie to me, such as placing the expectation of sexual monogamy on him. It's biology! "spread your seed! Spread your seed!"
Kinda like how a lot of civilian women have "mate for life! Mate for life!" In their heads... No getting around it...

 

[Cami Parker]

I agree Dixon! That's why I had such a lovely time with you and VV !

Attitude attitude attitude. With the right attitude résulte in Great service. Appearance although important it Is the attitude. For me.

 

[Cami Parker]

Oh, I was talking about both, or either... Whatever. Totally cool that you think so progressively!

I thought you were talking about personal relationships, but come to think of it, yes. I suppose the same thing applies to professionals too. As far as skills, the expectation is a little higher on the pros of course. It's sort of like going to a Zagat rated restaurant. Comfort food won't do. It's got to be something exotic and completely satiating.




It really is hard to keep up. Personally, I don't mind my significant other having other guys (as long as I know about it) cause everybody's appetite varies. I just don't like secrets (that far more "cheating" than the physical stuff). Again, that's just me.

 

[future canadian]

Hey, hey!
I've always thought that, if I was a man, I would order them service, then attitude, then looks. just because I would much rather be with someone who was a 6 in looks and a 10 in service than vice versa.

What if you thought she was a 7 at the door but after the session, her sunny personality made her a 9? I won't lie, I book based on what I kind physically. With me, a really fun lady will get a bump up in the looks department from the time I see her open the door until I waltz away happy as she is kissing me goodbye.

 

[escapefromstress]

What if you thought she was a 7 at the door but after the session, her sunny personality made her a 9? I won't lie, I book based on what I kind physically. With me, a really fun lady will get a bump up in the looks department from the time I see her open the door until I waltz away happy as she is kissing me goodbye.

We were discussing this on terb the other day. I've seen many reviews that refer to the fact that the client thought the SP was only 'average' looking at first, but noticed that she became more 'beautiful/attractive' as the session progressed. Maybe the chemicals flooding his brain also affected how he saw his partner, or maybe a sexually aroused/satisfied woman really is more attractive.

 

[Cami Parker]

agree completely... personality totally affects looks in my eyes. The worst is when you think someones super hot but after 5 minutes they're entirely insufferable. ugh. Can not get away faster...

What if you thought she was a 7 at the door but after the session, her sunny personality made her a 9? I won't lie, I book based on what I kind physically. With me, a really fun lady will get a bump up in the looks department from the time I see her open the door until I waltz away happy as she is kissing me goodbye.

 

[Cami Parker]

It's business, not personal!
A restaurant isn't a chunk of meat either, but we all love Zagat's! :high5:
Personally, I like the system because I think it encourages more SP's to strive for excellence in customer satisfaction.

I don't go for that numbered system, I'm a human being, not a chunk of meat!